Found this person who hit it off entirely been talking to him for 10 years
We both have the deepest feelings n desires and love each other, what to do, person
married to i don't get along with nor have things in common. He's always very serious
person and i am more fun loving person , What to do can't keep living like this, been a year
already

Girl, bye! No one's going to help you with your dirty deeds. How do you get married but have someone else that you're interested in? I am so tired of lazy, lackluster morons taking the easy way out and then asking for help to break another person's heart. Work it out like a grown up, ma.

poster, are you missing your medication or something.

your posts seem rather schizophrenic imo.

Ouch. . . .*diez*

I wonder if you were sleeping when you got married to the man. It's only been a year and you're tired. And what's your excuse? That he's not fun loving abi? You better stick to your husband. Don't leave him and go and get married to a fun loving guy that enjoy beating the crap out of you.

Jaidey-one:

I wonder if you were sleeping when you got married to the man. It's only been a year and you're tired. And what's your excuse? That he's not fun loving abi? You better stick to your husband. Don't leave him and go and get married to a fun loving guy that enjoy beating the crap out of you.

not sleeping  that is Women problems. she found someone with power and she wants to dump her husband

Base on what you wrote ,you said you knew this guy for 10years right? So what kept you from not marrying him if truely you have a strong feeling together?My sister i will advice you to stinks to your husband and dont evr try to leave him so that you will not use your own hand to dig your grave.I wish you all the good things that marriage brings.

harleynred:

Found this person who hit it off entirely been talking to him for 10 years
We both have the deepest feelings n desires and love each other, what to do, person
married to i don't get along with nor have things in common. He's always very serious
person and i am more fun loving person , What to do can't keep living like this, been a year
already

Pack your bags and leave your boring husband.
No man is worth that stress. . . . . .Fly off to this dude you have been loving for 10 years.
Tomorrow is not promised. . . .Live your life to the fullest.

harleynred:

Found this person who hit it off entirely been talking to him for 10 years
We both have the deepest feelings n desires and love each other, what to do, person
married to i don't get along with nor have things in common. He's always very serious
person and i am more fun loving person , What to do can't keep living like this, been a year
already

so you didnt know all this before you married him,

so during the time you have been taking to the other man for 10 years, it did not occur to you, he might be the man for you until 10 years later and after you married your boring husband, abeg commot for here jo!!!

It sounds to me like you were fine with the marriage until you found someone else,
now you are looking for any excuse to get out of it. The reasons given are not genuine
enough to break a strong vow such as marriage.

I mean how ridiculous is this?

harleynred:

He's always very serious
person and i am more fun loving person ,

You just found that out?

Stop the si-ll-y excuse. Just tell us that your man can no longer perform like before and you need a technical partner.

girl, dont be deceived that you are not alone in this, you are definitely OYO (on your own) so wake up and stop searching for excuse for none will be acceptable rather start browsing for books such as 101 ways of loving your husband ets

Just imagine ur husband posting this rubbish!!! what will u feel, its just a stupid excuse to execute ur silly and foolish thing u call feelings!!! after the guy has felt ur swagger pussy enuf, he'll tell u to bounce!!! just be wise, and by the way dem pursue u enta d mariage sef?? ? U will surly be the biggest HO.

grass is greener syndrome, tread carefully!

this lady is silly very stupid , brainless

Am sure u ve forgetten those vows u made on ur wedding day, incase u av pls see d pastor or Imam dat joined u together to ur husby so he can read it to u ones again. u ar definitely out of ur mind, pls dont try wat u will regret for the rest of ur life. stick to ur man, better still talk to him about it i hope he gives u a dirty slap.

must you always insult to pass mssgs across?

na wa o

@OP
na wa for u too
abeg, tell ur husband hes boring and its affecting you

do all u can to make him lively , use jazz if u have to. dont go about sleeping around o cos if ur husband catches u
na acid u dey take play