Have you ever been cheated on? Actually, you are probably not the first they cheated on. As statistics say, people who start cheating in college, tend to cheat in relationships and got used to the idea that there is nothing wrong with cheating. A lot of people just fear to face the commitment, some of them think they’re missing out and it becomes a reason to cheat – to keep up with others. In this article, we look at 9 reasons people cheat in their relationships.


The Myth of Satisfaction

If you have ever had the saying that the grass looks greener on the other side, then you know what we are talking about here. Cheaters are never satisfied with what they have, so they are always looking for something else thinking that it is better. A number of things can make a cheater feel unsatisfied. For example, most of them will give the excuse that their partner is a loser who doesn’t have goals.




Sweet Revenge

When you believe that you have been wronged, revenge looks like a sweet thing. When people are cheated on, they often, without thinking, cheat back. This usually ends up becoming a vicious circle, especially if the other partner cheats again because they have been cheated on in revenge and the other one also does again. At the end, this situation spirals out of control and the relationship ends up in the doldrums low.




Pathological Cheaters

When they started to cheat in college, they convinced themselves that they had no alternative. They would not cheat if they had a choice, they say. Then they got used to the idea and then started cheating in everything. They started to see nothing wrong with eating in a restaurant and when no one was looking they left as if they were going to the toilet and disappeared. These people are just pathologic cheaters and you should keep distance with them.




Fear of Commitment

Even though they may want to be committed when they start off, as they settle into the relationship they eventually start to see what commitment means and they find it difficult to keep up. Sometimes they are just scared of being hurt, just the way they were afraid of failure when they were cheating in school, so they have a side relationship just in case they are disappointed with the one they are currently in.




They Are Thrill Seekers

If you have ever been in a relationship with a thrill seeker then you know what we mean here. Some people love the whole feeling of meeting new people and the possible adventure that this could come with. These type of people see falling in love with someone as a conquest. So, no matter how satisfying their current relationship is, they will still cheat.




Withholding Emotions

An intimate relationship is founded on a shared bond. However, a shared bond happens only when both partners are willing to offer their emotional intimacy to the relationship. Without this bond, you and your partner will just be strangers who have known each other for many years.



The Fear of Missing Out

A relationship where cheating is the order of the day is like a war, those who are inside want to leave and those who are outside want to come in as they believe they’re missing out. Sometimes your partner sees all these cool things that single people get to do with different people and they start to miss the days when they were single.




Attention Seeking

Ask any cheater for reasons why they’ve been cheating and you are likely to hear them blame it on the fact that the other partner has not been giving them enough attention. Sometimes it’s true, the partner works too much or they would rather be with their friends and at times it’s just an excuse.





The reality of any relationship is that there are times when one of the people in it will feel bored because the relationship is getting stagnant. The partner starts to feel that there is no excitement and they start to look for that excitement elsewhere.


On this day I Martin, if I have ever cheated on my ex, or even had the thought, or any form of manner of cheating, I put it to myself that no better wife should be my wish!

But if reverse let me get a better wife /girlfriend amongst my girlfriends to date.


Lefulefu I sight you oooo

Cheaters r liable to end young

If You Never Cheat Before Raise Your hand

Martin u have said it all. Being with a cheater shortens ur life span. In order to have peace of mind just breakup with him or her and move on. Moving on is so bae.

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lefulefu:
Martin u have said it all. Being with a cheater shortens ur life span. In order to have peace of mind just breakup with him or her and move on. Moving on is so bae.

hahahahah Lefulefu one

lefulefu:
Martin u have said it all. Being with a cheater shortens ur life span. In order to have peace of mind just breakup with him or her and move on. Moving on is so bae.

I believe in rather to cheat on your partner kindly take a walk rather than doing immature act of who can cheat pass competition. Any fucking day I caught my partner cheating it's over thou it hard to let go at times but it over. if I still stay in that wreck relationship nah her punany gonna suffer for the promiscuous act of hers...

Every man cheats and loves to cheat,only broke men don't cheat cos they don't have the means to,but one thing I know for sure is,if you love your wife/partner so much,you'll never be stupid enough to let them find out.But I always advice CHEAT RESPONSIBLY.

Mandrake007:
Every man cheats and loves to cheat,only broke men don't cheat cos they don't have the means to,but one thing I know for sure is,if you love your wife/partner so much,you'll never be stupid enough to let them find out.But I always advice CHEAT RESPONSIBLY.

Mandrake007 how can you be making thia type of generalization and conclusion. So ALL MEN in the whole world cheat. How do you know that. You don't have to use yourself as a yardstick or standard.

The fact that you cannot imagine life without cheating doesn't mean every man is like you.

If u cheat juz dont let me find out coz i will surely cut ur THANG-THANG no matter how small it is..


I just hate cheaters with PASSION

i dont commit to relationships, just Bleep and go. No time..
Weda you fucking anoda guy is absolutely non of my bizness

QueenSuccubus:



If u cheat juz dont let me find out coz i will surely cut ur THANG-THANG no matter how small it is..


I just hate cheaters with PASSION

Ebuka2016:
i dont commit to relationships, just Bleep and go. No time..

Weda you fucking anoda guy is absolutely non of my bizness

Wawu!

And this is the same guy that told me he's a virgin

Im dead ...

Ebuka2016:




told you wat

That ur a virgin

Only to find out u been digging some wild holes oredi... Me no good check one thing on u anymore...

QueenSuccubus:



If u cheat juz dont let me find out coz i will surely cut ur THANG-THANG no matter how small it is..


I just hate cheaters with PASSION

hahahahahahah hahahahah oh lawd damn am dead ooo come queen abeg carry ur mouth and go jor

hahahahah

Martin0:



hahahahahahah hahahahah oh lawd damn am dead ooo come queen abeg carry ur mouth and go jor

hahahahah

Hahahahah...

Don't worry ifa catch u babe...I will give u a special pass for that

QueenSuccubus:



Hahahahah...

Don't worry ifa catch u babe...I will give u a special pass for that

hahahahah eheh OK ooo we go see then

Martin0:



hahahahah eheh OK ooo we go see then

Hahahahha...me no go yarn to ur babes ooo..i dey watch u with one eye sha...

So u are safe with me..

QueenSuccubus:



Hahahahha...me no go yarn to ur babes ooo..i dey watch u with one eye sha...
So u are safe with me..

OK madam, I hear u madam

Martin0:



OK madam, I hear u madam

Madam eehn.

ImaIma1:


Mandrake007 how can you be making thia type of generalization and conclusion. So ALL MEN in the whole world cheat. How do you know that. You don't have to use yourself as a yardstick or standard.

The fact that you cannot imagine life without cheating doesn't mean every man is like you.

it's not a generalization,trust me.

QueenSuccubus:



Madam eehn.

who started it

the probability of me cheating in a relationship is very high
the probability of she finding out is very low

Some people cheat because the other said no sex before marriage....

Some people cheat because when their kpekus de totori them....... Mr Shoe shiner was away in Malay.

Mandrake007:
it's not a generalization,trust me.

It is. You cannot possibly vouch for every man in the world. Not all men like to deep their thing into different places. Some people like themselves more than that.

ImaIma1:


It is. You cannot possibly vouch for every man in the world. Not all men like to deep their thing into different places. Some people like themselves more than that.

I'm a man I think I can say I understand men more,men can cheat with care some are sophisticated cheats,every man is polygamous in nature,believe me eventhough we decide to settle with one,that natural desire for more never goes away..

Mandrake007:
I'm a man I think I can say I understand men more,men can cheat with care some are sophisticated cheats,every man is polygamous in nature,believe me eventhough we decide to settle with one,that natural desire for more never goes away..

Bro calm down o, not all men cheats.
Some are very careful about themselves and are great decision takers too.
I repeat, not all men cheats and not all men are ready to expose themselves to every woman they come across.
I know what I'm talking so don't worry.

kingkakaone:

Bro calm down o, not all men cheats.
Some are very careful about themselves and are great decision takers too.
I repeat, not all men cheats and not all men are ready to expose themselves to every woman they come across.
I know what I'm talking so don't worry.

Regardless the tendencies are still there,its like it was embedded in us,not all men cheat not because they don't want to,it's chance,you wouldn't understand,i know why I say this,na money dey make most men dey faithful,cheating is like peak it's in us,but it's up to you to believe in what you want.