Having fixed their marriage date, she met me, and we fell in love. We were long lost friends. She then told me she would not continue with the marriage plan. Please, understand that I'm not rich o. But the way she fell looks as if magic is involved. I didn't know how to advise her and I told her to do whatever pleases her. She ended up shattering the man's heart in a commando-like manner. Note that we were not dating when we were just friends in those days. Now that we started dating, I've been showing her some flaws where she needs to adjust if not totally eradicated. Then she did something and I said, "If you continue this way, I can promise you that we won't end up getting married to each other."

Her response: I shattered someone's heart because of you and you caused the cancelation of the forthcoming marriage and you're saying you may not marry me abi?"

Note that I love her so much, but as a rule, men with balls "no send", and I may choose to hurt her. I told her to apologize for that statement but she refused. Of all the sins in this world, blackmail is the only one not forgivable by me.

Should I do my worst if she refuses to apologize?

If you don't let that lady go considering she's about to get married and YOU KNOW, that's how someone will do you

Just await your Heart Smashing!!!

Oga OP. She left someone because of you. From experience, she's likely to do the same to you.
Note that this woman does not care about the feelings of others, hence she was able to break someone's heart (someone with whom she was planning a marriage) after meeting another person, and bragging about it to the other person, i.e you. Also, she doesn't even respect you, for her to utter words that hurt your feelings and not make any attempt to apologize. Infact OP move on biko, she's not worth this stress you're involving yourself in. Her ex-fiance dodged a bullet. Be like him.

FortifiedCity:
If you don't let that lady go considering she's about to get married and YOU KNOW, that's how someone will do you

Read again and understand the post. Someone cancelled the marriage and you're saying if I don't let her go. Is marriage now by force? Nl kids, eh.

CrescentMoon:


Read again and understand the post. Someone cancelled the marriage and you're saying if I don't let her go. Is marriage now by force? Nl kids, eh.

Take the message to the person, you brought it here

talk2hb1:
Just await your Heart Smashing!!!

Smashing my heart in this age? You're a learner.

CrescentMoon:


Smashing my heart in this age? You're a learner.

Watch Your Back Bro!

And this is how you repay her for cancelling her marriage just to be with you ?

No don't forgive her.
Kill her!

Thegeneralqueen:
And this is how you repay her for cancelling her marriage just to be with you ?

I'm a mathematician; I know when equations with unrealistic variables will cause problems. If she's not corrected now, it will spell doom for us in the future.

CrescentMoon:


I'm a mathematician; I know when equations with unrealistic variables will cause problems. If she's not corrected now, it will spell doom for us in the future.

What are those flaws if I may ask

How old is this lady? 'cause I would love to know.

I mean, who cancels marriage over some feelings that could die off in no time? Obviously she doesn't respect the feelings of others if she could cancel marriage that a date has already been fixed. The supposed ex fiancé dodged a bullet 'cause such unstable ladies end up being promiscuous in marriage once another man could successful use blandishment to win them over. I pity you, you don't know what's coming 'cause if she could do this to someone she was about marring then she could do same to you.

Someone cancelled a marriage because of you.. And you think it is a good thing?.. No worry..your time is coming

you see why I run away from these broke guys?
I wonder what the lady saw in your pitiable life that she has to canceal her own marriage cos of you.

shame,you came here to grease up your ego abi, don't worry you will still come here to complain on how she left your broke life.

KARMA wil surely catch up with you & fuççk your balls..
Nature must take its course

Wetin she go do you go pass the other guy own

highpriestess:
you see why I run away from these broke guys?
I wonder what the lady saw in your pitiable life that she has to canceal her own marriage cos of you.

shame,you came here to grease up your ego abi, don't worry you will still come here to complain on how she left your broke life.

Investors yaff come. If husby no make money, dem no go eat.

IamD18:
You must be foolish for even gathering the guts and audacity to bring this rubbish here.

Like, are you high on hot sperm?

You made her ruin her marriage, you knew she's suppose to get married to a man, yet your sense couldn't function alongside with your preeq, you didn't attempt to respect the man, you didn't bother to put yourself in the man's shoes, and you had the impetus to expose your waywardness to us.

You and that lady are simple MAD and WAYWARD

All thanks to God for saving that innocent man from a stupid, promiscuous, dumb, wayward and unfocused lady, a lady who cancelled her marriage because of such reason deserved to be thrown inside a zoo.

C'omon will you get out of here and stop exposing your stupidity.

Ahah!! This is brutal oo. Are u in any way related to de girl's ex??

CrescentMoon:
Having fixed their marriage date, she met me, and we fell in love. We were long lost friends. She then told me she would not continue with the marriage plan. Please, understand that I'm not rich o. But the way she fell looks as if magic is involved. I didn't know how to advise her and I told her to do whatever pleases her. She ended up shattering the man's heart in a commando-like manner. Note that we were not dating when we were just friends in those days. Now that we started dating, I've been showing her some flaws where she needs to adjust if not totally eradicated. Then she did something and I said, "If you continue this way, I can promise you that we won't end up getting married to each other."

Her response: I shattered someone's heart because of you and you caused the cancelation of the forthcoming marriage and you're saying you may not marry me abi?"

Note that I love her so much, but as a rule, men with balls "no send", and I may choose to hurt her. I told her to apologize for that statement but she refused. Of all the sins in this world, blackmail is the only one not forgivable by me.

Should I do my worst if she refuses to apologize?

If this story is true mr endeavor and marry her, forget whatsoever blame or how you can twist the story it's totally unfair if you break up with her.

OP if she could do that to her former lover, expect a much more worse action from her to you one day someday

But why are people like this biko??.


Someone is getting hitched, it's not as if you didn't know she was getting married, you knew, and even went forward to date her, nitori kini??, love abi feelings kwanu??.

Sometimes, we need to apply sense(common sense sef) before doing things.

U better marry the gurl oo, b4 acid pour on u.
But the gurl shaa, no sense either, i expected the op to knock some sense into her, and not get involved.



#SeemsHavingSenseIsBecomingExpensiveNowadays

Apologise for what exactly?

She made a statement of fact

CrescentMoon:
Having fixed their marriage date, she met me, and we fell in love. We were long lost friends. She then told me she would not continue with the marriage plan. Please, understand that I'm not rich o. But the way she fell looks as if magic is involved. I didn't know how to advise her and I told her to do whatever pleases her. She ended up shattering the man's heart in a commando-like manner. Note that we were not dating when we were just friends in those days. Now that we started dating, I've been showing her some flaws where she needs to adjust if not totally eradicated. Then she did something and I said, "If you continue this way, I can promise you that we won't end up getting married to each other."

Her response: I shattered someone's heart because of you and you caused the cancelation of the forthcoming marriage and you're saying you may not marry me abi?"

Note that I love her so much, but as a rule, men with balls "no send", and I may choose to hurt her. I told her to apologize for that statement but she refused. Of all the sins in this world, blackmail is the only one not forgivable by me.

Should I do my worst if she refuses to apologize?

I think you need "spiritual " help, something is just not right, from your topics, Today, a married woman seeks divorce just to be with you, then tomorrow, an engaged lady called off her wedding for you... It's either you are lying or something is wrong with you spiritually.

You finished secondary school 18 years ago, then by now, you're spared supposed to be married... Move closer to God o, brother.

I support her decision not to apologize, must she apologize? you that is complaining don't you have flaws too? people that focus on others weaknesses usually have loads of it themselves, I'd advice you to work on your self it's not everything that you should complain about.

Op if this ur story is true. It only shows how shallow the girl is. For her to leave a relationship that has made it to wedding stage for u her friend hmm... And ur acting like ur all that from ur comments & post but ur not wise at all.. A wise man knows never to be indebted to any one.. Indebted here i mean owe no one no favours, most especially WOMEN... It will get u down faster than u know it. U will never be able to pay her back for what she's claiming she did for u.. Lolzz u just got urself fvcked up but u don't know.. The only way out is to be passive about the whole thing & pray it expires so u can be free...aww sh1t u said u "love her so much"...ogbeni na problem u put urself so. How can u love someone who did that sh1t to another man for u it is finished

highpriestess:
you see why I run away from these broke guys?
I wonder what the lady saw in your pitiable life that she has to canceal her own marriage cos of you.

shame,you came here to grease up your ego abi, don't worry you will still come here to complain on how she left your broke life.

true to some extent

You are wicked! Where is the blackmail in that statement?

I don't blame you one bit. I blame the girl who is unsure of what she wants. I bet you've fúçked her, right? Suddenly, you are looking for a way out.

Why did you ask her to leave her relationship with a better promise of what to come, yet, you were never willing to go all the way?!

Everyone has flaws.

Better marry that girl before all the gods of our land will descend and blight your future.