Roughly about a yr ago, I did an elaborate introduction/engagement with the love of my life. Just 2 months to wedding and registry, she cancelled the wedding saying she felt I am not buoyant enough to give her d life she wanted. She wants to be going to Dubai to buy goods and stuff like that. Her mom told me, its her life she cannot force her into marriage. I carried my cross, after all shit happens. Since then she has been keeping in touch, just to say hi, hello, etc...
Fast forward to about a week ago, she called me she would like us to talk but I've been busy. I got home yesterday and I met her in my home! ( I have not changed my locks and she didn't return my keys).. I wanted to send her out but it was quite late so I let her stay for d night.
She did not allow me to sleep with cries and drama. She told me she just realised her mistakes, blah blah blah.. When it was abt 3am, I had to tell her I will pray/think about it so I can sleep in peace.
The prob is I have forgiven her months ago, I don't take things too difficult. But, I don't think I can marry someone I don't trust enough that won't dump me when things become though. No one knows what future will bring. Though I still very much like her!...
Pls I need people's opinions

Hmmm...think twice!
If Ur story is true...send her out before I finish dis text.

she has enjoyed the dicks she wanted to enjoy and her Plan A has failed. now its back to Plan B - YOU.
if another bigger fish appears down the line; its good bye....and hello again if it doesnt work out.

So she left you after all your introduction because she felt you can't give her the life she wanted.


I'll advice you to tell her that you can only marry a virgin.

After carefully reading your plight, I was disappointed that you didn't bleep that tukunbo pussi one last time.


Well, it's a good thing you didn't though, cos that biatch might be preggy for some street tout and came to pin it on you.

The elders have spoken

swiz123:
After carefully reading your plight, I was disappointed that you didn't bleep that tukunbo pussi one last time.


Well, it's a good thing you didn't though, cos that biatch might be preggy for some street tout and came to pin it on you.

I never even thought that way, I was just tired after spending hours in traffic

bjayx:
Hmmm...think twice!
If Ur story is true...send her out before I finish dis text.

She left just now. I told her I need some air

Don’t do it ...
You see we ladies can be funny ... you were her rebound guy after it didn’t work out with whoever will fund her Dubai trip
She must have realised the grass ain’t greener for lazy ! Lazy !lazy Girls who won’t fuking work argh
Men dump her till she is in full time employment ... that way if she mess up u carry your money comot no loss ...

donstan18:
So she left you after all your introduction because she felt you can't give her the life she wanted.


I'll advice you to tell her that you can only marry a virgin.

OK, I just tot I should tell her I can only marry working class lady. I go add this join am

ubunja:
she has enjoyed the dicks she wanted to enjoy and her Plan A has failed. now its back to Plan B - YOU.
if another bigger fish appears down the line; its good bye....and hello again if it doesnt work out.

I actually don't think so. Why go ahead with intro when u still want adventure? Maybe I'm naive sha

ranmoor:


I actually don't think so. Why go ahead with intro when u still want adventure? Maybe I'm naive sha

you're naive coz a woman doesnt reason like a man reasons. her reasoning was "why go ahead with the wedding when i still want adventure"? hence she quit.

ranmoor:
Roughly about a yr ago, I did an elaborate introduction/engagement with the love of my life. Just 2 months to wedding and registry, she cancelled the wedding saying she felt I am not buoyant enough to give her d life she wanted. She wants to be going to Dubai to buy goods and stuff like that. Her mom told me, its her life she cannot force her into marriage. I carried my cross, after all shit happens. Since then she has been keeping in touch, just to say hi, hello, etc...
Fast forward to about a week ago, she called me she would like us to talk but I've been busy. I got home yesterday and I met her in my home! ( I have not changed my locks and she didn't return my keys).. I wanted to send her out but it was quite late so I let her stay for d night.
She did not allow me to sleep with cries and drama. She told me she just realised her mistakes, blah blah blah.. When it was abt 3am, I had to tell her I will pray/think about it so I can sleep in peace.
The prob is I have forgiven her months ago, I don't take things too difficult. But, I don't think I can marry someone I don't trust enough that won't dump me when things become though. No one knows what future will bring. Though I still very much like her!...
Pls I need people's opinions

Don't let your heart go before your head.

If she had the effrontery to call off an already planned wedding, dude, have the effrontery to move on forever... Dump her as$.

The reason she's begging Now, is because probably things are a bit better for, or those she hoped to hook down ain't falling to trap while her feminine clock is ticking.

Don't be twice bitten!

I can't believe op is asking this type of a question

I hope you just shared this story, for the sake of so.

Certainly, you need not be told what to do as regards this bro.

How could you not have collected your personal effects from her? Or even changed your locks?

That lady is unstable, very much so, and they are the most dangerous type of women.

Bros, change your locks, tell her a definite NO, and stop all communications with her ASAP. Also do well to inform her mom to kindly advise her daughter to desist from complicating your life.

Someone cannot come and kill themselves Biko, life is already stressful as it is, the thing come short join.

People hardly change. She has already shown you her true colors.

She will definitely dump your ass again if you can't keep up with her lifestyle. Guy flee

Go ahead and marry her but make sure you sharpen your pen for another story in maybe a year time


also remember her mom (family) are very much on your side

i'm angry with you oo

She has shown you are true colour, yet you are still contemplating about her, better let her go.

ranmoor:
Roughly about a yr ago, I did an elaborate introduction/engagement with the love of my life. Just 2 months to wedding and registry, she cancelled the wedding saying she felt I am not buoyant enough to give her d life she wanted. She wants to be going to Dubai to buy goods and stuff like that. Her mom told me, its her life she cannot force her into marriage. I carried my cross, after all shit happens. Since then she has been keeping in touch, just to say hi, hello, etc...
Fast forward to about a week ago, she called me she would like us to talk but I've been busy. I got home yesterday and I met her in my home! ( I have not changed my locks and she didn't return my keys).. I wanted to send her out but it was quite late so I let her stay for d night.
She did not allow me to sleep with cries and drama. She told me she just realised her mistakes, blah blah blah.. When it was abt 3am, I had to tell her I will pray/think about it so I can sleep in peace.
The prob is I have forgiven her months ago, I don't take things too difficult. But, I don't think I can marry someone I don't trust enough that won't dump me when things become though. No one knows what future will bring. Though I still very much like her!...
Pls I need people's opinions

Try to investigate if she was actually going to Dubai for the business she told you about... Just try to know how much she lied, if at all, to you... Then you can take it from there... Either to let her go or not

Op u fall guyz hand, y u dey ask this kind kweshion? Gal u suppose bang reach midnight, when u finish u shout "GET D FFUCK OUT".