TheUpsetGirl1:



shugavee only talks about independence in some threads to Garner likes
she preaches independence in some threads and beg for alms in other threads.. who's deceiving who?
the girl is 100% fake.

I think you're supporting her because you too don't practice what you preach offline.

TheUpsetGirl:



I don't care if they depend on their guys for everything.

all I want is they should be real.

it's better to be real than being a fake bitch just to Garner loyalty, likes and support.

it's sad that these fake feminists won't comment.

TheUpsetGirl1:



shugavee only talks about independence in some threads to Garner likes
she preaches independence in some threads and beg for alms in other threads.. who's deceiving who?
the girl is 100% fake.

I think you're supporting her because you too don't practice what you preach offline.

Ladyhippolyta88:

@emboldened,It's high time people begin to understand that the word equality is not a literal meaning but a figurative one.
Gender equality does not mean that we are the same but that the opportunities,resources,access,rights etc.
Should be given to all.
And don't try bringing in religion to social affairs Genesis 1:27 would discredit your assertions.
It seems some people do not understand the gender equality thing not to even talk about racial or social equality.
One of the aims of equality of to fight discrimination.

As for shugavee I have noticed the lady avoids your mentions try to stop looking for her trouble and discredit her on this forum.
You don't know the lady in person so you have no right to tell her who she is or judge her by her comments on this forum because I have also seen her write about splitting the bills as well.She encourages female independency in her post.

Rubbiish:

Do men have different rights from women in this country as stated in the constitution?

Shugavee:
get a hold of urself girl!!! Stop being bitter 4 nothing!!! It's my life right? Stop bothering urself abt it cause i care less abt ur life whether fake or not!!!

Rubbiish:

I am compelled to ask if a lady is truly behind this account?

Ladyhippolyta88:

I don't know shugavee in person.
I only know one nairalander on this forum.
And who told you she does it for likes?Because if that is the case she must be doing a very bad job.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I don't know shugavee in person.
I only know one nairalander on this forum.
And who told you she does it for likes?Because if that is the case she must be doing a very bad job.

TheUpsetGirl1:

stop being fake because you're deceiving some people in this forum.

be real madam feminist.

Shugavee:
she is fooling herself!!! Let her say all she wants!!! I won't even advise my enemy to date a man who isn't finacially stable!!! The lady self is a distraction to him!!! That does not mean u as a lady shouldn't hv something doing!! Feminism is not man hating, u can get gifts from men n vise versa!!! Let her say all the trash she wants to say!! My opinion is my opinion n it's not meant to be right or correct to anyone!!! Moreorless someone like this one!!

mickybeejay:
You do have a nice write up but u go about it the wrong way. Even without feminism, someone with vision(s) in life knows that he/she should not depend on anybody if he wants to achieve those visions. In life, you don't need to place all your responsibilities on anybody cus that person could disappoint u at a point in time. You should be the change you wanna see with or without feminism

TheUpsetGirl1:


I don't have a problem with ladies depending on their man, the problem is some lazy ladies coming online to preach independence when in reality they can't fend for themselves without help from men.

mickybeejay:

Am not saying you are wrong.......but don't you think we shouldn't judge them with their social life. And everybody is opportune to air his/her own opinion

TheUpsetGirl1:

your social life shows alot about your inner personality.

infact broke people whether guy or lady shouldn't go into relationships

TheUpsetGirl1:



a guy must give his lady 3-5k every two weeks for hair

a guy must purchase clothes for his lady every month

a lady isn't obliged to pay for dates but a guy must pay for the dates

- A supposed feminist.

nobody said you should date someone that isn't financially stable, those your friends that you preach to are they financially stable themselves?


self delusion is worse than laziness -Albert Einstein

I'm out, seeing your posts makes me to vomit.

Rukkydelta:
Nice one ma
Just watch as the fake feminists will stay away from this thread

Demogorgon:
Rukevwe

MissJoy29:
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute.
Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

MissJoy29:
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute.
Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.

Amarabae:
How can a feminist expect a guy to spend on her,
Feminism preaches financial independence for women,
That does not mean rejecting a kind gesture from a guy.

Financial responsibility in relationships should not be left for the guy alone,
You contribute as a woman,
You take responsible of some of your financial needs.

It earns you respect.

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

TheUpsetGirl1:



a guy must give his lady 3-5k every two weeks for hair

a guy must purchase clothes for his lady every month

a lady isn't obliged to pay for dates but a guy must pay for the dates

- A supposed feminist.

nobody said you should date someone that isn't financially stable, those your friends that you preach to are they financially stable themselves?


self delusion is worse than laziness -Albert Einstein

I'm out, seeing your posts makes me to vomit.

Shugavee:
Talking to you is like giving a goat scholarship ---nina's voice

Girl bye!!!

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

Amarabae:
How can a feminist expect a guy to spend on her,
Feminism preaches financial independence for women,
That does not mean rejecting a kind gesture from a guy.

Financial responsibility in relationships should not be left for the guy alone,
You contribute as a woman,
You take responsible of some of your financial needs.

It earns you respect.

Lalas247:


ERM lol sorry o
I go around preaching independent ladies o

but fuvk feminism who e epp ( me not opening no door for no man.. he will open it for me nonsense .. they become equal when dey develop a vjay afterall God made us different for a reason)
but I do say our ladies should try and be in employment so these men won't have anything to dangle in our faces..

Ladyhippolyta88:

@emboldened,It's high time people begin to understand that the word equality is not a literal meaning but a figurative one.
Gender equality does not mean that we are the same but that the opportunities,resources,access,rights etc.
Should be given to all.
And don't try bringing in religion to social affairs Genesis 1:27 would discredit your assertions.
It seems some people do not understand the gender equality thing not to even talk about racial or social equality.
One of the aims of equality of to fight discrimination.

As for shugavee I have noticed the lady avoids your mentions try to stop looking for her trouble and discredit her on this forum.
You don't know the lady in person so you have no right to tell her who she is or judge her by her comments on this forum because I have also seen her write about splitting the bills as well.She encourages female independency in her post.