Splinz:
Dear 39 year old woman...

You're free to go into the world and fvck your kitty out without marriage. But mbok, do not drag the name of Christianity into it.

However, if you feel your nunu tickles every now and then and wets you like the Atlantic, and you still want to be part of what ever is called 'Christianity', you may consider doing the right thing.

Dazzol.

amnesty7:
Your life, your choice. But two things are sure:
1. your biology remains that of humans, and
2. whatever decision you make has a future price.

QueenSuccubus:



Marriage is NOT the answer all the time..So many women around the world married an abusive man & despite with all these pains they endured, still they remain in their husband's side...

She's 39, She got kids...Men will come & go but the important is, what makes her really happy..

liquidlove2018:
So ,its sex that makes her really happy?

She should also know that , being in a relationship with a man can be abusive.

Staying with a man without marriage can be abusive.

QueenSuccubus:



Is it only SEX will be the ultimate happiness achievement someone can get?

I DONT THINK SO sha...

Martin0:


relationship is not all about sex but in marriage hmm it is I think so

QueenSuccubus:



When u gonna settle down with Miss Lao Xi ?

QueenSuccubus:



When u gonna settle down with Miss Lao Xi ?

QueenSuccubus:



When u gonna settle down with Miss Lao Xi ?

QueenSuccubus:



Is it only SEX will be the ultimate happiness achievement someone can get?

I DONT THINK SO sha...

Martin0:


chilax ee I don't won't some lazy woman who's gonna cry when it time to work miss lao xi should go, lemme test u na to know if u are sweet,maybe I fit change mind

Martin0:


add me up on whasapp

QueenSuccubus:



Aha! Someone wants some goodies even it's not Christmas yet

Martin0:


eheh come de oza room I wanna tell u something, I have something to share with you, very important.

QueenSuccubus:





Lemme tell u something..cost of living in Singapore is very expensive..Sometimes i cry as well sha due to heavy workloads..it's quite exhausting when u can't get a break to eat or chat...


yeah am very aware of the situation there

But NL keeps me laughing all the time..its my little doze of Craziness...

liquidlove2018:
Hooking up things ? loool

liquidlove2018:
Dear Admin,

I am a 39 year old woman. I got married at the age of 25.My husband of twelve years died three years ago after a very difficult marriage. My marriage was a difficult one cos my husband was abusive,physically and emotionally. I was very unhappy for most of my marriage. I stayed because of my children. My husband died of cancer three years ago.

After his death,men started coming for me. I was still looking very young and attractive. I started to date again after two years of mourning. But the problem I have now is,I dont want to remarry again. I am a christian and I am not sure its okay to be having sex with someone you are not married to.

I met this man in church a few months ago,he is fine,handsome and well to do. He treats me and my kids very well. We have been dating for about six months and he wants to marry me but I dont want to marry anymore. I feel I have been married long enough for a lifetime. But Gbenga wouldnt want to be with me if we were not married. Its not like I am a virgin. Why cant I be with a man without getting married? Is this such a sin that will make someone not go to heaven?

Being married for 12 years was very painful for me and I have decided that marriage is not for me. No matter how nice a man is,he may want to control you and as a wife you must submit. I feel I cannot do that anymore. I have tried . My people think I am crazy,the church thinks ..

http://livelystones.com.ng/single-widowed-i-have-needs-but-marriage-is-not-the-answer/

Martin0:


hahahahah na WA ooo

QueenSuccubus:


I added u oredi ooo...

Martin0:


your thoughts

Martin0:


I nor see u oo send message

QueenSuccubus:





This WhatsApp is messing up sha... It's been yesterday they don't delelivered the message on time unless u have to open ur WhatsApp...

greiboy:

I don't know why you want some moral validation for something you are already doing?

You are already sleeping with a man you are not married to, so what type of moral justification do you want from random people in the cyberspace,

How on earth can we guarantee your passage to heaven?

on the marriage issue though

I think you should understand that those men asking for your hand in marriage have a different moral compass and future ambition from you. Thus, they might look for someone else to marry them soon, if they notice that you aren't interested

In addition, you should remember that age (39) is not on your side and you have a baggage (children).

So soon you might not be lucky enough to meet the type of guys you desire.

You know what they say "the older you get the smaller your window of opportunities"

In any event, the ball is on your court. Choose the option that will make you the happiest

QueenSuccubus:





This WhatsApp is messing up sha... It's been yesterday they don't delelivered the message on time unless u have to open ur WhatsApp...

Splinz:
Dear 39 year old woman...

You're free to go into the world and fvck your kitty out without marriage. But mbok, do not drag the name of Christianity into it.

However, if you feel your nunu tickles every now and then and wets you like the Atlantic, and you still want to be part of what ever is called 'Christianity', you may consider doing the right thing.

Dazzol.

Beke2020:
you just spoke my mind