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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 10:11am On Apr 18, 2018
bukatyne:

Money: If a woman works and earns well, is money still a factor for her?
Love: Do you think most wives get love from their husbands?
kids nko?

Will a woman impregnate herself?

Then if women work and earn well, why do most of them still depend on men for financial assistance?

As for love, i quite agree with you.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 10:11am On Apr 18, 2018
SonsOfLiverpool:
Very soon baby mamarism will be the new "marriage"

Humans, we keep inventing things to suit ever changing environment.

Nice.

actually, it is not about change but rather history repeating itself.

Despite the so called civilization. .baby mama is the new marriage.

A man can afford 2 or 3 baby mamas in Nigeria with less stress and less responsibility in Nigeria just like our for-fathers did with their many wives before Christianity destroyed that .

Now it is back and better in another form and it keeps growing even helped by feminism(with-out them knowing) ..by next generation ..marriage of one man -one woman will be obsolete.

The only thing a man owes himself on earth is to be successful in life because nature is already in your corner . You already have that advantage
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by omoharry(f): 10:11am On Apr 18, 2018
GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.
how can you paint all the women in Nigeria with one color...haba now!! you said "Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly" sey your dear Mama, sisters & cousins (God forbid) must have done prostitution at one point in their life.

Some people must have had bad experiences with the opposite sex at one point in their life time but that does not mean the world is filled only with such calibers of human being..We have evil men and also evil women..just the way we also have men who heart is made of Gold and that of women too.chill!

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Reelmii: 10:12am On Apr 18, 2018
GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.
God will bless u with 2 girsl, can I hear an AMEN to that
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by papat26(m): 10:13am On Apr 18, 2018
the problem is that alot of women of this days are not ready to settle down they love material things more any other thing in life it just by the grace of God some body will marry a good wife

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 10:16am On Apr 18, 2018
Toks2008:
I repeat..if not for the love of Christ in me..marriage will never ever cross my mind cos I can always get free s.x and infact they are begging me for it and I can always have a baby mama and all that comes with marriage and when I'm getting close to 70 I can always marry one small sweet lady to take care of my old sef.

Ladies think its all the men that have time for their baseless drama...many of them are very single and seriously searching and when they see a man who is serious to be with them they start acting up like ogbanje....they will see a man that wants them but they prefer a man that just wants to use them...most of them have nothing to offer except their depreciating sexuality....ladies are their own problem...MAY GOD HELP THEM.
toks tokscheesy... Sharp shootercheesy. So u aiming to be like my elder kinsman chief Anthony anenih who is in his mid 80s but got married to a fwesh looking 20 yr old girl some few yrs backcheesy. I gbadu ur style shacheesy.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Paulagada: 10:20am On Apr 18, 2018
Some married friends discourage us from getting married by saying "had it been I knew it would be like this I wouldn't have got married". How will I enter a business when someone already in the business is regretting it? Women of nowadays both educated and uneducated have high taste starting from friendship to marriage. Most of them abandon us for sugar Daddy, and worst of all, UNEMPLOYMENT.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Rexnegro(m): 10:21am On Apr 18, 2018
MissRaine69:


Just because you have constantly fraternised with women who have nothing to offer don’t argue a point that all Nigerian women have nothing to offer. You have not met all Nigerian women to make a blanket statement like that.
yes have not met all women, but from the stats abt the few ones I have it boils down to me that the next one will be the same hence all Nigerian girls don't worth it, at first they appear to be like they worth it but getting closer chai then u no they don't worth it at all. maybe few with brain might worth it . babe I no make any blanket statement here ok.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 10:39am On Apr 18, 2018
Tochyodiks:
and err even if am addicted to porn is it any of your business? is not my life? grin your English constructive is so bad.. Anyways I pity the guy who will marry you.. Me am single all the way and I don't give a fvck about you woman than to fvck them and throw them one side tongue (if you are not my employee of course)
he is crying cheesy ;Dhe just realized he is a fool embarassed embarassed it's so sad u have been useless to urself all this years. Grow up boy. Ur mates are making things happen.. .forgive my English OK. Am typing with phone and as for my guy u not his type cos u are
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 10:41am On Apr 18, 2018
Ugosample:


All these stories for what bikomu undecided

We know the truth, but you ladies will not admit it.

In Nigeria, it's never the same. Women are ALWAYS MORE DESPERATE than men to get married.

And women tend to gain more from it than men, especially their status in the society
says so bunch of guys watching Man United and Baca match at the street corner ba grin
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 10:44am On Apr 18, 2018
AstroG:
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I used "Still On Still" because am from the Streets,
And that doesn't mean am not well Educated or Well travelled..
I Have Two Degrees and currently pursuing the third one,that won't make me to Stop Using "Street Slangs"
Weldon u really doing well for yourself sha do and go and marry. I won't even be surprised if some married men are here claiming single. Pls don't listen to them say marry OK. Love is real and Nigerian women are doing well for themselves from ur talks unsound like a perfect gentle man

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 10:46am On Apr 18, 2018
Drabeey:



you are wrong my dear
prove it sweetheart
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 10:47am On Apr 18, 2018
prince3009:


The problem is not the her body being worn out. The major problem is not having children before the body wears out. And most women believe that having children is more fulfilling within the confines of marriage.
u are right!!!that's the socitial pressure I am talking abt!
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
he is crying cheesy ;Dhe just realized he is a fool embarassed embarassed it's so sad u have been useless to urself all this years. Grow up boy. Ur mates are making things happen.. .forgive my English OK. Am typing with phone and as for my guy u not his type cos u are
Jesus I have never seen such a senseless illiterate like you... You still don't understand anything I wrote there grin and I have a job, I work, I make my money and I will keep eating my money.. Not giving girls like you a dime tongue .. Go to school you no gree.. Olosho 10 niara grin
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 10:55am On Apr 18, 2018
LegitGirl:



Very correct @bolded. I don't know why men have decided to lie to themselves that they can get married anytime they wish. An average girl has more than one man trying to win her affections.

Correction

An average girl has more than one man trying to FVCK her
....

now you are good to go
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by tosyne2much(m): 10:55am On Apr 18, 2018
Montez90:
and if you go on to marry an average lady, it'll compound your problem
almost) An average lady in what sense?
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by paix(m): 10:55am On Apr 18, 2018
Women these days want a ready-made husband. They don't want to start from scratch with their husbands. Most of them are already spent in trying to keep body and soul together and they don't know how to cook. The best dish you can expect from them is noodles and fried eggs.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 10:58am On Apr 18, 2018
anochuko01:

I love your sincerity.
my elder sister who had a PGD never had a job but her whole problem was how to get married. now she's got a kid, husband ,lost his job and she's still jobless.

Only if most women too would choose to understand that there's more to life than getting married.
exactly
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 18, 2018
Anenih has 3 wives that I know of, rich men like to keep updating so there have something to live long for
lefulefu:
toks tokscheesy... Sharp shootercheesy. So u aiming to be like my elder kinsman chief Anthony anenih who is in his mid 80s but got married to a fwesh looking 20 yr old girl some few yrs backcheesy. I gbadu ur style shacheesy.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Duru009(m): 11:14am On Apr 18, 2018
The rate of single ladies nowadays has tripled these days !

I can't really understand whats going on !
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by UDUJ(m): 11:24am On Apr 18, 2018
lefulefu:
gbam gbam gbam!cheesy... Better oil dey ur headcheesy. Olosho veterans wey we dey tag as Madamscheesy ..most of them prefer their singlehood. They still engage in their olosho business once in a while and dem go recruit young young girls into their armycheesy. This is why i always say olosho business be like military job. Once a soldier..always a soldier...once a runzgirl...always a runzgirlcheesy. Many of them wen dhier ppl don too pressurize dem into marriage or their collegues dey laugh dem...then what dey do is look for one mumu Jeew guy..entice am by faking to be nice and when she don marry d mumu guy dats wen she start showing him pepper. As soon as she don preg and born then get dat Mrs tag,she go divorce d mumu man and carry d child and resume with her olosho business.na so dem becheesy. This is why its important d woman dat u want to get married to try know more about her. Listen to what ppl say around and weigh ur options thoroughly. If she be one chance park ur bag and run for ur lifecheesy. Gud morning my brothercheesy.

Morning my brother.

I wish you a great day filled with prospects of plenty ukwus cool

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by franklingud(m): 11:28am On Apr 18, 2018
As for me, money no dey to marry my love.

I love her so much. But na money.

Please I need little assistance from good nairalanders.


0008351585.

Sterling bank plc.

Thanks and God bless.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Oyindidi(f): 11:29am On Apr 18, 2018
skywalker240:

If am correct, thats the same age range your present guy is.
Kai i can imagine gthe pressure from his family. He is maybe yet to learn the hard way abi? and who told you toks2008 is single?.. Woman,
if u have noting reasonable to argue jst zip it up.r

Am starting tprechbills might be right when he called you double standard.
Toks is single
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by LegitGirl(f): 11:35am On Apr 18, 2018
Espada10:


Correction

An average girl has more than one man trying to FVCK her
....

now you are good to go

Nope. That's different. If that were the case, I'd have said 10. But I'm talking about men who are willing to be serious with her...not just screw and bounce.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Mcy56(f): 11:41am On Apr 18, 2018
Duru009:
The rate of single ladies nowadays has tripled these days !
I can't really understand whats going on !
Is that not what we are saying here? angry
Many eligible men are running away from marriage, choosing fwb and olosho's instead. sad

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:48am On Apr 18, 2018
GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:51am On Apr 18, 2018
Olalan:
The economy isn't helping as many guys are still struggling to find their feet, also the rate at which girls sleep around is making guys not to value girls anymore

This Is obviously rampant these days, I easy get weak whenever i think about it. A single guy can comfortably sleeps with 5 different ladies in just a day as long as he has his cash intact. It's very alarming and disturbing.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:55am On Apr 18, 2018
Tochyodiks:
Jesus I have never seen such a senseless illiterate like you... You still don't understand anything I wrote there grin and I have a job, I work, I make my money and I will keep eating my money.. Not giving girls like you a dime tongue .. Go to school you no gree.. Olosho 10 niara grin

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by LoneWolf200(m): 11:58am On Apr 18, 2018
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Apr 18, 2018
DonPiiko:
Anenih has 3 wives that I know of, rich men like to keep updating so there have something to live long for
yeah chief anenih got wedded to his new catch in 2015. Me i dey wonder how an 80 something yr old man will be able to sexually satisfy a 21 yr old girlcheesy. Would be an uphill task for Mr fix itcheesy. Anyway there's nothing cucumber or Love Machine can not do or worst still she go probably get an ex that's smashing her in secret. Everything na codecheesy.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 12:03pm On Apr 18, 2018
lefulefu:
gbam gbam gbam!cheesy... Better oil dey ur headcheesy. Olosho veterans wey we dey tag as Madamscheesy ..most of them prefer their singlehood. They still engage in their olosho business once in a while and dem go recruit young young girls into their armycheesy. This is why i always say olosho business be like military job. Once a soldier..always a soldier...once a runzgirl...always a runzgirlcheesy. Many of them wen dhier ppl don too pressurize dem into marriage or their collegues dey laugh dem...then what dey do is look for one mumu Jeew guy..entice am by faking to be nice and when she don marry d mumu guy dats wen she start showing him pepper. As soon as she don preg and born then get dat Mrs tag,she go divorce d mumu man and carry d child and resume with her olosho business.na so dem becheesy. This is why its important d woman dat u want to get married to try know more about her. Listen to what ppl say around and weigh ur options thoroughly. If she be one chance park ur bag and run for ur lifecheesy. Gud morning my brothercheesy.


Perfect advise..before you marry a girl..pls ask around..dig well..study her very well especially her friends and her family.

Look for people who knows her ,attends or attended school with her and ask ( never fail to this). Be sincere and ask them..u can even pay for information ..Don't be suprised even her "so called" friends will tell you who she really is .


One of the greatest myth on earth is that you can never know or tell with women.

that is a fat lie.

there is always signs

women are smart but not that smart and they lie better than you.

Always pay attention to whatever she says( whether as a joke or not)..never dimiss it

It is just that men and their non-chalant attitude , ego and asslicking behaviours often understimate and dismiss that signs.

Pay very close attention to your so called woman for 3 months..monitor her at a distance but not that close.

You will start predicting her next move..when she changes from the woman you use to know.

or

when she is trying so hard to pacify for something

or

if she is faking it

never you dismiss your fears about her..if you suspect anything ..act on it until you are satisfied ..Don't dismis it..

Actually, women are good at this.

example

It is better you discover that your child is not yours at an early stage than when you are old. Of course it will hurt and you will be devastated. .even cry but is better and you can move on time ( that is an example)


unless you're under a spell then OYO is your name.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 18, 2018
It's always for companionship, he can. Kill himself if he tries to have sex with her. She should low-key have someone that changes her oil when she needs it. Most wayward oldmen like to marry new wives at old age
lefulefu:
yeah chief anenih got wedded to his new catch in 2015. Me i dey wonder how an 80 something yr old man will be able to sexually satisfy a 21 yr old girlcheesy. Would be an uphill task for Mr fix itcheesy. Anyway there's nothing cucumber or Love Machine can not do or worst still she go probably get an ex that's smashing her in secret. Everything na codecheesy.

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