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Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by StarUp: 8:33pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
If you are a firstborn... Best match: Lastborn Worst match: Another firstborn According to a study by Walter Toman, a professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Erlangen-Nuremberg in Germany, on 3,000 families, you have pretty good odds of a successful marriage if you're a firstborn who marries a lastborn. Leman says that is because there's an opposites-attract thing going on. The firstborn is more Type A, and teaches the lastborn little things about organisation, whereas the lastborn helps keep the atmosphere light and reminds the firstborn not to take everything so seriously. According to the study, the best possible match is a firstborn female with a lastborn male, because their needs are in harmony with each other. Hillary and Bill Clinton are a famous firstborn couple. A firstborn with another firstborn, Leman writes, is likely to be a power struggle. They tend to bump heads because firstborns can be perfectionists and like having things done their own way, so it's all a matter of control. That doesn't mean you're doomed from the start, though. For example, Hillary and Bill Clinton, who have been married 41 years, are both firstborns. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 8:36pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
I don't agree, the success of marriage is not determine by whether the couples are firstborn or last born.. It's about Love, tolerance, and loyalty.. 9 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by jawalis(m): 8:43pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
soko |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
We wey come be first & last born at the same time nko? Who do we marry? Albinos? I thought only Africans can think up sh!t like this. Apparently, this 'professor' is directly related to Homo Erectus. Nonsense. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by squarelead(m): 9:01pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
How many failed marriages are first born to first born? |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by nanakgh(m): 9:04pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
I totally get the point bout firstborns and control tho. sheesh. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by habsydiamond(m): 9:09pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Shey Na everything problem dey ni....chop no chop, drink no drink, na first born no marry first born dey now abi....my question is wetin Una dey proof sef....cos I don't understand |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Talknochip(m): 9:10pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Fact! |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Rukkydelta(f): 9:35pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
I'm a last child I can't marry a first born they are too controlling |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by femolacqua(m): 9:38pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
This theory ain't gonna work. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by lobell: 9:51pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
This is almost true! 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by dominique(f): 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
In this part of the world, a first born cannot marry another first born because of all the financial responsibility on their necks 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ☣ ☠ ∆ Certified trash!! ∆ ☣ ☠ |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 10:09pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
dominique:Not all first born.. What of in a very rich family,, The children all have their own cash and they don't depend on their first born.. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by ULSHERLAN(m): 10:12pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Is it in our 1999 constitution? If not, na fallacy |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by bjayx: 10:50pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Good reason but not enough to convince me |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by romme2u: 12:30am On Apr 13, 2018 |
dominique: ![]() fallacy |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by dominique(f): 1:01am On Apr 13, 2018 |
DrinkLimca: That's a different case. But in middle/class families, first borns share a lot of the parents responsibilities |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 3:11am On Apr 13, 2018 |
dominique: I was thinking the exact same thing. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 4:09am On Apr 13, 2018 |
There's a little sense in the nonsense though. First kids are often oga ish in nature and two ogas in one house make the house a law court. ![]() |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by phemmyfour: 6:06am On Apr 13, 2018 |
First born + first born = poverty First born + Last born = Comfort zone Last born + last born = Wealth 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by EmekusTHEgreat(m): 8:22am On Apr 13, 2018 |
DrinkLimca: I had to like this comment. Human behaviour isn't something that one can just simply sit down in his father's house and predict, everybody is different and hence people should not be generalised in such a manner. Currently I am in a relationship with a fellow lastborn and we are doing well. In my opinion, the OP is an introvert, anti-social or both, probably spends all day in doors |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by DSS1335: 11:11am On Apr 13, 2018 |
![]() ![]() A very good research topic for pscho-sociology students We need more study to test the validity of this claims in Nigeria statistically using appropriate test of significances 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by perousd: 11:46am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Rukkydelta:Stereotype. ... Test and see... I'm not. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
dominique:well you are right.. i guess it varies with the financial capabilities of families.. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by Acidosis(m): 3:42pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
dominique: This logic no longer applies to our current generation. The age gap between many siblings today are usually very slim. Some so called last born even graduate and get jobs before some first born. Besides, not all parents shift responsibilities on the first born, especially in this generation where many parents don't wish for more than 2 - 3 children. |
Re: Reasons Why A Firstborn Cannot Marry Another Firstborn by vickydevoka(m): 10:31pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
dominique:Na b4 I de reason like this until our own first born no blow |
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