ChidiAlaigbo:


Oni gbese, oga debtor sure you must be igbo? Debt shame nor dey catch una!
I wIll leave my house empty instead of renting to una people
sorry to derail op

Daft black man that has no sense. What has this poo got to do with the young man asking your advice? Backward simpleton.

ChidiAlaigbo:


Oni gbese, oga debtor sure you must be igbo? Debt shame nor dey catch una!
I wIll leave my house empty instead of renting to una people
sorry to derail op

Daft simpleton that is putting on a human looks thinking he is a human. Everyone owes in this world.

How has this poo u excreted helped the troubled man?

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perousd:
The guy borrowed you with good mind o. But now you dey post m up n down. I sense it's all your fault. He lost trust in you. He sees you as a swindler. He sees you as a deceiver. He's made enquiries on how to handle your type and he's been told to do the CRAZY.
I don't think your friend is a bad person. I feel you were not being truthful at some point.
I might be wrong with my analysis... Just don't involve your family.
Na so once guy borrow money from me unto say she dey hospital and she go pay back February month end. This is the third month. She dey give me stories upon stories. The thing dey pain as wear. Especially when you need the money back or you feel the person dey post you.

Pay fast abeg. Even if it means selling anything. That's your way out.

Read again and you’ll see the solution ill take if I'm in your shoes

Texrec:

I have tried to use my property to get a loan but my wife is against the idea.

How much you owe him?.

As much as I hate borrowing from Bank that seems to be your best option at this point. The guy is dangerous. This is btw you and him not your family. Many advised you already. Please take heed.

Prognose:
Na Warri man? He wants to abduct your wife and hold her as surety until you pay.


Suggestion :

Involve the police or a lawyer. Let them draft up a memorandum of understanding for both of you saying how much you are owing and how soon you will pay back. That should put to rest any dubious thing he has in mind and also make your hustle more serious in paying him back his money.
Suggestion:
You have been doing good business before, I assume you have a bank account. Take a soft loan from the bank and pay your friend back. You can now pay the bank back monthly.
Pick one.
Solve this matter quickly cos it seems your friend is getting desperate.

Good advise. You must not try to meet him with your wife in any neutral ground. From his action, he has an evil mind and as such,get a lawyer and report the case to the police for security reasons. Work out repayment terms with him.

Texrec:
Good evening Friends, please I need your urgent advice and on how to manage this complicated situation.

I do supply of diesel and other products to a company here in Port Harcourt. They always paid within one or two weeks.After my mother's burial last year ,I didn't have enough cash to execute the supply they gave me because i sponsored the burial as the first son. So I borrowed some cash from a friend.

That was the beginning of my wahala. The company's manager and some workers defrauded the owner that hardly lives in Nigeria. So my payment was delayed and I explained everything to my friend. That I even invested all my little savings to that supply and that I'm even finding it difficult to feed my family.

Around February this year I went to Cross River state to buy chippings for someone and I spent about two days there because of truck problems. So my phone battery was down and even my wife was not able to reach me. To my greatest surprise, this my friend went to my church and I told my pastor that defrauded him.That I have even packed out of my house and switched off my phone. Meanwhile he knows my place and he didn't even bother to go and ask my wife where I went to since my number wasn't going through. When the pastor told me things he said, I couldn't believe it (infact I was shocked). I called my friend and he initially denied meeting my pastor.

The pastor scheduled a meeting for us to meet and sort things out but the guy refused to show up. I have tried to sell my own share of my inheritance to pay him his money but I have not been able to see a serious buyer due to the location of the property.

The problem is that this guy is calling everybody that I know and even going to Facebook to contact my friends that I defrauded him. I have asked him to give me time but he said I must come to somewhere outside port Harcourt town with my wife before he will negotiate anything with me. I cannot allow anybody to ridicule my marriage because of debt. I told him I won't involve my wife in that kind of arrangement. He calls me every morning and night and sometimes i just feel like ignoring his calls because i know it's same talk everytime.The company is currently not operating but the chairman has agreed to pay me soon. How do I handle this mess because this guy is ruining my reputation and it's tearing my marriage apart. If you have experienced this before, please I need your advice urgently because I'm going insane.

Put your marriage out of it because he is threatening you as a person and not really threatening your family.
Tell him you will like to see him one on one, choose the location but don't go alone.
Beg him to give you up to a certain time, tell your siblings what you are passing through incase of tomorrow.
Meet friends that knows him very well to settle both of you before it gets out of hand.