A Nigerian lady narrates on Twitter how her old friend didn't invite her to her wedding because she didn't buy aso ebi even after she explained that she couldn't afford it at the time.

A friend that treats you this way was never your friend.

Continue to read tweets of women complaining on the new trends of compulsorily contributing to weddings and baby showers.

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Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/an-old-friend-didnt-invite-me-to-her-wedding-because-i-didnt-buy-asoebi-lady-says.html

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Beware of Emeka my son

Girls and doing Asoebi, they even use their last dime in doing it, my ex flatmate back in school the babe no dey use ear hear Asoebi, she dey run am "Back to Back. Kuddos to you babe, no be by force, if truly you didn't have the money or feel the need to go in debt cause of this, you are the real MVP.

is it by FORCE?Sidon for ur house too,nothing. do u

Kudos girl! You made real sense.

This aso ebi thingy is nothing short of gross exploitation of friends 'pockets'


Someone was telling me the other day that hers is #80K. I calmly told her to take it elsewhere. Like what

All to generate funds and/to trend on Instagram. Instagram is the vanity section of the Internet. With their silly hashtags...and Disney inspired love stories.

#PocoSmith18#CoupleGoals#YummyCouple#BellaNaija
#AsoebiBella#2Bcums1#WeDieHere
Bride: @YumYum Apparels
Groom: @AlphaMale Couture
Makeup: @Lipz and Lidz.
Hair: @Rapunzel hairport.
Photography: @Classic Lens
Events: @BelleFull

If you wanna live within your means, without reasoning yahooyahoo or runz...avoid instagram.

Lol....beware of unfriendly friends
Meanwhile thunder way go fir ha dy masturbate wen it cms u go knw

I never understand that mindset you invite people and then insist they wear something specific or insist on a specific colour.........

And if her friends see this and decides not to buy asó ébì, she will start claiming that village ppl are following her. The internet never forgets

ordinary asoebi you cannot buy, but you were planning to eat free jollof rice.

that was how a friend asked me to buy 25k asoebi dress,something I will wear for a day.


some women are really something else just to trend for 1week.

lady,you really did the right thing by cutting your clothes accordingly.

Some people are funny... Look at it this way... I can't give you an invitation card when I expect you to be at my wedding no matter what... ... I had an uncle.. I was surprised when i heard that he printed an invitation card for his wedding.. When I requested one he said what do you need it for...or do you want to invite your friends?... They may be so close that the friend didn't deem it fit to give her an IV... Just like giving your best man an IV

Rubbish narration from the so called twitter lady. Low esteemed broke ladies will always want to utilize the little chance and opportunity they have to trend on social media.

Will a woman who know her worth come to social media to cry like this?

Had it been your friend paid for your asoebi and invited you, would you have logged on twitter to form wedding financial manager and indirectly claim wife material?

100% of Nigerian ladies are guilty of wedding shows, you all are guilty of it(Including those commenting and supporting this lady), you can do the worse. Because you couldn't afford it doesn't make you different from them, it shouldn't give you the guts and audacity to condemn what you all are guilty of, until you ladies tend to know that wedding shows and high spending won't guarantee a happy marriage, you all will continue to be the enemy you have....Just get out with your complaint biko!

Birthday..... Ladies will do Asoebi.
Menstruation period....Ladies will do asoebi.
Maternity period..... Ladies will do asoebi.
Wedding day....Ladies will do asoebi.

Dem swear for una?

AntiBrutus:
All to generate funds and/to trend on Instagram. Instagram is the vanity section of the Internet. With their silly hashtags...and Disney inspired love stories.

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If you wanna live within your means, without reasoning yahooyahoo or runz...avoid instagram.

I agree with you on this, but I think a better option is not avoiding Instagram totally but by not following those peeps with monikers like "johngucci,moneygucci,dollarboy,hushbaby,mhizz bellzdiva..lol People showing off on their IG page with no reasonable source of income

I av come to conclude that the outrageous gains people make from giving out aso ebi is what's fuelling the culture

Why would it hurt you that you aren't invited to a wedding? Boring overrated weddings. I'm even looking for how to skip going to the ones I was invited to, and someone is crying she didn't get invited.

My dear even though my closest nigger do wedding today and eh no invite me , i no go vex one bit.....i no dey go where dem no call me... when i do my own i go invite am to come.

I have a friend that was almost like that. She got so saucy during that period. It almost broke our friendship.

I just realized that there are some friends that are only friends when the going is good. They don't want to be bothered when the going is not so good.

I didn't bother with aso ebi for my wedding. I don't have that patience. Only family organized aso ebi and people that wanted it also requested for it.

It must be a yoruba wedding...


Or i maybe wrong.

donstan18:
Rubbish narration from the so called twitter lady. Low esteemed broke ladies will always want to utilize the little chance and opportunity they have to trend on social media.

Will a woman who know her worth come to social media to cry like this?

Had it been your friend paid for your asoebi and invited you, would you have logged on twitter to form wedding financial manager and indirectly claim wife material?

100% of Nigerian ladies are guilty of wedding shows, you all are guilty of it(Including those commenting and supporting this lady), you can do the worse. Because you couldn't afford it doesn't make you different from them, it shouldn't give you the guts and audacity to condemn what you all are guilty of, until you ladies tend to know that wedding shows and high spending won't guarantee a happy marriage, you all will continue to be the enemy you have....Just get out with your complaint biko!

Birthday..... Ladies will do Asoebi.
Menstruation period....Ladies will do asoebi.
Maternity period..... Ladies will do asoebi.
Wedding day....Ladies will do asoebi.

Dem swear for una?

dumb!!

A lady just quoted me typing 'Dumb' just to seek my attention hoping i'll insult her back.

But if you are that lady, and I didn't reply your mention, it means nature has done enough damages to your brain, so there won't be need for me to worsen your case by insulting you.

I have conscience for the less privileged

Dont You Ever Attend A Yoruba Party without Aso Ebi...

If You Try It, just Forget About Eating Rice

When you marry your own, don't invite her, tit for tat.

BleSSedMee:
Kudos girl! You made real sense.

This aso ebi thingy is nothing short of gross exploitation of friends 'pockets'


Someone was telling me the other day that hers is #80K. I calmly told her to take it elsewhere. Like what

You for just tell her say Landlord fix your "one year" house rent for #100k