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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
I'm out from here abeg.. I wonder the way some nairalanders think... they think like they're still living in the 10th century.. I'm out 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by CAPSLOCKED: 4:12pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
kpaofame: THIS IS TRUE, FOR MANY GIRLS. BUT, THERE'S NO HARM IN BUYING "YOUR GIRL" THE THINGS YOU CAN AFFORD. 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by majekoam(m): 4:12pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
There is more to this matter than meets the eye. The truth is that most men understand the concept whether the admit it or not. The fact is that they don't want to be played a fool by providing for a woman that will then just dump them or jump to another man when they have used them up. Let's not pretend there are not women out there who do such. A man gives his women money for upkeep but what of the return (If as a woman you are reading this and your mind says "I'm giving him sex" then Its a shame). This is just my experiences so I AM NOT SPEAKING ABOUT ALL WOMEN. Sex doesn't keep a man. Looks don't keep a man. Ask Celebrities. One former girlfriend said such a sentence to me a few years back. I was in Abuja and knew in my spirit that I wasn't the only guy she was seeing. She said I should provide for makeup, hair, clothes. I didn't provide for all but gave her something. As God is my witness she admitted to me last week that she was seeing others. So wasnt I justified in what I did? My point is here that many of the women that complain about such are the ones you should be wary of. Big red flag. There are too many good women out there to settle. Find one. Treat her right and this wont be an issue. You will do it happily. 6 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:14pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy:that dumb fake girl won't reply this post... greiboy come to movies section abeg ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by press005: 4:15pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1: Pple must date irrespective of their financial status bt d motive and benefits should be clearly stated and agreed upon by both parties even b4 venturing into it. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1:The late Nelson Mandela once said" education is a powerful weapon which can be used to change the world". It is a tool meant for liberation and self sufficiency. Therefore, nobody should have a sense of entitlement after the acquisition of education, otherwise Mandela must have been lying when he made that statement. 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:17pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
majekoam: Mr man all these ones are long epistles stop dating broke babes.. una no go hear ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by bammy777(m): 4:18pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
that's why am single and hustling, when am done rich, wud go for my spec. Note no broke girls, cus if am broke she won't date me. period 8 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1:Watin the girl do you? |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Kingdante:What is the essence of a relationship if you’re not benefiting from it? I hate to sound somehow, but honestly I feel like you guys are not being honest with yourselves. Sex is not a favour to you guys, yet you persue it more than money sef. Sex is basically like food to men. After basic amenities like food and water sex should be next for men. Women don’t persue sex in the same manner. The same way if you meet a woman who can prepare your favourite meal and coook better, throw it down in the bedroom more, looks better, wouldn’t you opt for the better option? Wouldn’t that be more of a ‘wife’ to you? Not justifying cheating but if she decides to leave for a man who can do a better job as a provider,she has the right to do so. Jeez you guys are becoming so sensitive. 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy: to avoid all this stories... guys should stop dating broke babes.. nairaland ladies are going to insult Mandela for that statement... mehn.. time wasting 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Date an independent lady and you wouldn't have this issue ,my opinion. Guys leave all these slay queens alone. You will keep arguing till tomorrow. Get yourself professional lady; doctor, pharmacist, engineer, the issue of "you have to spend money on me" wouldn't come up. 8 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by majekoam(m): 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1: You think its only broke girls? |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Though i didn't read the book of psalms the op posted but i think I've got an idea.. Ochuko was suppose to buy akara for Amara but he forgot so blessing travel to asaba and got Ada pregnant but the madam banga rice said she don't sell beans but i think i prefer ewedu to okbonor because Jesus is lord and the headies award will be coming soon and NEPA nor bring light but two plus two is four and APC PDP i wan shiit and banga soup plus jet li.. mods front page please.. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:20pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
bammy777: your comment is highly appreciated. 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:21pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy: guy come bbn live thread.. that place is hot |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:25pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
majekoam: ...some girls from wealthy families and independent ladies have that mentality but they're rare... it's limited unlike the scenario when dating a broke bitch 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:25pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:Independent ladies want providers and men that take care of them,no excuse. Unless you want a feminist who will do 50/50 with you on everything, maybe that’s what you’re looking for. There’s no problem with that either. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by perousd: 4:27pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
WTF?? thank you Lord for saving me...
Some girls and their shitty mindset sha. 3 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:27pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Una wey dey put women on monthly allowance/salary under the guise of gwefwend keep on doing it oo ![]() ![]() ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:27pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
the problem is in Nigeria it s hard to see made babes.. mehn... I took me many years before I saw my fiance.. if you want to marry an independent or rich lady my friend go and school in south Africa.. I did my M. Sc there and I met my fiance there... she's the best thing that ever happened to me ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by prechbills1(m): 4:29pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
lefulefu: sex starved kids won't hear... whatever rocks their boat.. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 4:34pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: I earlier asked if you can do me a favor that'll better you and others herein . |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by majekoam(m): 4:34pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1: Not disagreeing with you. Just my my experience that broke or rich...they're out there. ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: My friend, the few ladies I have meant don't have this mentality "my bf has to take care of me" these sets of ladies are those with professional degree esp those in the medical sciences they are well learnt and are not a feminist either. All they say "I will support my bf". Just because you & your friends have that thought doesn't mean every girl does. I wouldn't try to change your mindset. 4 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:36pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy:Education is not only about educating yourself academically. Just want you to understand that. We go to school for different reasons. However, as a woman theres nothing wrong with having your own money. Actually, its very very important to have your own life and income outside your relationship. If a man is going to come into my life though, he must contribute financially, its a must. If im going to accept his proposal, theres must be a substantial gain on my end. 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Impregnable101:u might not be the only one she's dating.she might have six or seven other niggas dat she's in a relationship with.so weda u even start giving her monthly allowance or u refuse giving her it doesn't even make any difference sef. 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:39pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:if they dont say they think it. And if youre not showing that youre financially able to be a husband or father then they’ll leave you for someone who will be. Unless youre talking to teenagers. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:42pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: Lol, my dear. Before my cuz got married his wife receives twice his salary,with that thought she wouldn't have gotten married to now husband. I just they laugh you. Reason average looking girls getting married everyday why those beautiful slay queen are still single in their late 30's. Well I rest my case. I non get strength to argue with you. 7 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1:ehn but after the relationship hits the rock u see them running to social media crying that they spent 200k on their girlfriend but she still dumped them or dat they sponsored her in school but she called off the relationship after she graduated. Its amazing dat some dudes struggling with their monthly upkeep will place a girl on a daily monthly allowance ![]() ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:44pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
lefulefu:Then you've got to make sure you're the only one. Theres no way a woman can date six guys at once and you wont see some signs. Wisen up! 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 4:46pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
whatever,I can't date a stingy broke idiot. |
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