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i must sleep with the woman i want 2 marry before taking her 2 the alter to be sure~

we testdrive cars b4 we buy em,

Seriously, this comparing women to cars or intimacy to test driving is rather irrational don't you think?
I find it rather insulting that this comparison is made - are women now objects? Does respect or emotions and feelings now mean nothing?!
Intimacy is meant to be sacred and meaningful because it produces babies - the most sacred thing we can do as humans - producing life. But yet is used and abused and reduced to nothing more than a mere pleasure producing exercise!

Any man that tells me that he wants to 'test' me has no respect for me or my body and is simply Hot.

Justify your actions if you must, but deep down we all know the truth!

well all said
1 ladies are not cars,toys,property you test drive
2 its morally wrong spiritually unclean

my take to this is simple ladies feel ur guy not necessary sex
while guys romance is just the tonic to know how indept sexually she is,
Sexdoc say so

Sex before marriage may be pleasurable in quote maybe for a man. but as for being a lady i dont think i would be able to look up at the man withouy feelings of being used or being ashamed. above all what about God? God 4bid