Tough relationships — we all have them. But what do they leave you with? Sure, they leave you with a lot of heartbreak, but what do they leave you believing about yourself? It burdens my heart so much to see the lies other people can make people believe about themselves. Here are a few lies I found people believing after and/or during a bad relationship — myself included.

1. “I can change them.”

First and foremost, you cannot change another person. I repeat — you cannot change another person. This is the first red flag. You should never go into a relationship with intentions to change someone because it will continually leave you disappointed. People aren’t going to change without willingness and conviction, and those two things are to be brought on by the Holy Spirit. Guard your heart and don’t try to be their savior, because quite frankly you can’t be.


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