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Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Saintmary(f): 5:10am On May 07, 2018 |
kimbraa:You clearly don't know how much of money those guys make. Everyone who owns a car is at their mercy once it gets bashed. Scrap metal nko, no be here. They're richer than the average white collar job guys. Your comment made me laugh in Swahili. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Saintmary(f): 5:17am On May 07, 2018 |
eliadekx:No vex oga, obviously she had no knowledge of street things. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Pylony(m): 5:37am On May 07, 2018 |
I think he's suffering from an emotional imbalance with some regrets in Life best known to him that held him back to fight for success in life and so feels he's a looser with nothing to work for, seems more like depression but NO, he's very social as you put's it, he's just carefree about life and things around him even with a Job, he do not care. An individual like him would not tie himself to any strong relationship that may lead to marriage, or has any dream of a better tomorrow. On the other hand, i think you guys as well contributed to his being a "skilled lazy man." Most expecialy the owner of the house he is rentlessly enjoying should drive him out. This could be it right from his teen he enjoy almost everything on a plater of gold and you'r complaining today. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Viruscod3d: 5:37am On May 07, 2018 |
Some people are like that ... i hv 2 uncles like that .. 1 still stays in my father's village house .. he has 2 kids, left his 1st wife and has a new woman in my father's house. This one dont even have work ane he is above 40 now. i was surprised when he started getting serious with church, i thought he had changed, until i heard he stole from the church treasury and was banished from the church. When he was much younger he and his gang terrorised the village so they were banished from the village until they were forgiven after 5 yrs. All his gang members have changed and are responsible now but my uncle no wan change ... he dont like work, his own is to always look fresh, dress well, use good cream, go out and hv fun and he likes hardworking rich women who will be feeding him while he galivants. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Viruscod3d: 5:44am On May 07, 2018 |
My 2nd uncle has about 8 children with his wife and i hear he has another family with one calabar woman somewhere .. this man's work on earth is to impregnate women. He doesnt even take care of the children. His own is to f#ck f#ck and f#ck .. always asking my dad for money .. a full grown man with no steady job .. today he is in the north tomorrow he is trying to settle in calabar . That man has travelled round this country.. the only thing he achieves is to impregnate women. His children have no regard for him. His 1st daughter call him by his name .. she stopped calling him father a long time ago. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by sunday0707(m): 6:16am On May 07, 2018 |
He should be the president and ex officio of the lazy Nigeria youths. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by talk2percy(m): 6:41am On May 07, 2018 |
Stop clothing and feeding him, hunger will teach him to be hardworking! Our people say if laziness makes one to cover ones self with rapper, hunger will make him or her to uncover it! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 6:43am On May 07, 2018 |
Adegbenro7643: Are you talking about Leke? I think I should share this post with him. What do you think? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Pylony(m): 6:46am On May 07, 2018 |
salvatar:Thanks Oga Salvatar |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 6:48am On May 07, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt: I did not want to b the first to say so. U are absolutely correct. Let them take him for deliverance,the OP never mentioned if he was violent.There is an underlyin problem that is being hidden. Am sure from his destiny,he is meant to b a success but... |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by begwong: 6:50am On May 07, 2018 |
edoman2016:Na this one you hardly think his mother will effect. Mothers are so caring that they can't see thier child /children suffer just like that. |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Basalt(m): 6:50am On May 07, 2018 |
Blonchilli: Best advice 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Lincoln275(m): 6:55am On May 07, 2018 |
report him to buhari 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 7:02am On May 07, 2018 |
cut off all the help he is being given. he will work by force. he still has a source of money if not he won't be this lazy. he's not hungry and all his bills are getting paid so he can afford the life he's living. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Aleliberty(m): 7:03am On May 07, 2018 |
I don't have a solution per say, I observed that vacation, holiday outside your own house, even outside your state is very good to allow your kids to experience, in fact, let them see many better and beautiful life other people are living, let them see reason why they have to be better than you. Most first child are like that (I do not know if op brother is first) simply because their parents hardly let them go out or live far away from them. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by talitakumi: 7:06am On May 07, 2018 |
I can see all the attributes here are his bad side. Doesn't he have a good side? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by obonujoker(m): 7:11am On May 07, 2018 |
eliadekx: Don't blame her bro... blame the engineering situation in this country ..... 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by LegendaryArnold(m): 7:15am On May 07, 2018 |
Hold on, does he play sports bet? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 7:30am On May 07, 2018 |
At 38?! Na wa o 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by ecosanders: 7:31am On May 07, 2018 |
Contrat the job to soldiers in the Barack, let them keep him for like 6 months, he will stay with them throughout the period. Thank me later.. ..... 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 7:46am On May 07, 2018 |
OP, two people can fix your elder brother: Disciplined Dad and a faithful fiancee. |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Simbrixton(m): 8:03am On May 07, 2018 |
kimbraa: I know people that have bought their own personal house from panel beating and mechanic |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Lightening: 8:07am On May 07, 2018 |
Adegbenro7643: At the bottom your brother's mess is the excessive pamper your parents gave him even into adulthood. Nothing destroys a child more than that. We are even managing one around me right now. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by ezegenigbonine: 8:21am On May 07, 2018 |
Buikechukwu35:True talk |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by ba7man(m): 8:27am On May 07, 2018 |
Adegbenro7643:He's currently in a comfort zone that's being unknowingly provided by the family. Push him out. Hardship and hunger has a way of re-shaping a man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Adefemiaderoju1: 8:35am On May 07, 2018 |
I blamed the family for his lack of seriousness in life most especially the mother @38 and still acting like a child if you guys had thrown him out of the house and let him know reason why he would have been serious by now. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Perfectnumber6(m): 8:46am On May 07, 2018 |
edoman2016:. He might also be forced to go and rob or steal to buy food and clothes thereby dragging the family's name to the mud. The best thing is to always talk to him, let him see his mates and how they've been able to better their lives. Nigeria is hard we know but one can't sit at home doing nothing anything is a thing as long as it not armed robbery or getting involve in any crime. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Nobody: 8:48am On May 07, 2018 |
Preshy561:this One Don Pass Prayer o 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Heemcelph: 8:50am On May 07, 2018 |
No. 5 shows that he still hasn't losed touch with the Nigerian culture |
Re: My Brother Is Too Lazy. by Preshy561(f): 9:18am On May 07, 2018 |
DeadRat:lmao. |
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