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Re: . by BdorianGray(m): 6:21pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
thatabokiboiy: Don't do it.. Martin isn't on such throne... |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:28pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
BdorianGray:I don't know, but I think there should be such classes in Lagos or Abuja, otherwise she can find enough materials online. I.e google and YouTube There is as well the option of visiting psychologists i.e. some professors in our higher institutions should be able to help. Anger is a powerful energy that can be channeled in a good way to achieve positive results. However, it is too powerful an energy to control for some, hence the need to look for help. |
Re: . by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:49pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
summerflame:Watch your mouth boy watch your mouth ![]() |
Re: . by summerflame(m): 6:58pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
U talk like a teenager... See young teenager, always endeavor to shift your brain to your wrist and type something good and reasonable out.. I think there should be age verification and age limit to register a nairaland 3 Likes |
Re: . by eniolorunfe: 7:02pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Kai...when MEN used to be MEN!!! I wonder who/what is responsible for this new breed of men...is it lack of cash, economy or awoof ![]() TBH, I hope this is a made up story....so unfortunate. |
Re: . by eyinjuege: 7:08pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Marriage is not by force o. Meanwhile, you can always report at the police station, and there are some agencies that handle domestic violence cases. Find out about such, and report there also. I believe you took pictures and your hospital records are there to confirm your story. |
Re: . by prechbills1(m): 8:02pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
eniolorunfe: this isn't a made up of story, whenever I visit their home the wife is kinda harsh and bossy and she's not contributing more than 20percent to their home. my friend is not broke either, my friend thought she wouldn't slap her but it came as a shock and lemme say the truth he's kinda weak, back then in school even ladies used to beat him, I don't know if he have changed now. |
Re: . by ReinaFarine: 9:23pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Divorce. The woman is abusive and he should never tolerate any kind of abuse. He should also fight for custody of his kids. The woman can pick up professional wrestling or street fights to feed her hunger. 1 Like |
Re: . by CAPSLOCKED: 9:51pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
ReinaFarine: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: . by eniolorunfe: 10:14pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
prechbills1: Okay now...since you say na true tory.... To avoid stories that touch in the nearest future...your friend needs to get out of such environment/relationship and ensure he has custody of the son based on domestic abuse/violence. He also needs to ask himself truthful questions on why he is comfortable in such abusive situation/relationship. If he wasn't, he would have separated himself from such abusive relationship long time ago. The fact that the wife isn't remorseful says a lot and shows she probably doesn't see anything wrong in what she did. It also shows she is so confident that no matter how she treats your friend, he has no where to go hence, the abuse. 1 Like |
Re: . by prechbills1(m): 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
eniolorunfe: oh boy, I don't propose advice to this guy o.. I don advice taya. the lady is kinda rich, maybe that's why he has turned deaf ears |
Re: . by prechbills1(m): 11:41pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
ReinaFarine: I love nairaland when people post without gender or tribe sentiments. I wish everyone on nairaland could reason this way. thanks he has been viewing this thread, he told me on phone he can't initiate any of the advises he have seen here though they're sensible. I'm even tired of advising, maybe because the lady is kinda rich. |
Re: . by Ivorianaija(f): 11:49pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
By law it is not considered domestic abuse if it is in the act of self defense. But you must think of it this way: Are you actually defending yourself, or are you just responding to her action? What could possibly be the effect of me doing so? Would this make the situation any better? 1 Like |
Re: . by prechbills1(m): 2:01am On Apr 02, 2018 |
BdorianGray: were you not the one speaking French in one thread like that? so you can speak English ![]() |
Re: . by BdorianGray(m): 9:09am On Apr 02, 2018 |
prechbills1: Lol! Spanish not French Bro! ![]() |
Re: . by Shugavee(f): 9:24am On Apr 02, 2018 |
greiboy:so u hv sense like this!!! Hmmmm!! I Sure need a meme for this!!! Wonders shall never end!! 1 Like |
Re: . by Shugavee(f): 9:26am On Apr 02, 2018 |
The man tried, the woman is very wrong!!! |
Re: . by Shugavee(f): 9:32am On Apr 02, 2018 |
prechbills1:u need to leave that marriage! As far u ain't happy, that's bondage not marriage |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 02, 2018 |
Shugavee: ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by ImaIma1(f): 5:14pm On Apr 02, 2018 |
Wife has no right to slap you for any reason just like you have no right to hit her too. Your wife needs to attend anger management classes or call family meeting to scold her for shouting at you. She needs to learn respect. Why do you have your separate room? In matters concerning children, try not to belittle your wife in front of your kids. You don't tell him to go to the room to disrespect his mum even if you think she is wrong. Both of you need to make a decision on how you want the children to be disciplined. Try to resolve it lovingly. |
Re: . by Kobicove(m): 11:05am On Apr 03, 2018 |
prechbills1: The guy is a bloody wimp! |
Re: . by boyjo: 1:58pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
I have long known that you shouldn`t correct your partner in front of the kids. Sure, your kid would be happy to have escape the pain about to be inflicted on him but your wife will think you are trying to make her look bad in front of the kid while makeing yourself look good; this, is very annoying. Is your wife "the provider" or co-provider in your home? I have told you men, repeatedly, that with women, this does not work. If you marry a woman that works, make sure you don`t make her a co-provider. But if she willingly, of her own accord or out of love supports you, fine. But if it was mandatory for her to support, assure her you`d repay her money. This is to secure your respect and ensure that the sacredness of your leadership in your home stays intact (How else do I say this??) Like someone else before suggested, you have to report[b] her[/b] parents and her Pastor. Get witnesses for yourself. This way, if she dares slap you again, you can have people on your side when you send her to 7-days hospital visitation. |
Re: . by boyjo: 2:03pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: `Was surprised too. My memory of that moniker seemed to be of nastiness. Maybe he`s made some money. 1 Like |
Re: . by boyjo: 2:05pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
prechbills1: Lol, this is funny. |
Re: . by boyjo: 2:11pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
prechbills1: And you say your friend is viewing? Since you started this thread, you`ve been talking "him" down. Super story. |
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