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Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 8:41am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Oreofepeters: Mr Man if u nofit hol body go and marry U must be a christian so go and look at I Corinthians 6:18------ where d Holy Bible said flee fornication Everybody cannot be loose like u So if u no fit hol body go and marry.....period
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Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by temmythourpe(f): 8:49am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Sit him down and tell him how you feel or if you cannot sit him down and tell him how u feel use d old method, write a letter nd give him to read in front of you, dont be insultive or complain, d way u talk goes a long way. Be calm no mata wat, den view his reply. How did he respond, did he open up to you and tell u d main issues, if he does and try to change, dont give up on him, pray for him and be calm wiv him, buh if he is non challant and still doesnt care abt ur opinion or ow u feel. Leave, dats a toxic relationship. You will find a better man. Believe in urself first b4 any other person will believe in you |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by trilobite: 8:56am On Mar 09, 2018 |
tosyne2much: Ah!! Tosin get babe?!!!! Isalie!!!! |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Obdk: 9:02am On Mar 09, 2018 |
[quote author=jbaby265 post=65673186]hello house please help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash.. I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries.. in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though).. [/quote believe me d fight will fizzle out once u get married. it happens especially long term relationship. over familiarity wit need for change. d challenge and joy of marriage will change every thing for u guys believe me. I'm in a long term relationship too. we fight often and love eachother like mad. but we kno we re meant to be. and re not worried. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by opelyem(m): 9:03am On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265: At first, I thought it is my fiancee that is posting about our relationship. But reading through your comments, I doubt it is her. Anyways, suppose you break up and found another man, how many months will you court to know his characters which might be worst than ur current man? Aunty, the truth is long term relationship always show these traits. Try to work on things you are doing that is contributing to the toxicity in ur relationship. If he stayed this 7 years, he really wants to marry you. STOP FEELING INSECURE. Above all, what man wants from his woman is peace, please give it to him. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by YoungDaNaval(m): 9:14am On Mar 09, 2018 |
genghiskhan007:Receive sense!!! |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:15am On Mar 09, 2018 |
opelyem: thank you sir |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:17am On Mar 09, 2018 |
[quote author=Obdk post=65685995][/quote] I use to have that feeling too.. that everything will be fine once we tie the knot.. thanks |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by showstopperss(m): 9:17am On Mar 09, 2018 |
my dear...i feel your pain,but my question is have you both discussed the issue? communication is key, if you both really love another as said then you both has to take up responsibilities and COMMITMENT towards it to make it work, perhaps he or you is doing something the other does not like and you have not discussed it which will be building towers of anger inside your heart, even social factor this days is not helping but my candid advice is ensure you guys communicate, talk about whatsoever diff causing the issue and be ready to change for the good, marriage is for life and many things will pop up that will always bring issue but when you have a forgiven heart towards each other,all is well |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:18am On Mar 09, 2018 |
HerXLNC: God bless you real good |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:19am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Unlimited22: wow.. thank you so much |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 09, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval: I should b d one telling u that, anyway.......
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Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:25am On Mar 09, 2018 |
kc2hansome: thanks but I don't do any of the above.. we both invested do damn much..reasons we find it difficult to separate.. Ego is our major problem I must say |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 9:30am On Mar 09, 2018 |
franchasng: finance YES .. thank you So much 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by OhiOfIhima: 9:31am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Nwaohafia1:Madam, If you are priviledge to have a fruitful relatnshp dont castigate dose who doesnt.. At a point she said they love each other vr well, in a sane society where tins is working fine, it is sweet to get marry wen love is at it peak, for her case like wen they are 2-3yrs in relatnshp. Trust me, dey wish to but d situation surround make it impossible. D lady I dated for 4yrs now ex, wen we are 1-2yrs in friendship, I knw how we love each other but I can sacrify my Education den for her, so I need to let her go. Though she hasnt marry yet but I cant take her back again because she has mess up a big time... Nobody has intention of wasting time in getting marry if condition is favourable. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Temperance7(f): 9:43am On Mar 09, 2018 |
I want you to understand that this love of a thing, relationship, marriage, is a decision. It is not based on feelings or emotions or what should be. It is based on decisions the both of you make. It is time to sit down and evaluate, cross check and understand what both of you really want. You may need to give him some time too, to sort himself out and you too use that time to sort yourself out. Get busy, when you're idle you become too conscious of unnecessary things. Be busy adding value to yourself, let him see for himself what he'll be missing by losing you. Finally it is never too late to start again. Never be scared to break up. If he is not deserving of you, then let another come. God bless you. Peace |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by umuna(m): 9:56am On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265: |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by tosyne2much(m): 10:01am On Mar 09, 2018 |
divineappo:Oyah mention her name let me see how smart you are |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by tosyne2much(m): 10:04am On Mar 09, 2018 |
trilobite:Baba go soon marry ooooo |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Funkybabee(f): 10:13am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Na wedding expensens dey make him got angry jare Sit him down and ask for anyway way u can help him with |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by divineappo(m): 10:14am On Mar 09, 2018 |
tosyne2much:Lol sorry not her name, but her monicker u may not want me to do that bro or should I? am the guy u had a chat with, regarding BitCoin u remember! I told u she is cute for u u used the DP of both of standing together, u wore a short-sleeve shirt u remember? |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by empressruky(f): 10:21am On Mar 09, 2018 |
my one penny advice, change your approach towards him. Make it look like you are starting your relationship all over again, send him romantic text when he least expects it, make him feel like a king. Do something new to spice up your relationship and don't hurt his ego. All these problems are arising cos you are about to enter marriage phase. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by prayer280(f): 10:40am On Mar 09, 2018 |
madridguy:Good one there, more-so don't stop praying over it, be careful it is better to remain single maintain a good character and wait for a right partner than to die untimely death in the name of am married. marriage is not what you go into without checking yourself very well, check your attitude, correct what needs to be corrected, allow him to score you while you also score yourself in some area, does he really love you? or is it only you that loves him? don't ignore facts cos you want to please yourself today and cry tomorrow. Am not a marriage counselor but I have been making people that i know to remain happily married and building the mind of the about to marries tell them what to expect and how to handle it cos i love to see happily married people. cos a good home makes a good leader of tomorrow, my ears stand whenever i hear any negative discussion that is related to about to get married or already married" you are blessed. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by tosyne2much(m): 11:53am On Mar 09, 2018 |
divineappo:Hehehe I remember.. Bad guy |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by noziz(m): 12:03pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
7yrs relationship. assuming you guys sex 2* a day, in a week u sex 2*7=14times now in a month u sex 4*14=56times in year a year u sex 56*12=672times. it means in 7yrs u guys sex 672*7=4704 Chai!!! the young man try sef. the pussy don finally tire ham. e clear sey e no dey get pleasure with u again. to him ur pussy has expired!!! |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by divineappo(m): 1:03pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by djoey89: 1:10pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
it is just a case of over familiarity. the relationship is getting boring, the initial spark is not there, i always tell people that Love is not enough in a relationship, it is understanding and seeing the person as a friend, because you cant get bored with a friend. you guys should discuss about it or break up if it continues. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by HerXLNC(f): 2:01pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265: Amen dear |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Oreofepeters: 2:49pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
[quote author=genghiskhan007 post=65685389] Mr Man if u nofit hol body go and marry U must be a christian so go and look at I Corinthians 6:18------ where d Holy Bible said flee fornication Everybody cannot be loose like u So if u no fit hol body go and marry.....period[m/quote] Mr. man no be only you sabi Bible o, I'm a Bible student nd teacher as well. I wasn't speaking based on my experience or based on what I've done. But based on our society status quo. I know it's clearly written in the Bible and everyone does "abstain from sexual immorality. However a lot people have neglected it, you wan tell me say people wey dey have sex before marriage no know say na sin? Or pesin after marriage still go bleep another woman for outside no know say na sin?:.: Forgeti the society we are has neglected good morals hence imbibing lifestyles of the Western world. If you dey quote Bible here from now till tomorrow no fit change am. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Oreofepeters: 3:14pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
genghiskhan007: Mr. Man no be only you sabi Bible o, I'm a Bible student nd teacher as well so bleep up. But then i wasn't speaking based on my experience or based on what I've done. But based on our society status quo. I know it's clearly written in the Bible and everyone does "abstain from sexual immorality. However a lot people have neglected it, you wan tell me say people wey dey have sex before marriage no know say na sin? Or pesin after marriage still go bleep another woman for outside no know say na sin?:.: Forgeti the society we are has neglected good morals hence imbibing lifestyles of the Western world. If you dey quote Bible here from now till tomorrow no fit change am. People won't listen |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by wait: 6:06pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
Talk to him and express your emotions towards everything going on calmly, if his finding it difficult to open up, give it time, you might just be in the right or wrong relationship, a decision will be an answer |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265: I spoke from personal experience dear. I almost lost my lady. She has won my heart forever for standing strong I hope you both pull through 1 Like |
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