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I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Kumar4india: 12:56pm On Apr 27, 2018
Dear LS,

I am torn in my mind on what to do with my emotional state of mind. This is because,even though I am engaged to someone,I am in love with another lady. Somto and I have been dating for almost five years. She was in final year in school when we started,today she works with an NGO that caters for IDPs.

With the current situation in our country,her job makes her travel quite often. Given,Sombo absolutely loves her job. Her passion to help other people who are in need is outstanding. Initially,when she took the job,I admired her for it. I was proud of her. But three years after,it appears the job is really coming in between us. We hardly see each other. And even when she is in town,she is always busy planning one event or training or something humanitarian. When we got engaged last year,I thought we would be married by the end of the year but she was hardy even arrange to plan a wedding. I didnt want to be seen as insensitive. I wanted to support her and her career and dreams to the fullest. But it appears marriage is not her first priority.

But while all these are going on,I am seriously been neglected. Not helping is the fact single ladies are always around me. My boss in the office is a 36 year old beautiful woman. She is single and I always admire her she carries herself. Also a very dedicated christian. I have been attracted to her for sometime but I didnt want to pursue the idea. I mean,she is my boss for one. When we are not very busy,we talk about our personal lives and how our love lives suck. She has been unfortunate to always fall in love with the wrong guys.She on the other hand,always advised me to be patient with my fiance,Somto.

The entire office worked late one night,we had a deadline and eventually,we had to leave around 10.40pm. Everyone hurriedly left the office after but my boss uber kept delaying. I offered to drop her,she refused but I insisted. We chatted as I drove her to lekki last night. When we arrived at her place,she leaned ,,,,,,,,,

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Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:02pm On Apr 27, 2018
Why do you silly bloggers post half stories, thereby leaving us in suspense?

Do not ever try this again. After reading and expecting something epic, then we rush down to see all adrenaline washed away.

No one will click on your stupid site! Mark my words. You had better post the whole story now or get banned. The choice is yours.

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Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Lalas247(f): 2:48pm On Apr 27, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Why do you silly bloggers post half stories, thereby leaving us in suspense?

Do not ever try this again. After reading and expecting something epic, then we rush down to see all adrenaline washed away.

No one will click on your stupid site! Mark my words. You had better post the whole story now or get banned. The choice is yours.
lol can't believe I read it all ... then realized its half baked

tired of this link clicking .. its just laziness to get traffic on they blog

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Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Beke2020: 2:49pm On Apr 27, 2018
No vex...tomorow u fit shoot you season film grin grin grin
UyaiIncomparabl:
Why do you silly bloggers post half stories, thereby leaving us in suspense?

Do not ever try this again. After reading and expecting something epic, then we rush down to see all adrenaline washed away.

No one will click on your stupid site! Mark my words. You had better post the whole story now or get banned. The choice is yours.
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:59pm On Apr 27, 2018
Lalas247:

lol can't believe I read it all ... then realized its half baked

tired of this link clicking .. its just laziness to get traffic on they blog

It's really annoying. I hope they save their sorry ass stories to themselves.
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Lalas247(f): 3:02pm On Apr 27, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


It's really annoying. I hope they save their sorry ass stories to themselves.
Most are made up ... fictional
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by donstan18: 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2018
cheesy
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Noloss(f): 4:50pm On Apr 27, 2018
;Day
UyaiIncomparabl:
Why do you silly bloggers post half stories, thereby leaving us in suspense?

Do not ever try this again. After reading and expecting something epic, then we rush down to see all adrenaline washed away.

No one will click on your stupid site! Mark my words. You had better post the whole story now or get banned. The choice is yours.

grin grin why r u so pained. Can't stop laughing! And if I may ask, what will u do if they ever try it? Lol.
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:28pm On Apr 27, 2018
Noloss:
;Day

grin grin why r u so pained. Can't stop laughing! And if I may ask, what will u do if they ever try it? Lol.

Have you tried it?
If nay, please endeavour to do so, then you'll see the mighty work of obatala.
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Noloss(f): 8:23am On Apr 28, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Have you tried it?
If nay, please endeavour to do so, then you'll see the mighty work of obatala.

Obatala get master abi u no no nii grin

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Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Kumar4india: 6:20pm On May 20, 2018
Hmm
Re: I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Kumar4india: 8:11am On May 21, 2018
hmm

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