thatabokiboiy:
This one is trying to hard to dethrone martin0

BdorianGray:


Grei..u don start your own... Anger management classes. OK..where are they holding such classes in Nigeria... Maybe u know some place..

summerflame:
Do u have any home training at all?

eniolorunfe:

Kai...when MEN used to be MEN!!!

I wonder who/what is responsible for this new breed of men...is it lack of cash, economy or awoof

TBH, I hope this is a made up story....so unfortunate.

ReinaFarine:
Divorce.

The woman is abusive and he should never tolerate any kind of abuse. He should also fight for custody of his kids. The woman can pick up professional wrestling or street fights to feed her hunger.

prechbills1:



this isn't a made up of story, whenever I visit their home the wife is kinda harsh and bossy and she's not contributing more than 20percent to their home. my friend is not broke either, my friend thought she wouldn't slap her but it came as a shock and lemme say the truth he's kinda weak, back then in school even ladies used to beat him, I don't know if he have changed now.

eniolorunfe:


Okay now...since you say na true tory....

To avoid stories that touch in the nearest future...your friend needs to get out of such environment/relationship and ensure he has custody of the son based on domestic abuse/violence.

He also needs to ask himself truthful questions on why he is comfortable in such abusive situation/relationship. If he wasn't, he would have separated himself from such abusive relationship long time ago.

The fact that the wife isn't remorseful says a lot and shows she probably doesn't see anything wrong in what she did. It also shows she is so confident that no matter how she treats your friend, he has no where to go hence, the abuse.

ReinaFarine:
Divorce.

The woman is abusive and he should never tolerate any kind of abuse. He should also fight for custody of his kids. The woman can pick up professional wrestling or street fights to feed her hunger.

BdorianGray:


Don't do it.. Martin isn't on such throne...

prechbills1:



were you not the one speaking French in one thread like that? so you can speak English

greiboy:
Foremost of all, I will like to commend the man for exercising restraint when necessary, some men will have responded in kind to that ill tempered woman. tbh, I wouldn't trust myself in that situation.

Your friend's wife is an aggressive women with anger management issues.

Nonetheless, one constituent of your story is not adding up because most people that are aggressive with anger management issues are always quick to show remorse after their anger must have caused a problem, but your friend's wife didn't show any remorse on this occasion. Thus, I believe there is more to this story, perhaps the wife is the provider in the relationship or the couple had other serious issues before that encounter.


my advice

@ the child issue

I believe the man should try to avoid correcting the woman in the presence of their children in the future.

@ aggressive behavior

The woman needs to take anger management classes for the sake of her marriage. I am sure the man is already reaching his limit.

prechbills1:
I'm not the owner of the story below, my friend who's married had some problems with his wife which led to the story below, he posted it on tweeter but couldn't get any reasonable advice, that's why I decided to help him post the story here maybe we can get some matured advice from here. he's not a nairaland member but he'd be viewing the thread as a guest so please don't derail the thread if you don't have any reasonable thing to say. I know that there are many kids here but at least there are still some matured and reasonable people.

see the story and question below;





It all started when I heard noise in the sitting room, I rushed out from my bedroom to the sitting room, getting there I saw my wife about to trash our kid with a cane, and I told her to drop the cane and leave the boy alone. My wife started shouting at me, I tried explaining the implications of flogging a child, I told her that this is a civilized world, I even reminded her that she could go to jail for that crime in America or Europe and she told me that we're living in Africa. She wanted to trash the kid, then I told her that if she must punish the kid she should slap him instead that no matter what offense he committed she shouldn't trash him with a cane. I immediately told my boy to run to his room and he went to his room, then I left my wife in the sitting room and went back to the room. My wife came into my room without even knocking and started shouting at me, I regretted marrying an independent lady that day because she's always shouting on me. When she realized she I'm not looking at her neither am I going to respond, she walked toward my bed(she was initially standing at the door post) when she stood beside my bed, I decided to get up and sit on the bed.She started shouting on me again and I told her to leave my room ,my brother I received the ultimate shock of my life, my wife slapped me very heavily thrice, after she slapped me two times it was like there was a bell ringing in my head, I could no longer see very well, I developed headache immediately. In my entire life even my parents never raised their hands on me, I shouted in pain and our house help and gateman ran into the house, they heard the sound coming from my room and they rushed to my room on getting to my room and seeing my situation they took me to a nearby clinic. I stayed in the clinic for 4days, I spent 19k for the 4days I spent in the clinic. During the four days I spent in the clinic my wife never came visiting despite the fact that she was the one who put me in that situation. I've gotten over that, things are getting better now. is it right for a lady to raise her hand on a man? it's wrong for a man to raise his hand on his wife, when then should my wife raise her hands on me? my question now is the next time she tries that and I raise my hands on her, is it domestic abuse? because I can't tolerate this nonsense, the next time she dares raise her hands on me, if I've recovered I'm going to slap her very bad in a way that she'll spend 7days in an hospital, I spent just 4days but I'll make sure I slap her heavily that she'll stay there for 7days. I won't beat her but I'll slap her heavily.

Shugavee:
so u hv sense like this!!! Hmmmm!! I Sure need a meme for this!!! Wonders shall never end!!

prechbills1:



this isn't a made up of story, whenever I visit their home the wife is kinda harsh and bossy and she's not contributing more than 20percent to their home. my friend is not broke either, my friend thought she wouldn't slap her but it came as a shock and lemme say the truth he's kinda weak, back then in school even ladies used to beat him, I don't know if he have changed now.

Shugavee:
so u hv sense like this!!! Hmmmm!! I Sure need a meme for this!!! Wonders shall never end!!

prechbills1:



were you not the one speaking French in one thread like that? so you can speak English

prechbills1:



this isn't a made up of story, whenever I visit their home the wife is kinda harsh and bossy and she's not contributing more than 20percent to their home. my friend is not broke either, my friend thought she wouldn't slap her but it came as a shock and lemme say the truth he's kinda weak, back then in school even ladies used to beat him, I don't know if he have changed now.