QueenSuccubus:


It depends.. I like my man being honest to me no matter what..i dont care about his past, if he will tell me everything, who am i to judge him? For me , the most important is now & our future together as long he is willing to change & walkout from his bad habits to make our relationship works

aaronson:
Being honest gets you stabbed, Being honest gets you betrayed sometimes being honest gets you killed.

To live a peaceful life, Embrace silence! because when you get so honest about everything, you letting your guard down and dropping your armour, your partner now knows from where to strike and how to strike especially if they not as honest as you. Human relationship is complicated, Your own blood relative might even have you in mind for years and not say nothing about it even take it to the grave not to talk of lovers.

I'm not trying to tear down HONEST as a word, All am saying is to be ahead in life and lower the chances of being played, betrayed and scandalized, you just need to have a slick tongue like that of a lesbians and lawyers. it works for me.

SafetyFirst:
A man who has never lied to a woman has no respect for her feelings.

xtraordinariguy:
really bro this thought is quite complicated, i think it most applies in the case of unfaithfulness and infidelity. never the less quite thoughtful

SafetyFirst:


There are little white lies, like when she asks you. It's like I'm getting too fat? This my favorite cloth is getting tight and you tell her she's just OK the way she is.

ranmoor:
Most ladies will tell u they want an honest man, str. forward bla bla bla... But they are never honest nor str forward. Ladies will tell u half story,the exact one they will use to hook u. When they tell u dat soso person asked them out, it means they once date.. I remember my very old gf, she once told me my area big bros was disturbing her, only for me to catch her leaving the bros house at ungodly hour.
Most people cannot handle the truth in most cases.
Well, as far as I am concern, I say the truth 100% every time cos I don't really care if they stay or go..

AstroG:
Make I no talk sha.

xtraordinariguy:
dear fellow romancelanders,i have seen a lot of very rossy relationships crumble because at some point the other player or partner exposed either a fact or secret about himself or herself. then the other partner becomes hurt and unforgiving .pls lets share or wonderful views

Burgerlomo:
It's awesome to be honest in a relationship but following Lai Mohammed footsteps once in a while is not a bad idea either depends on the situation that you find yourself