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After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Teedora: 12:22pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Pls my friends i have a question.two people dated for 8 yrs and eventually got married but d marriage coukd not last a year.what could ve been d cause.pls i need ur view on it |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Olalan(m): 12:34pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Am beginning to realise that many lovers in this age are loving each other cause it's convinent for them to love the person at that moment, while dating they might not really know each well cause they don't live with each other. You can only know about a persons character when you live together. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by IdeyFindWife: 12:39pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Pre-wedding dating, courtship etc play a great role in you knowing whether to go ahead or not But some still go ahead after great courtship and still tank the marriage |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by schumastic(m): 12:41pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Shiit happens, Meanwhile. Some have boo but cannot cheat, Some can cheat but have no boo, We have boo and we can cheat, Glory be to thee o, Lord. Signed. Vice President, Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch. 2 Likes |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:54pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
It happens. People should understand that most things we call love is not love but lust. You can hide all character defects in courtship, but not in marriage. Besides,love alone does not sustain marriage but understanding and tolerance. 1 Like |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by MissRaine69(f): 1:26pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Because neither party wanted to be honest with each other. The relationship was no longer there but a wedding was an expectation. 1 Like |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by MissRaine69(f): 1:27pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE:Hiding the real you for eight whole years? |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 1:29pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
on most occasions that this happened, the partners might have spent very limited time together during the courtship period. This is why I don't buy the idea of long distance relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by 1stSonOfLucifer(m): 1:34pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Waiting for the elders. Àwọn singles but expertise in marriage counselling |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Destiblack(m): 1:38pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
what would be must be n there is nothing any body can do abt it. when u pretend to luv someone when u don't really do. |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:57pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
[quote author=MissRaine69 post=66928398] Hiding the real you for eight whole years? [/quote....My dear not necessarily hiding persay but the initial love at the beginning of an affair may not be what is actually needed to sustain a marriage.Something more stronger is needed |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by myself13: 3:01pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Humans are multifaceted, complex, constantly changing creatures, partially driven by their innate whims and caprices or emotions and other times by prejudices. . You strive to understand your partner in marriage, not in courtship. it's evident patience and maturity that would have been needed in the marriage was poured out in their EIGHT years courtship by the both partners. . Marriage requires two persons coming together with respect for themselves, a bit of mutual compatibility, willingness to be together against all odds and a leap of faith to bring their union to materialization.Any marital union without these vital ingredients is bound to collapse. . Endurance, discipline borne out of personal beliefs not religion, but could be tradition, and sacrifices are fundamental values that ensures a progressive marriage of which our mothers and fathers had and understood these basic concepts which made their marriages work effectively during their times. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by lonikit: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
three tings involved: 1. the 8yrs might be distanced courtship. 2. change is constant. wht attracted the man in the woman might hav faded away. 3. village pple might be at work 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by CosmicJames(m): 3:43pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Teedora:The cause is compatibility. They are not compatible to each other! During their dating years, they were never very close to each other. But after marriage, they become very close (they must be very close to each other after marriage) and realised that they couldn't understand each other or get along well. So they just end it instead. |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by engrelvis(m): 5:13pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
There is difference between marriage n courtship.i know people who r dating will argue dis.dnt worry when dey get married dey will understand |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
You should ask one of both parties what happened, and come back and tell us what really happened. |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Too many secrets marriage revealed! |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:05pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Most relationships are fake |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:05pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:Evening |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
greiboy:Hello Grey... How are you doing this evening? |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:13pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:Good we thank God How was your weekend? church? |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Apina(m): 6:16pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
What sort of stupid question is that, how do you expect us to know? 1 Like |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
greiboy:It is fine oooo, not yet over. But I will appreciate it if it can start all over Service was awesome today, Yours? |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:Sure, but why do wish to start over? emmm. I went to morning service. So to borrow your words, it was quite awesome too |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:46pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
greiboy:Don't know, maybe I'm not fully prepared for tomorrow. Lazy me That's good to read, Which church BTW? |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 6:51pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:Cac revival Really that makes two of us lazy ass adults |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Kampack: 7:37pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
greiboy: Thanks to you two for nicely derailing this thread. Hope youre both satisfied now. |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 7:41pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Kampack:I am sorry bro I can modify the comments if you wish |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Kampack: 7:43pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Re: After 8 Years Of Courtship Marriage Could Not Last A Year by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Kampack:Yes I thought you were op |
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