The pressure is on for the mass ferminization of men, the quest by the feminine social primacy to conditioned men to make woman their mental point of origin and to see their masculinity as a burden society place on them.

80% men today are conditioned to believe in the false equalist egalitarian mindset as promoted by popular culture as a result men suffer in their relationship where social desire are negotiated daily. They believe coming to an agreeable position as equal partners will boast attraction that will kept the relationship going, make the woman put him first and be more open in the bedroom .

They continue in this situation where the woman uses sex as a weapon to get compliance from them and are too afraid to complain because he doesn't want to get her angry and have the feminine conditioned society shame him as an irresponsible partner or a father who deserted his family.

When a woman desire and is attracted to a man, there's no negotiating that genuine desire and doing her bidding will not influence her attraction but kill the attraction and disagreeing with her lead to attraction and genuine desire to want you more.

1. Mental Point Of Origin

As you already know frame is important in a relationship, the frame you begin a relationship with will define the nature of the relationship. Whether it will be you doing everything or walking on egg shell to please her or it's her who live to please you as the boss!

One way to maintain frame (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) is making yourself your own mental point of origin by focusing more on your self development and advancement and well being and genuinely care about yourself before anything or anyone else. The life you get out of this 'selfish' attention to yourself will be so interesting that friends and family and those who genuinely care about you will want to be part of.

Putting yourself first come with shit test and name calling, today men who seek for their own self love are shamed as misogynist by the feminine primacy as long your self improvement don't favor them. The man who passed this test and not swayed by it will have women fight to earn a place in his life because she knows your happiness do not come from her rather she's a desire you need to effectively accomplish yourself growth.

2. Your Life Mission

The man who makes accomplishing the task or goal he set for himself his number one priority in life before paying attention to anything or anyone is the man a woman want to have. The man every man want to be like and every woman want to fu*ck.

You must be seen to occupied with work, something that keeps you busy whether it's to lift weight and stay in shape, acquire a new skill, learn a new language etc. If it's your mission to learn a new language then by all means take the lessons before attending to your woman, never make her your priority over your mission. Your mission come first before anything else.

It's true she want your attention and you must give it to her but have time for everything, maintain a balance because if she can't get the attention form you, she will get it elsewhere. Many young men today, makes the mistakes of putting the cart before the horse and invest their time to chase women . They make women their mission in life and fall into the false narratives of the feminine imperatives that a real man is the one who does all things to fulfill the desires of a woman.

Your value increases when you have a mission in life, something you're passionate about and want to accomplish – whether it's to lift to build your muscle, do it so well that anyone will know you're putting in a lot of effort to work on your body. Being able to put in the work increases your value.

3. Ability To Next Her

The ability to next a woman come from a mindset of abundance mentality, even if there's no other woman yet. Nexting a woman who flakes or don't take you serious, want to put you in her frame by making you run around each time she display her emotional tantrums display high value.

This is easier said than done if you're still trap in your blue pill conditioning where you're made to believe in the 'special one', the desired girl that cannot be replace. Blue pill men believe so much in this myth and so afraid that they cannot get any better option should they let this special woman walk away.

This reduces their ability to call her shits when she misbehaves, they will tolerate and accept all the bad behavior and even hope they will change her or she will come around over time. A woman dualistic sexuality is inborn, she already knows the guy she will bang immediately and the guy she will make to wait because he satisfies her long term relationship prospect for a husband.

So when she throws her shit tests or misbehaves, you next her immediately and this is will be painful but it will be best for your mental health and increase your attraction value, your confidence will only increase as you repeat the same act, you approach new girl after nexting the previous and get rejected, then go ahead to approach another one and this time you will do the nexting when she misbehaves. Confidence will only come from repetition.

Now, the regular dating advice you get is women likes a confident man and all you need is to be yourself and be confident. You can only be confidence by doing things over and over again, you will be brave to approach a hot girl if you have done it before, confidence will come knowing this is not a big deal anymore because you have done it before.

To think confidence is something you need to have without making attempt at something first is false hope, the mere fact you tried and failed will help you prepare better next time and from this come confidence.

A man who will focus on his life, knows his happiness come from accomplishing the goals he set for himself will naturally be high value to a woman, he know longer allows himself to be controlled by the emotions of a woman but driven by the desire of conquest.

With his ability to next any woman who flakes (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/18/facebook-twitter-instagram-ego-inflated-pussy-value-woman-shes-busy/) or refuse to show up to a date, he increases his value because he's little time to waste on a woman who refused to show up on a date, he would move on to other important things in his life and focus on his job, his desires.

Men with abundance mentality find it easy to move on because he believes there are a lot of good women out there for him and will be too selfish and myopic of him to think that this one woman is the special one and if he lose her he can't get something better.

The believe she's the one is a blue pill conditioned mindset to make men put women at the center of attraction and make their mission in life secondary.

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