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Please leave that child alone. It is certainly not unusual for girls to have crushes on older people. It is natural and it usually does not go beyond that. You people's behavior has probably put thoughts in her head and also humiliated her for no apparent reason. Next thing we know now some guy will try to rape her and all of you will say she enticed him.

Outstrip:

It is certainly not unusual for girls to have crushes on older people.

Right, you are!

something is wrong somewhere.

where is the girl's father?

Outstrip:

Please leave that child alone. It is certainly not unusual for girls to have crushes on older people. It is natural and it usually does not go beyond that. You people's behavior has probably put thoughts in her head and also humiliated her for no apparent reason. Next thing we know now some guy will try to despoil her and all of you will say she enticed him.

I don't get the logic. It is right for the girl to have a crush on the old man and follow him everywhere with her eyes . But if things suddenly get ugly the man is to blame.

tpia.:

something is wrong somewhere.

where is the girl's father?

Chased out of the house by the woman of course , I think

felifeli:

I don't get the logic. It is right for the girl to have a crush on the old man and follow him everywhere with her eyes . But if things suddenly get ugly the man is to blame.

Chased out of the house by the woman of course , I think

Wow. Did I read your mind or what? You have basically admitted what I said that if the man rapes her then she somehow caused it? I had a crush on one of my dads friends and I followed him everywhere. He knew I was a child and found it amusing. He NEVER touched me. I had a crush on a pastor in our church. My sisters used to tease me all the time. Whenever we were at church MY EYES would follow him everywhere. It was Pastor Nosa this and Pastor Nosa that. In fact when he traveled overseas he bought me gifts and everybody laughed.

Someone asked if her father is around and it turns out he is not. The poor child might simply be looking for a father figure. Please you people should educate yourself. I am sure her mother calls her an ashewo on a daily basis and all of you probably chime in and spread rumors about her. Before you know it men in the neighborhood that have bad intentions and hear the story will look for her to waylay her.

Outstrip:

Please leave that child alone. It is certainly not unusual for girls to have crushes on older people. It is natural and it usually does not go beyond that.

I agree little girls do have crushes for older people, but have you seen an average naija 14yr old girl?
The size of their milk industry alone can bring down the celibacy of a monk!
I think the mum is trying to protect the daughter and the man.

teecantell:

I agree little girls do have crushes for older people, but have you seen an average naija 14yr old girl?
The size of their milk industry alone can bring down the celibacy of a monk!
I think the mum is trying to protect the daughter and the man.

No she is not. Why is the neighborhood talking about it then. She has made it 100 times worse for the kid to the point that someone has come her on Nairaland saying that the girl is asking to be raped

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Actually you should mind your business and get some sense. You have already admitted that if she is raped she would have caused it. Her mother should really be protecting her from rumor mongers like you. You went from following him with her eyes to dressing like a LovePeddler. That poor child has no chance at leaving a normal life as far as you have access to her

Old men prey on these fass assed girls,

queeneve:

Old men prey on these fass assed girls,

Of course and that is why we have parents to keep things in check. If our parents did not do that we all would have been pregnant at age 11 by some older guy that our parents trust.

So be it.

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She obviously just has a crush on the older man, maybe she's missing a father figure in her life.

if he's a filthy perv, he'll take advantage, if otherwise, she'll prolly outgrow it after a while.