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She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 30, 2018
About a year ago I met a girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love again. But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day. Now I'm afraid and don't want to continue with the relationship but my fear now is how do I tell her I don't want to continue with the relationship knowing she will be hurt and may do something stupid to herself if I tell her I wanna quit the relationship.
Note: I have a wife and a daughter, they are my world and everything, they are the source of my happiness.
She's also aware that I have a wife and a daughter.
Advice needed please no insult.

Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by donstan18: 11:12am On Apr 30, 2018
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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 30, 2018
YoungFr:
About a year ago I met a girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love again. But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day. Now I'm afraid and don't want to continue with the relationship but my fear now is how do I tell her I don't want to continue with the relationship knowing she will be hurt and may do something stupid to herself if I tell her I wanna quit the relationship.
Note: I have a wife and a daughter, they are my world and everything, they are the source of my happiness.
Advice needed please no insult.

You will surely get insulted. You have a wife and daughter, yet you pour out your heart to a fragile lady and expect all will be well? Dude are you high on expired weed or something?

Your mumuness get square root angry

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Ebios(m): 11:16am On Apr 30, 2018
Guy,there is something u are not telling us.
As u couldn't keep her as a friend so u started pouring sugary words into her ears but she didn't say no.. didn't u insert ur "sim card" into her "phone" before she introduced u to her people?
U have a wife or baby mama yet u still approached her?
Guy,stop pretending.... u are a Playboy. Accept whatever negative consequences.
Repent....Accept Jesus before it's too late

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 30, 2018
GODPUNISHUNA:


You will surely get insulted. You have a wife and daughter, yet you pour out your heart to a fragile lady and expect all will be well? Dude are you high on expired weed or something?

Your mumuness get square root angry

Thanks sir, smiley wink cheesy grin
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 30, 2018
After you don chop clean mouth, nah now you remember say u get hapiness (wife and daughter) for one corner abi?


Thank God you have a daughter......karma is loading!

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by DuruCrusher(m): 11:36am On Apr 30, 2018
So after she trusted you with her secrets, u still poured ur devilish feelings to her?

At least u would have told her ur status and remained as a best friend...

Now wey u don sh*t for church u come the tell us...
You are a very wicked person bro
...


Ogun/Amadioha come and do this devil's 2nd in command something

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:41am On Apr 30, 2018
Ebios:
Guy,there is something u are not telling us.
As u couldn't keep her as a friend so u started pouring sugary words into her ears but she didn't say no.. didn't u insert ur "sim card" into her "phone" before she introduced u to her people?
U have a wife or baby mama yet u still approached her?
Guy,stop pretending.... u are a Playboy. Accept whatever negative consequences.
Repent....Accept Jesus before it's too late

African will never change, someone need advice you're bringing in Religion here, anyway I already have Jesus in my life.

To your question, he first time she introduced me to her parents we are yet to start dating, she only introduced me as a friend, lastly yes I already insert SIM card

I'm not a play boy, I don't even know what play boy is.
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 30, 2018
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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:43am On Apr 30, 2018
slotA4:
After you don chop clean mouth, nah now you remember say u get hapiness (wife and daughter) for one corner abi?


Thank God you have a daughter......karma is loading!

Karma, you don't have to wish my daughter get rape sir and mind you let Karma do her best if my daughter behave like other girls okay
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:50am On Apr 30, 2018
DuruCrusher:
So after she trusting you with her secrets, u still poured ur devilish feelings to her?

At least u would have told her ur status and remained as a best friend...

Now wey u don sh*t for church u come the tell us...
You are a very wicked person bro
...


Ogun/Amadioha come and do this devil's 2nd in command something

She knows I'm have a wife and daughter
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 11:54am On Apr 30, 2018
Lion grin

Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by DuruCrusher(m): 12:02pm On Apr 30, 2018
YoungFr:


She knows I'm have a wife and daughter



Then that thunder is for both of you....



Quote me and get another strike

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 30, 2018
YoungFr:
About a year ago I met a girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), [/b]she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her[b] we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), [/b]we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know[b] and for that she swear never to fall in love again. But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day. Now I'm afraid and don't want to continue with the relationship but my fear now is how do I tell her I don't want to continue with the relationship knowing she will be hurt and may do something stupid to herself if I tell her I wanna quit the relationship.
Note: [/b]I have a wife and a daughter, they are my world and everything[b], they are the source of my happiness.
She's also aware that I have a wife and a daughter.
Advice needed please no insult.



You should be ashamed of yourself. She's single and no one to talk to her and you decided to become a scape goat. And how many times have you shared your secret with your wife? In fact, if you're man enough, share this very secret with your wife now.
Your wife and daughter are everything and your world?
Can I ask you?
Can one be in Naija and in US at the same time..


Break the hedge and the serpent will bite..
That Satan must leave you

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Ebios(m): 1:25pm On Apr 30, 2018
YoungFr:


African will never change, someone need advice you're bringing in Religion here, anyway I already have Jesus in my life.

To your question, he first time she introduced me to her parents we are yet to start dating, she only introduced me as a friend, lastly yes I already insert SIM card

I'm not a play boy, I don't even know what play boy is.
Guy...l av my shortcomings so m not here to condemn u. But if this is how somebody that has Jesus behaves, then l sorry for ur pastor bcus he is not teaching u d truth.
Even if he's not teaching u d truth, common sense or conscience is there to guide us.
One thing wt me is that anytime l offend God, l don't claim that Jesus is wt me UNTIL I CRY UNTO JESUS/GOD FOR FORGIVENESS WITH PRAYERS N FASTING.
See,thank God she is not pregnant yet. Just tell her the truth(don't tell ur baby mama...let it be between u n God) delete her numba or throw away ur sim so as to have nothing wt her again.
Accept Jesus truly... marry ur baby mama properly...l assure u,it shall be well.
Come back n thank me bcus u will be a saint.
Humans can't help u with advice but God so.....
Go n remove the anti God pix in ur dp.

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Akoko777(f): 1:29pm On Apr 30, 2018
You should have told her your status right from day one, some men are so selfish, I don't know why
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Ebios(m): 1:34pm On Apr 30, 2018
[quote author=Akoko777 post=67154911]You should have told her your status right from say one, some men are so selfish, I don't know why[/quote Noted

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Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 30, 2018
Ebios:
Guy...l av my shortcomings so m not here to condemn u. But if this is how somebody that has Jesus behaves, then l sorry for ur pastor bcus he is not teaching u d truth.
Even if he's not teaching u d truth, common sense or conscience is there to guide us.
One thing wt me is that anytime l offend God, l don't claim that Jesus is wt me UNTIL I CRY UNTO JESUS/GOD FOR FORGIVENESS WITH PRAYERS N FASTING.
See,thank God she is not pregnant yet. Just tell her the truth(don't tell ur baby mama...let it be between u n God) delete her numba or throw away ur sim so as to have nothing wt her again.
Accept Jesus truly... marry ur baby mama properly...l assure u,it shall be well.
Come back n thank me bcus u will be a saint.
Humans can't help u with advice but God so.....
Go n remove the anti God pix in ur dp.

Like I said earlier she knows I have a woman at home, we don't keep or hid things from each other.
Thanks for your kind gesture but you don't know me so you shouldn't judge me sir, remember "No body Holy Pass" and my pix is not anti God but pastors who do take from the poor and the rich just to satisfy their selfish interest. Thanks
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 3:30pm On Apr 30, 2018
[quote author=Ebios post=67155012][/quote]

If you read and understand the post you will know I told her everything about me, even before we started dating she already knows that I have someone at home already
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 30, 2018
Akoko777:
You should have told her your status right from day one, some men are so selfish, I don't know why
No ma'am I'm not selfish cos she knows I have someone already and she do ask how they are doing when ever she calls
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 30, 2018
Chascop:




You should be ashamed of yourself. She's single and no one to talk to her and you decided to become a scape goat. And how many times have you shared your secret with your wife? In fact, if you're man enough, share this very secret with your wife now.
Your wife and daughter are everything and your world?
Can I ask you?
Can one be in Naija and in US at the same time..


Break the hedge and the serpent will bite..
That Satan must leave you

I hide nothing from my wife, In fact I love and care for my wife and daughter, I don't have much but they don't lack anything
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by wintvc: 3:37pm On Apr 30, 2018

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YoungFr:
About a year ago I met a girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love again. But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day. Now I'm afraid and don't want to continue with the relationship but my fear now is how do I tell her I don't want to continue with the relationship knowing she will be hurt and may do something stupid to herself if I tell her I wanna quit the relationship.
Note: I have a wife and a daughter, they are my world and everything, they are the source of my happiness.
She's also aware that I have a wife and a daughter.
Advice needed please no insult.
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Akoko777(f): 4:12pm On Apr 30, 2018
YoungFr:

No ma'am I'm not selfish cos she knows I have someone already and she do ask how they are doing when ever she calls
U have to take things easy with her, who knows you might be planning of having second wife p
Re: She Was Raped At 18, Swear Never To Love Again Now She In Love With Me. by Nobody: 4:20pm On Apr 30, 2018
Akoko777:

U have to take things easy with her, who knows you might be planning of having second wife p

Take things easy in what way ma'am

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