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Dating by LilyLoveAffairs(f): 3:39pm On Apr 26, 2018
A peaceful relationship is still very possible.
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Re: Dating by scarrramenga: 3:45pm On Apr 26, 2018
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Dealing with one’s spouse could sometimes be very difficult, looking as though there’s no love or thinking that a wrong choice was made. Negative issues will naturally emerge when two individuals try coming together to form a union. These issues could be due to the fact that both of you were actually exposed to different life’s experiences, environmental factors, upbringing, etc. even identical twins also exhibit differences in character wise, let alone your partner that was never related to you.

But for the common destination, you both are heading to; there should be conscious efforts in avoiding quarrels in your relationship/marriage for the sake of peace and harmony in the home.



Below, are 20 basic TIPS that can help you prevent negative issues with your partner:

Stop hiding to access his/her phone; you might just end up hurting yourself when you forcefully see the some of the crazy things on that phone that u weren’t supposed to see. What eyes do not see doesn’t affect the heart. Especially when you know you are not ready to leave the person. Just let his/her phone be!
Don’t be a social monitoring agent; this you do by adding up his/her facebook contacts to your list, checking on the pix he/she commented on and how the person responded on the comments. How many social platforms with millions of users can you keep track on? Stop giving your partner unnecessary questions to answer.
Don’t report your spouse to your friends and family; of course, your family loves you quite a lot. Hence, any time you tell them how bad your partner has treated you, you only leave them with one option and that is to hate your partner terribly. Even after both of you have resolved the differences, your friends, and family that you have involved find it difficult if not impossible to let go.
Don’t be too close to the opposite on the excuse of friendship
Stop talking about your EX in his/her presence. If the EX was so good, you would have stayed. Focus on your partner and your future together.
Erase worse imaginations from your mind; don’t think he/she is cheating when your call is not picked or when not at home.
Never feels insecure for any reason. Insecure feeling breeds low self-esteem.
Forcefully choose to trust him/her. Don’t give room for doubts even when the person seems not faithful
Don’t be too demanding of time and money. It makes him/her feel pressurized.
Don’t act too wise in dealing with your partner. You can pretend to be a fool to some of his/her actions.
Guide your ear to hear only good stuff about your spouse. Don’t give room for rumors. Even if it’s from his or her best friend, shun it! Gossips have ruined many happy homes.
Be blind to faults; focus your attention on the things that are working instead of his/her flaws.
Don’t be on a bet with someone to tempt your partner. He/she is not Jesus.
Avoid hasty decisions: 99% of actions took in anger are usually wrong. Cool down and makes sure your nerves are relaxed before taking any decision. Lest you regret it.
Make a decision never to sleep till the next morning with bitterness in your heart towards your partner.
Be humble enough to apologize. “Dear, am really sorry” is not a death sentence. Say it with all sincerity not just for the formality. It shows your strength not a weakness as many thinks.
Don’t be too hardened! Learn to forgive as fast as possible even without being apologized to. It’s a sign of maturity
Communicate rightly with your partner. You can learn it as a skill if you don’t know how best to talk
Study to know what is of values to her or what he esteemed.
Pray together; this is the most important. A home that prays together have a solid foundation which can not be brought down by love’s storm.

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Re: Dating by greatnaija01: 3:49pm On Apr 26, 2018
COrrect BRO I feel u o

THANKS FOR THIS

scarrramenga:

IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT US TO CLICK TO SEE?

Dealing with one’s spouse could sometimes be very difficult, looking as though there’s no love or thinking that a wrong choice was made. Negative issues will naturally emerge when two individuals try coming together to form a union. These issues could be due to the fact that both of you were actually exposed to different life’s experiences, environmental factors, upbringing, etc. even identical twins also exhibit differences in character wise, let alone your partner that was never related to you.

But for the common destination, you both are heading to; there should be conscious efforts in avoiding quarrels in your relationship/marriage for the sake of peace and harmony in the home.



Below, are 20 basic TIPS that can help you prevent negative issues with your partner:

Stop hiding to access his/her phone; you might just end up hurting yourself when you forcefully see the some of the crazy things on that phone that u weren’t supposed to see. What eyes do not see doesn’t affect the heart. Especially when you know you are not ready to leave the person. Just let his/her phone be!
Don’t be a social monitoring agent; this you do by adding up his/her facebook contacts to your list, checking on the pix he/she commented on and how the person responded on the comments. How many social platforms with millions of users can you keep track on? Stop giving your partner unnecessary questions to answer.
Don’t report your spouse to your friends and family; of course, your family loves you quite a lot. Hence, any time you tell them how bad your partner has treated you, you only leave them with one option and that is to hate your partner terribly. Even after both of you have resolved the differences, your friends, and family that you have involved find it difficult if not impossible to let go.
Don’t be too close to the opposite on the excuse of friendship
Stop talking about your EX in his/her presence. If the EX was so good, you would have stayed. Focus on your partner and your future together.
Erase worse imaginations from your mind; don’t think he/she is cheating when your call is not picked or when not at home.
Never feels insecure for any reason. Insecure feeling breeds low self-esteem.
Forcefully choose to trust him/her. Don’t give room for doubts even when the person seems not faithful
Don’t be too demanding of time and money. It makes him/her feel pressurized.
Don’t act too wise in dealing with your partner. You can pretend to be a fool to some of his/her actions.
Guide your ear to hear only good stuff about your spouse. Don’t give room for rumors. Even if it’s from his or her best friend, shun it! Gossips have ruined many happy homes.
Be blind to faults; focus your attention on the things that are working instead of his/her flaws.
Don’t be on a bet with someone to tempt your partner. He/she is not Jesus.
Avoid hasty decisions: 99% of actions took in anger are usually wrong. Cool down and makes sure your nerves are relaxed before taking any decision. Lest you regret it.
Make a decision never to sleep till the next morning with bitterness in your heart towards your partner.
Be humble enough to apologize. “Dear, am really sorry” is not a death sentence. Say it with all sincerity not just for the formality. It shows your strength not a weakness as many thinks.
Don’t be too hardened! Learn to forgive as fast as possible even without being apologized to. It’s a sign of maturity
Communicate rightly with your partner. You can learn it as a skill if you don’t know how best to talk
Study to know what is of values to her or what he esteemed.
Pray together; this is the most important. A home that prays together have a solid foundation which can not be brought down by love’s storm.
Re: Dating by scarrramenga: 3:51pm On Apr 26, 2018
greatnaija01:
COrrect BRO I feel u o

THANKS FOR THIS

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