With the massive promotion of Equalism by the Main Stream Media MSM, Social media, feminine imperatives promoting the ideology of feminism (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/02/5-ways-feminism-destroying-nigerian-women/) and women temporary liberation. In all this, the lowest of men is still superior to the highest of women and in many cases the lowest of men get to ban*g the women of 'high standard'. The logic of Equalism come from the brainwashed narrative of woman is man, therefore if a man can wait and have it later so can a woman.

Equalism

The problem women face with this believe is that their sexual market value decline as they get older both in terms of attraction and fertility. So when she decide to 'have it all' and have child bearing at her choosing time,  ready to settle but no man finds her attractive any longer to want to be committed she becomes angry, frustrated and think men are evil for not considering her after she had it all and can take care of herself, especially now she will not be a burden to him, yet they don't consider her.

Her frustration is understood, women never blame themselves for anytime and naturally project and blame their self inflicted failures on men. Male feminist who fall for their sh*it test have come to recognized this frustrating periods of women and want her to know it's not her fault, men not him (he's a nice guy) are just scum. The fact is, it's all her fault and there are many good men, she just left them in her early 20s. Today woman is now very aware of the probability of a frustration period that they go for an insurance by freezing their eggs (if she can afford it).

Epiphany

We are now in the stage where 29-31 years is no longer a frustrating point in the lives of women to deliver babies because of the false hope from being able to freeze her ovum. Women now believe she can wait it out until she meet the 'right guy' to fertilized her frozen eggs and father the kids. In this waiting period she needs to fu*ck, so she fu*cks the 'right guy for right now' and when the 'right guy for right now' is no longer given her that satisfaction and feelings she craves, this is the time she begin to hate men.

The Epiphany phase of a woman may soon become no big deal for the woman who can afford to freeze her eggs. The Epiphany is a phase where she's about to hit the wall as a result of her declining attraction and fertility capability because she was mislead to believe she can use her most attractive and fertile age to do what ever she likes after all she own her body, makes her own money and no one can tell her what to do.

She basically behave like the man by believing she has the same window of opportunity to have a career and also find the right guy when she's ready. And when she gets to that Epiphany stage where she's no longer young, beautiful and attractive as she was 24 years, she start to look for security of her fertility (considering freezing her eggs) and believe that men who are ready to parent her children cannot measure up to her ego inflated sense of social media (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/18/facebook-twitter-instagram-ego-inflated-pussy-value-woman-shes-busy/) ways of life like the guys she hooked up with in her party days.

Reality

A woman of 18 – 25 years is extremely fertile and attractive, a woman of 25 – 30 years is less attractive whereas a woman of 30+ is still hot but decline has started. Make up and packages could hide it from afar but the declining is inevitable. At this Epiphany or declining phase, child bearing become more riskier and in some cases it is through an operation. If you can't afford to freeze your eggs, why do you  seek to be like the man?

I will tell my daughter this.