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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by lastmaster(m): 7:50pm On May 12, 2018
I am afraid to settle down, some women can nag you to death. sometimes, I do pity my elder brother atimes.

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 7:52pm On May 12, 2018
Arondizuogu:


#100? Bro you own better oo. I know someone that wanted 75% of his income on transport.
i hear that all d time. Tnx tho
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by kmaster007: 7:52pm On May 12, 2018
Google Suld no better.. lemme go and ask Google
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by DonjazzyPikin(m): 7:53pm On May 12, 2018
As long as you have a meaningful means of livelihood, steady income, your good to go. You mustn't have #ThartyBillion in ya account before u settle down.!!

Rome wasn't built in a day.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by ideology(m): 7:54pm On May 12, 2018
AmericanSons:
one guy here said he spent 5Million for his wedding. I just weak lol.

I can't spend more than 1.5M for mine.

consistent source of income is the koko


Hahahha bros leave matter.

One of my friends budgeted 3M ended up spending 5M by the time he came back from Honey moon in US, he had spent almost 10M

Just go as the spirit leads
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 7:54pm On May 12, 2018
ideology:


Nice but how do you survive with 20k bros

Even if you don't help anyone or send money home ...

Do you pay utility bills, Trans to office , recharge voucher and subscription??

To the matter, well its good you have extra source but since you get that extra once a year, I suggest you find where to invest it to give birth to another steady source.

Pls don't save money in the bank, even if you have no plans for it, buy treasury bills or invest in money market. Don't just leave any cash in the bank.
i pay utilities n tfare but very very small amount. But I live like a student, no frivolous spending or carrying women n giving dem tfare. I live like I will enjoy later.

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 7:55pm On May 12, 2018
Akalia:
your plans aren't bad though, it all boils down to good financial management. Your pay grade can comfortably keep a family in Nigeria if you get your acts right. You are fortunate.
good financial mgt it is!
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by ideology(m): 7:57pm On May 12, 2018
pedrilo:
i pay utilities n tfare but very very small amount. But I live like a student, no frivolous spending or carrying women n giving dem tfare. I live like I will enjoy later.
Bros its well whatever suits you. But look for alternative investments please don't leave money as savings in your account. Ask around about Money Market and rather leave the money there.


Visit Stanbic IBTC, ARM or Axa Mansard
You will be glad u did.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by TheTechMan: 7:58pm On May 12, 2018
pedrilo:
I already hav a bungalow which I let out n rciv 350k annually, i work wit a private firm n rciv 120k monthly after tax n pension, i am able to save 100k from dis amount n use 20k for myself monthly, my plan is to either save money n travel out or save up to 5m, use 1m to get a moderate car e.g. Camry, use anoda 1m for wedding n settle down with a lady day can also bring sometin to d table no matter how small. I'm 31 yrs old.
Pls evaluate my plans.
You be rich man o! I hail you baba.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Humility017(m): 8:01pm On May 12, 2018
kimbraa:
You're the one not getting it. I can't give him a specific amount as what he may budget as being enough to settle down might be meagre to another. 500k in some States of the federation may be reduced to 250k in other States due to cost of living.

Your Cassava analogue doesn't make sense, and if that's the case, some women would happily die in abject poverty if what they share is common than swim in riches as desires are different. Just so you don't get me wrong, I explained my point in my previous post...if he could feed three mouths then he's comfortable enough to get married. Don't limit it to just food.
you're wasting your time replying him...
the OP question wasn't straightforward
no one can really tell if he meant money for embarking on the wedding or for starting a new family......

you're right in your opinion...

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by kalu61(m): 8:02pm On May 12, 2018
bilulu:

same here bro. can a guy dat is having a savings of 500k b thinking of marriage?
my friend got married with 300k. traditional rite and court marriage. People always look at white wedding. lts not compulsory.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by spiritedtete: 8:03pm On May 12, 2018
It really not about the" how much you need to have" have a steady income that can also make you grow savings... and be open to your partner about what you have and how you intend managing and growing it.

For the money for marriage say I don marry... you should have upto a million at least in savings...

I am not disrepecting the people who struggle daily and a partner don't mind putting up with them...
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by odimbannamdi(m): 8:04pm On May 12, 2018
kimbraa:
You're the one not getting it. I can't give him a specific amount as what he may budget as being enough to settle down might be meagre to another. 500k in some States of the federation may be reduced to 250k in other States due to cost of living.

Your Cassava analogue doesn't make sense, and if that's the case, some women would happily die in abject poverty if what they share is common than swim in riches as desires are different. Just so you don't get me wrong, I explained my point in my previous post...if he could feed three mouths then he's comfortable enough to get married. Don't limit it to just food.

I think Vizkiz expected you to use the word "cater" instead of "feed". Cater is a more encompassing word that goes beyond feed and entails clothing, accommodation and other miscellaneous expenses
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Nobody: 8:06pm On May 12, 2018
odimbannamdi:


I think Vizkiz expected you to use the word "cater" instead of "feed". Cater is a more encompassing word that goes beyond feed and entails clothing, accommodation and other miscellaneous expenses
I see...

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by dajan03: 8:07pm On May 12, 2018
kimbraa:
His question was straight forward as he didn't ask for criterion which deems one ready for marriage but the monetary aspect of it. I know it goes beyond money but one has to stay to the subject matter, and in the case of being able to fed for oneself and two others; if he could do that then there are responsibilities he's deemed capable of handling. grin No hungry guy could comfortably feed three mouths.
the money isn't meant for feeding alone Sha.
And remember in Nigeria u have to budget some extended needs outside the immediate family; u can't feed only your family without the intervention of relatives to Ur struggle. That is another struggle

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by donnaD(f): 8:08pm On May 12, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

500k for wedding or for marriage? If its wedding well u can save 1million sef if u wish. But for marriage, is not by what u have in ur account o, its by d amount coming into ur pocket regularly. If u have 600k and no good income is coming in, when d money finish wetin u go do? If God wan come catch you, make orobo woman weh no get work get belle for you... Na double of wetin u dey chop, wear and use she go dey require plus pregnancy demand.
Olaromantic shnapp u and orobo women oo help urslf.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 8:09pm On May 12, 2018
TheTechMan:

You be rich man o! I hail you baba.
for where? Abeg leave dat side. No be man like me buy porshe of 20m for him babe?
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 8:09pm On May 12, 2018
ideology:
Bros its well whatever suits you. But look for alternative investments please don't leave money as savings in your account. Ask around about Money Market and rather leave the money there.


Visit Stanbic IBTC, ARM or Axa Mansard
You will be glad u did.
ok thanks
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Denko2721987(m): 8:10pm On May 12, 2018
To realistically ready for marriage on a financial level you need at least #1.5m active and recurring savings on an active income of at least 100k a month.. Anything less than this then you going to be struggling hard to keep up especially when the kids start coming in and expenses for upkeep start shooting through the roof.. I am not married but trust me, its a reality i am familiar with.. #my personal opinion though#

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Blonchilli(m): 8:10pm On May 12, 2018
Arondizuogu:


Marriage na achievement? People want to make it big before marrying someone abeg.
Marriage is not an achievement, it shows you're responsible for someone and nothing beats having a companion or someone that understands and shares your success with you. It's a honorable thing to share with someone

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Humility017(m): 8:11pm On May 12, 2018
swiz123:


Your question looks childish; the replies you've gotten so far, childish too.

You don't literally need to have 500k in your bank account before thinking of getting married.

You just need to have a steady source of income that will be enough to cater for a family.

A man might be running a business with less than 500k, but he makes steady profits from the business. He might decide to folk out 150k for traditional marriage(depending on the state he intends to marry from), then later he can do church wedding.

Having the mentality that I need to save up to half a million before getting married has kept many men above 35 single.

If you can clothe, feed, provide health care etc for 3 persons comfortably, then getting married shouldn't be a problem.

But while at it, avoid marrying leeches
Thanks for this bro.....
sometimes it baffles me the way they call up figures here...

to be honest how many guys between the age of 26-30 earn up to 140k per month in this country?
many here on nairaland are not real and true to themselves and then to others...

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Burgerlomo: 8:13pm On May 12, 2018
30 billion cool
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by ekanDamie: 8:18pm On May 12, 2018
pedrilo:
I already hav a bungalow which I let out n rciv 350k annually, i work wit a private firm n rciv 120k monthly after tax n pension, i am able to save 100k from dis amount n use 20k for myself monthly, my plan is to either save money n travel out or save up to 5m, use 1m to get a moderate car e.g. Camry, use anoda 1m for wedding n settle down with a lady day can also bring sometin to d table no matter how small. I'm 31 yrs old.
Pls evaluate my plans.
This is the kind of articulate answer that we expect.
But pls may i ask all things being equal. How soon would u hit d 5M margin if u dont mind am only asking cos i wanna know ur age by then.
Am 26 presently. Less dan 200k in my savings
earning bout 60k tho reason for poor bal is i support myself in school n oda expenses.
I just dey reason how man go fit even save 1M
For this life

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Nobody: 8:19pm On May 12, 2018
akaahs:

I don't have 500k in my account but I'm planning for marriage next year, I don't know how but I still believe is possible.
Different ways of committing suicide dey nao.

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by peacengine(m): 8:21pm On May 12, 2018
bilulu:

don't u think dats y people find it difficult to settle down these days? how long will it take to ve such money in ur akant

After I buy car and do wedding, how much will remain? In a few months children will start coming then day care, school fees etc. I'm projecting that figure to cover first 2years expenses.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by AK481(m): 8:21pm On May 12, 2018
CaptJeffry:
Bro, if 500k is all you have in that bank akant, biko ejoor marry but no kids for now. Mek Bill Gate no swear for Naija. grin



500k after or before the marriage ceremony?








Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Nobody: 8:22pm On May 12, 2018
odimbannamdi:


I think Vizkiz expected you to use the word "cater" instead of "feed". Cater is a more encompassing word that goes beyond feed and entails clothing, accommodation and other miscellaneous expenses
Op is talking about wedding and not marriage oh.
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by ofuonyebi: 8:23pm On May 12, 2018
no amount of money go make any man settle down with a woman for marital life..

give them #5m..dem go squander the money if they no get self discipline & if they don't add fear of GOD into their life..

i have seen two people without much as 50..thousand...marry themselves only to become prosperous husband & wife

if husband & wife are high-life couples who love to squander money to please the public, like most marriages of 2-day, then to hell with $5m!

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 8:23pm On May 12, 2018
ekanDamie:

This is the kind of articulate answer that we expect.
But pls may i ask all things being equal. How soon would u hit d 5M margin if u dont mind am only asking cos i wanna know ur age by then.
Am 26 presently. Less dan 200k in my
earning bout 60k tho reason for poor bal is i support myself in school n oda expenses.
I just dey reason how man go fit even save 1M
For this life
i shud be able to save that in 3 years cos my job allows me to travel n I mk extra cash from nyt allowances. So @34 giv n take I shud hav 5m cash in my account, then marry at 35.

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by ekanDamie: 8:25pm On May 12, 2018
pedrilo:
i shud be able to save that in 3 years cos my job allows me to travel n I mk extra cash from nyt allowances.
Ur own is better o. Us we just dey move sha.

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Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by pedrilo: 8:28pm On May 12, 2018
ekanDamie:

Ur own is better o. Us we just dey move sha.
keep moving
Re: How Much Do You Need To Have In Your Account Before Planning To Settle Down? by Ayus34(m): 8:30pm On May 12, 2018
National treasurer will be a good starting point for me

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