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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Nedfed(m): 1:36pm On Mar 25, 2018
Forget even if it is a SIN or not
1. If ur wife was unable to satisfy u like dos porn stars u watch togeda, what will u do?
You'll later cheat on her for sure.
2. If she saw the way some porn stars are doing 3 sum she may try to do such with other men be ur brothers or friends.

Note: must of the porn videos Bleep will do watch are done by the prostitutes. I pray our wife pvssy and asshole is not as big has dos people will watch on Bleep.
Happy palm sunday
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Audray(f): 1:36pm On Mar 25, 2018
Are you ASKING a question or FORCING your opinion on people?

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by veacea: 1:37pm On Mar 25, 2018
Go to www.xvideos.com you will see a video I did about marriage and porn. Thank me later

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by hotplate: 1:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
if you know already why then are you asking?

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by des4ella(m): 1:40pm On Mar 25, 2018
How come you know so much about porn
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Rainmaker69(m): 1:41pm On Mar 25, 2018
I hope OP is married. This issue is quite complex and may even require some practical experience. Sex and sexuality are topics that are treated with udue mystery, even among married folk in the church. The truth is that the bible doesn't provide express regulations for every possible sexual scenario. Yes, I know Jesus says not to look at a woman lustfully, but is there a context to that statement? What is the mens rea (the mental state of mind) Jesus referred to?.
If we can have honest conversations about these issues, I'm sure we would avoid some needless divorces.
Let's not be in a hurry to prescribe simplistic rules for the complex issues of our time.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by bebe2(f): 1:41pm On Mar 25, 2018
All this long Epistle for prick and Toto matter??

Can u write this much on wat really matters? Like how to achieve 24hrs electricity, good roads, elevating our standard of education etc.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Revolva(m): 1:44pm On Mar 25, 2018
stewpid question so married people r children abi
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by rockcitie: 1:49pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.

And in your mind you believe you have made sense. You're actually justifying adultery. Pls go & bury your head in shame.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Steviewonder(m): 1:51pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.


So married people in the adultery act won't go to hell ..
Mehn time to get married and sin legally

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Pchizy: 1:58pm On Mar 25, 2018
Tiffbuxas:
All this for porn? For married people?..
I simply feel porn is a movie rated above 18.... Same with bbnaija.
If the couple want to use it spice their sex life let God judge..... Like you said they re married what I they do in the other room is their biz.
And for size she can know all dat without porn believe me

There's a big difference between a Christian home and otherwise. If you really want to raise a godly family, then, you would have understood the post.
This generation waits to hear their Pastor condemn it before they agree. Some will still be looking for where it is condemned in the Bible.
They never want anything about the cross.
If you "really genuinely want to establish God in your life" as single or as couple,, nobody will dictate twice for you that Porn is devilish.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by AngelicBeing: 2:03pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.
sad
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Kotodoctor: 2:04pm On Mar 25, 2018
Era of enlightenment sha, you no go kill person. Bible warn us not to be wise in our own eyes. I don't think knowledge is the problem, now I think too much of it.

How is looking at another man and woman having sex not canal enough to be considered sin?. I mean you are starring at another person sexing. Ok! Let me break it down.

Jesus say just looking at a woman lust fully is already a sin. Just considering the thing ooo. With full clothes on..

Abeg make una use bible standard to judge as christians. Because if we wan reason things our way, error go full am.

Plus maybe if the church stop teaching less about tithes, and more about consecration, santifications, restitution and the rest.. we will stop having this senseless christian debates.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Pchizy: 2:11pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.

Father!
What a generation.

"... if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin..."

Who has fed us?
Why the wind continues to blow many away is because we are full of religion. Only going to Church, fighting for denomination etc can never save a man. It will only feed you with such knowledge.
Note : Christ is the truth.
Only truth will make a man free from heresy.
You can be going to Church, even answer a Pastor, function in Church, yet you don't know the truth. Until you accept Christ as your Lord and personal savior,, evident in your lifestyle and not just saying it.
It is at this point that you will really understand that marriage is beyond physical, beyond child bearing etc.
I'm not surprise, because a carnal man will view anything with a carnal mind. But a man of the Spirit discerns the things of the Spirit.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Burgerlomo: 2:12pm On Mar 25, 2018
NothingDoMe:
Its wrong. The more you watch, the more you practice. Before long you'd be doing threesomes with your Neighbors wife or/and daughter.

Also his wife will do the same thing and she can even become a free giver to the entire neighborhood cool

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by enemyofprogress: 2:17pm On Mar 25, 2018
Labake1 must see this
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Krafty006: 2:19pm On Mar 25, 2018
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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Snow87(m): 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2018
Saint op, u wey all type of sin, why u go school to improve your knowledge na, u for depend only on the one you learn at home. missionary style preachers.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by labake1(f): 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2018
enemyofprogress:
Labake1 must see this



It's not advisable grin
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by fisayocastle: 2:31pm On Mar 25, 2018
Why not. but I just preffered they watch it ounce. at the day of their honey moon
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by terrezo2002(m): 2:32pm On Mar 25, 2018
Porn is an immoral film. It is neither good for the unmarried nor the married.
Reasons
The people involved are immoral people. They take drugs and do shameful things just to sell to morally corrupt people and to currupt innocent souls.
No right thinking moral individual can be involved in it.
Sex is not a thing you expose to the public. It should only be done between husband and wife without any other eye seeing them.
It has never thought anyone how to have sex better rather it has always made couples unsatisfied with each other.
It is satanic. It is not from God and therefore it should not be used by couples or anyone

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by aragon4realz(m): 2:32pm On Mar 25, 2018
moscobabs:
Thank God for xvideo, leakpapa and exposed.ng. my marriage would have crashed.

I met my wife a virgin and she couldn't satisfy my sex urge cos I love sex too much. But to avoid adultery I have to train her but to get it right I used to buy handout which is sex movie so letter I changed it to the above sites and since then we have been enjoying our sex life.

I know some hypocrites will say it's wrong . Dey deceive yourself
this is not the maximum limit that porn can do for you...wait until your wife starts trying new stuff with your neighbors husband,then your eye for xvideo go clear for you
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by MayorJake(m): 2:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
Lmao
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Espada10: 2:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
I think that I read it somewhere that couples that watch porn movies together are prone to having affairs outside.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by pooozeee(m): 2:40pm On Mar 25, 2018
biggboy:

I strongly disagree that married couples should involve in it. The porn stars are demonized.

Why should you watch demons in action in order for you to enjoy your sex life? Sex is a

Beautiful gift from God to be enjoyed within the main institution. There are other ways you can enjoy your sex life with your spouse than resort to pornography. Most addicts eventually do not enjoy sex with their spouses because they have a superficial learning of sex in porn.



They expect their spouses to be wild on bed during all sorts of Gymnastics. When they're don't see this, they are disappointed. Some married couples watch pornography and they think it is ok. It is very wrong.



How can you look at another woman's unclothedness in order to make love to your own wife? Do they have the same body?

Some men watch pornography and begin to compare their wives body parts to the ones they watch or have seen.



That is why sexual abstinence remains the best. You will have no reason to compare your spouse in bed with your previous sexual partners.

Some women who watch pornography will begin to complain about the size of their husband’s manhood later. How did they know the size, whether it is too small or too thin, they have defiled their eyes before then. You will now see their husbands being concerned and begin to use things for penis enlargement or elongation; At the expense of their health.



The damaging effect of pornography is too much to be written, I pray God opens our eyes of understanding in Jesus name, Amen.



Some men after seeing other women's body parts while watching pornography becomes sexually frustrated with their wives.

This has led to many involving in adultery, they don't understand that those things they watch are not as real as they think.



If I get this question correctly, does it mean that you are watching porn and you have seen no side-effects? There is no way someone indulges in sin and will have no side effects.

Romans 6:23 Amplified Bible (AMP)’’23:For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God [that is, His remarkable, overwhelming gift of grace to believers] is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.’’

It does not change, you might not see the consequences immediately but it does not free you from its negative consequences.



Pornography it like a slow poison, it destroys gradually. It is like a time bomb; some might take time before they explode committing fornication or adultery, but one day, they might just fall into the sin except they repent. Besides, the time you spend watching it can be channelled to do something more profitable







On improving your spiritual and physical life. God expects each and every one of us to be His voice.

Preach the word. If God has delivered you from it, allow God to use you bring others out.



When Bathsheba was taking her bath, she would probably not have expected David to look but he looked. We must be good examples to unbelievers by dressing well. Men are attracted by sight.

There's no valid excuse for spiritual deficiencies.



Provision for cure has been made available in Christ. If you don't look at the CROSS and live, you'll look at the devil and die. If we must manifest, we must embrace holiness within and without.



In conclusion, married couples should not watch pornography, if we must attain sexual purity, it is both for the single and the married ones.



Don't be ashamed to share your testimony.

Remember that you are saved to serve.

Do not die in silence.

Be firm in your decision.

Be accounted to a minister of God or a matured believer.



If you are willing to come out of this bad habbit, pray: "Loud Jesus I accept you as My Lord and personal Saviour, come into my life"



After doing this, now tell God to release you from sexual addictions, burn the bridges that may want to take you back there



Don't allow the devil use you as a live pornography to make others fall!



May God bless us all.

Source: http://www.thebelievershub.com/2018/03/is-it-good-for-married-people-to-watch.html?m=1

If watching porn is sinful, then doing it is more sinful
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by moscobabs(m): 2:42pm On Mar 25, 2018
aragon4realz:

this is not the maximum limit that porn can do for you...wait until your wife starts trying new stuff with your neighbors husband,then your eye for xvideo go clear for you

Guy shut up, my wife and I are more than that.. I just shared what's working in my family, I don't need advise from you. Your comment is not mature... Go get life .
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by djon78(m): 2:44pm On Mar 25, 2018
It is not good, flee from every appearance of evil.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Uniqueteco(m): 2:45pm On Mar 25, 2018
Spirituality aside, morally it's bad. Lots of negative things can set in and destroy the marriage e.g my hubby's dickson is so small compared to this...my wife's body is not as s e x y as this, addiction can set in and has led many to rape daughters, wife fucking gateman or driver etc. Back to spirituality, anything that is morally bad is a sin spiritually. NO ONE IS MATURED WHEN IT COMES TO SEX ask King David..But if you really need to watch porn, TERMS AND CONDITION DEY SHA O in a case of virgin couple, be careful and watch your dickson and punna...St Teco speaks

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Chinedu1994(m): 2:54pm On Mar 25, 2018
Is it your sex?
Lekwanu m o.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Holuwatoobii(m): 2:55pm On Mar 25, 2018
Infact, porn is recommended for married couples and not for adults that are 18+ years, even porn isn't meant for a 40years old thats not married
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Nancy2018(f): 2:58pm On Mar 25, 2018
Porn is sweet

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