Good evening everyone, trust that the day was splendid, here in Plateau state its been raining all week but we are coping. I have a little issue of concern, and u will like to sample some opinions here.

Last year in school, I met this girl, she's a hairdresser, young, beautiful and Godly. I took her number down and since February of 2017 we have been friends. We recently got close this few months and i just asked her out some days ago, she hasn't given me a reply but I feel its going to be a yes.

But, I'm concerned about some things;
First, she hasn't even gotten admission, as she is currently re writing Waec, while I'm a lover of education, I can't believe I'm about dating someone who isn't yet in school.

Secondly, I'm serving in Plateau state, while she is in Otta in Ogun state, when I was still in Lagos we met a few times, and I'm not planning on coming back to Lagos for the next six months.

Thirdly, this is where I'm most confused, I've seen a lot of girls/ladies in school and after school but no one comes close to her in character, she is virtuous, very spiritual, simple and hardworking.
She isn't the normal Nigerian girl, very respectful and sets boundaries when it comes to physical contact.

She's just 2 years younger than me, which means she is likely to graduate at least the age of 27, I'm thinking its too late for a lady.

In your opinion, what will you do? Should I forget about getting an answer from her? Do you think its a wise thing to do? I'm in between a good girl with character and a girl with education, which is more important?

Thanks for reading

Your take guys?

If you really love her, you'll overlook her shortcomings , it ain't her fault life hasn't been fair to her, if what you feel is lust, don't lead her on, let the poor girl be.

You are not yet ready to settle down.



Whenever you are ready, you'll settle down without asking people unnecessary stuff like this

Didnt read all that

Berlyn1:
Didnt read all that

Come on, it isn't too lengthy.

Bluezy13:
You are not yet ready to settle down.



Whenever you are ready, you'll settle down without asking people unnecessary stuff like this

Lol, so everyone that is in a relationship are ready to settle down? Very funny opinion.

CsRockefeller:


Come on, it isn't too lengthy.

okay

For the first time yesterday, we spoke about sex and found out that she isn't a virgin.

It broke my heart, she got dis-virgin at 19, we are supposed to meet on Saturday and officially kick off our relationship but I don't think I want to continue anymore.

She looked to good and is a dedicated member of Winners not to be a virgin.

I have not had sex though done d other stuff but I look forward to getting married to one.

CsRockefeller:
For the first time yesterday, we spoke about sex and found out that she isn't a virgin.

It broke my heart, she got dis-virgin at 19, we are supposed to meet on Saturday and officially kick off our relationship but I don't think I want to continue anymore.

She looked to good and is a dedicated member of Winners not to be a virgin.

I have not had sex though done d other stuff but I look forward to getting married to one.

You have already made up your mind. Never seen a man so confused.

Nasri100:


You have already made up your mind. Never seen a man so confused.

How am I confused Sir?