Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

If you dont get to hear or see what people are going through ,you wont get to understand the extent of heart break people go through. Imagine waiting for a man who put you in a family way and end up being dumped. I do not support men planning to travel to a new place to just leave their newly married wife at home.

Dear Lively Stones ,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldn't find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south African woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/

My dear , just move on with your life.

Some day , your daughter will search for you.

z11111:
Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

If you dont get to hear or see what people are going through ,you wont get to understand the extent of heart break people go through. Imagine waiting for a man who put you in a family way and end up being dumped. I do not support men planning to travel to a new place to just leave their newly married wife at home.

Dear Lively Stones ,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldn't find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south African woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/

z11111:
Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

If you dont get to hear or see what people are going through ,you wont get to understand the extent of heart break people go through. Imagine waiting for a man who put you in a family way and end up being dumped. I do not support men planning to travel to a new place to just leave their newly married wife at home.

Dear Lively Stones ,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldn't find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south African woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/

wow

This is serious wickedness

bobokeshington:


wow

z11111:
Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

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i didnt read past this post

Congratulations !!

dukeprince50:


i didnt read past this post

easier said than done. its her blood. wont be easy to let go like that

liquidlove2018:
My dear , just move on with your life.

Some day , your daughter will search for you.

Yes but since the situation is like this ,she has to move on for now. I noe it's not easy but that's the case now.

Beke2020:
easier said than done. its her blood. wont be easy to let go like that

Yes but , What to do , like the indians would say ?

She just has to move on.

preciousluv2018:
Yes but since the situation is like this ,she has to move on for now. I noe it's not easy but that's the case now.