TheUpsetGirl:
I dedicate this thread to all the ladies on Nairaland currently contemplating on dating or marrying a broke guy... please think very well before you make certain decisions, don't make Decisions that you'll regret later in life. don't think about dating a broke guy, many ladies that are dating or married to broke guys are regretting their decisions today. nothing justifies being with a broke guy. he has no future, he's just wasting your time. Thanks


and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly. that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..




BTW,truly no lady whether independent or not would like to marry or date a broke guy... men get attracted to a lady by beauty not independence.... as long as you're beauty and you're a graduate, bitch don't stress yourself! rich guys will be in haste to date or marry you... any lady that says she can date a broke guy is either deceiving herself, she's saying it for likes or she's mad and got no class... imagine if a broke guy dumps you, wtf after managing his broke ass he ain't humble... it's better you get dumped by a rich guy than by a poor guy. thanks... goodnight �



a mod banned my other account (theUpsetGirl1) because I insulted a troll.. broke trolls pls don't tempt me here

TheUpsetGirl:
I dedicate this thread to all the ladies on Nairaland currently contemplating on dating or marrying a broke guy... please think very well before you make certain decisions, don't make Decisions that you'll regret later in life. don't think about dating a broke guy, many ladies that are dating or married to broke guys are regretting their decisions today. nothing justifies being with a broke guy. he has no future, he's just wasting your time. Thanks


and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly. that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..




BTW,truly no lady whether independent or not would like to marry or date a broke guy... men get attracted to a lady by beauty not independence.... as long as you're beauty and you're a graduate, bitch don't stress yourself! rich guys will be in haste to date or marry you... any lady that says she can date a broke guy is either deceiving herself, she's saying it for likes or she's mad and got no class... imagine if a broke guy dumps you, wtf after managing his broke ass he ain't humble... it's better you get dumped by a rich guy than by a poor guy. thanks... goodnight �



a mod banned my other account (theUpsetGirl1) because I insulted a troll.. broke trolls pls don't tempt me here

RuthDaniels:


When did dating become a calculative thing for fvck sake?

DrinkLimca:
some of these ladies that shouts don't date broke guys have fathers that are broke and stinkingly poor..

So if your mothers can stay with your broke fathers,, and she stood by him and they gave birth to you and your siblings..

It means life and marriage is more than money.

Our forefathers and mothers that were not rich, they were farmers and yet they lived happily ever after,, It means their marriage were not centered on money..

Ladies that thinks marriage is all about the guy must be rich, these ladies don't last in marriages because what happens if the supposed rich man go broke?

They cheat with other rich men..

Remember a broke guy can become a billionaire tomorrow..

The wives of 99% of billionaires all over the world started from scratch with their billionaire husbands..

Those that rushes into the house of already made rich men usually end up divorced,, examples are Carolina danjuma and co.

farouk0403:
This woman don kolo




Abi your Biscuit business don crash ni?




Biscuit seller


See her lame excuse " My Ex bf owns a Lexus bla bla bla"



Broke ass bi!tch keep enjoying your 13k chicken change



Do you call that money?

XhosaNostra:
Not a single lie detected.

kimbraa:
I beg you in the name of God. There's more to marriages now than love 'cause love is never really enough and money gives one a level of comfort. Don't get my comment twisted 'cause I don't espouse entirely to the write-up. I don't always look at the negative sides of criticism. Most of you should look at the positive sides of any critic directed at you, and not get fixated on the negative aspect of it.

Hope you don't tell your sisters to marry anything that comes their way 'cause your mother wasn't selective else what I see with this mindset is a generational poverty. You can always do better than your fathers/mothers. That said, I believe that as people advance with a consistent effort to add value to themselves, they end up attracting their likes. On that note, ladies shouldn't seat down, fold their arms in wait for a rich guy 'cause it's only on rare occasions that rich dudes date/marry ladies with nothing to offer.

TheUpsetGirl:
dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys. They are nothing but bad news.

1. One of the reasons you shouldn’t punish yourself with such guys is that they have no business dating in the first place. What can someone who hasn’t figured out his life offer you as a woman?

2. If a man doesn’t know where he’s headed in life or what he wants to do to make money, what does he need you for? He should go and figure out his life first before looking for where to sweat and release his semen. Being broke is not a virtue.

3. Dating a broke guy is bad. Don’t do that to yourself especially if you are an ambitious, hardworking and successful lady. Don’t listen to people who tell you that maybe God brought you into his life to lift him out of the pit of financial lack. You are not Jesus. You can only support him but you can’t make money on his behalf. He needs to do that himself.

4. A broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. You don’t expect a woman to love you when you don’t even love your broke self. Instead of mounting pressure on your woman to put up with you when you are broke, go and make legit money.

5. A woman shouldn’t be expected to bear the burden of a broke man. That’s unfair. Even an independent woman who is not interested in a man’s money doesn’t have to settle for a man who is broke. She needs a man who is focused, one who has vision and the one who knows what he wants out of life and not one who can’t even take care of himself.

6. Ladies, you won’t be at peace dating a broke guy. He will keep complaining about your clothes, your hair, your house and the things you can afford. He will emotionally blackmail you with his inability to catch up with you financially. Stay away from such distraction.

7. A broke man will claim that the reason you keep talking to him anyhow is that you are richer than him. Let him go far. You don’t need such a man around you. He will destroy your destiny with his broke, inferior self. Leave him alone to go find his level before he uses his reggae to spoil your blues.

8. Ladies, don’t be carried away by emotions. Love doesn’t pay house rent, pay for power bills, hospital bills or buy foodstuffs. Love without money is punishment. You must stay away from that kind of love. If he doesn’t fit into your lifestyle and plans for the future, leave him alone. You shouldn’t be punishing yourself like that.

9. A broke man needs time alone to figure out his life and not go about dumping his frustrations on different women in the name of dating. You may jump into conclusion that girls don’t want to date broke guys because they have nothing to offer financially, but no girl came to this world to suffer on behalf of any man. The relationship will be full of anger, frustrations and unnecessary fights. Who needs all that stress in Nigeria of today?

10. A relationship with a broke guy is boring. There’s nothing exciting about moaning and complaining about money when the guy is doing nothing to change his condition. When your mates are going out with their men, showing them proudly to everyone they meet, you are stuck with your broke guy indoors sweating. Even sex with him is hell.

11. Dating a broke guy means courting disgrace. It is annoying that he is not buying you things, but he feels entitled to complain about the things you buy for yourself. Whether you want to hear it or not, money will cause fight between you and your broke boyfriend. Little things will cause big fights when a broke man is in the mix. The stress is not worth it. Let him date himself.

12. It is funny that broke guys demand excessive respect. Even rich guys who can afford to buy expensive things for their women don’t demand too much respect as broke guys do. They have this false sense of entitlement that makes putting up with their lack of money hard. The issue is not being broke but demanding respect when you don’t offer your woman anything but anger and frustration. 

13. Nigerian guys are quick to insult girls who say they can’t date  broke men. Instead of focusing their energy on making money, they are tearing their boxers over a woman’s decision to stay away from broke guys. If you are broke, you don’t have a business dating a woman. You will add to her problems. Sort yourself out first.

14. Ladies, you shouldn’t be sleeping with a broke guy. You have no business sharing a bed with a guy who has nothing to offer himself. You have to love yourself enough to stay away from broke guys. It is a waste of time.

15. Even if you feel age is no longer on your side and you must be in a relationship or get married by fire or by force, don’t go close to a broke guy. If you eventually marry him after months or years of scheming and putting up with his many dramas, you will regret it.

16. Dating a broke guy means walking on egg shells. These guys ooze out low self esteem and they will infect you with it. You will be constantly careful not to make them feel bad for not having money. They won’t understand why you have to go out or meet a new client or expand your business. They complain a lot and before you know it, they get aggressive. A broke guy has a fragile ego that you must keep massaging just to make him feel better.

17. I am not saying that you must marry a rich man or go out of your way to capture a rich man. I am saying that you must love yourself enough not to put up with a broke, entitled man who is not doing anything to change his situation. You are not his saviour. You are not God. You cannot help him if he doesn’t take the initiative to help himself.

Ladies, please don’t allow the pressure to get married push you into the hands of these boys who are broke but demand respect like it is going out of fashion. If you want to live a long, peaceful life, leave broke guys alone.Dating a broke guy is a big sin!.



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