Uyiii:

you know, you're right. We getting too overcrowded with people murdering english lang.
I'd advice you figure out how to present yourself in a simple and concise English before being worried about atheism.
honestly as it stands now, even peeps who practice atheism will reject you.

cheers bro even as you learn good english.

CaptJeffry:
I bet 99% of advice this dude gets here will be about prayers and meeting a man of God.

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

Lightening:


Babe, your reasoning is sound and mature. Your bobo must be very lucky.

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

Jbleenk:
Well If u die u will go to heaven. Heaven is better than earth so why are u scared to die?

Shineq:


I think this is one of the best advice i hv ever seen since i join nairaland......This person is truly reasonable..To the complainant, this is one of the best advice u can yield to.....

Oreofepeters:
That girl is from the spirit realm bro. You gotta take it easy with her, I've gotten similar experience from one girl. You don't toy with them, I came to understand something. When they love a man, they will try their best to get him.....

She loves you that's why she lied.

bsbability:


May u be rewarded for ur wisdom.
That's the best advice anyone can give this guy, ��

sonofoluku:



Are u single??I need a loving babe like you

Oreofepeters:
That girl is from the spirit realm bro. You gotta take it easy with her, I've gotten similar experience from one girl. You don't toy with them, I came to understand something. When they love a man, they will try their best to get him.....

She loves you that's why she lied.

deliciousgeh:
This is a delicate issue. Stop the quarrelling for now and solve the issue with serious prayers and seek counselling. Try not to take the issue to your pastor or parents. Take your wife out, spoil her, then have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her the dreams, tell her you love her and won't divorce her but ask her to explain y you always have those kinds of dreams
. let her know you were hurt by the lies she told but that you are willing to forget it all if she can totally open up to any other secret she might be keeping. Please be very gentle with her o.

DeadRat:



Somebody Is In Trouble...


The Greatest Mistake A Man Can Make Is Marrying a Member Of The Village People Club (VPC)...


You Are Finished!

DavidEsq:

Pls can u show me wr u got that belief that if one dies, he goes to heaven?
Wee u stop misleading ppl?

AlphaT1:

This was exactly the first thought that came to my mind while reading the story.....Bros was too blinded by love....A church girl committing "fornication" of all sins and yet you still believed she was a church girl.
My wife as a church girl never even allowed me to hug her not to talk of fornication, she visited my house only once (throughout the 16 months of courtship) in company of her two brothers.

talk2percy:
Oga, I understand ur messy situation, buh the truth is ur wife is possessed, she's most probably from the water because nah them dey get these characters u just described. For ur own good, try not to stay angry with her or it might even extend to bringing u down financially and eventually sending u to ur early grave. This is not a church matter, follow it traditionally.

Pataricatering:
so what did you do with your own spirit ? Lol

Gassa007:

What's this one even saying? So the guy is to be blamed,for being deceived.Which kind of mentality is nau

omosuper:
You are 100% correct. I had the same experience.Anytime I confronted her,she would tell me she's there to protect her hubby and the unborn children. But trust me,as a kwara guy wey I be,na fire for fire things oo.

Jbleenk:


Bro, It's an indoctrination used by religious n political leaders to subject human into mental slavery for easy control purpose. Except ur among the very few smart enough not to conform to such bs.

Ever heard of divide and rule? Guess not.

malele:




Dawg the dream thing has nothing to do with ur wife.
When I married,I started having very bad dreams and attacks, I never accused my wife, rather I started fasting and praying,I also told a man of God to pray for us . Bro till now I have not had Bad dream. Let a pastor know about ur dreams