Have you ever had it so good that  it seems she would never leave?!  Is she driving you crazy with incessant talks about wedding, 'aso ebi ' and/or meeting her parents?

I wonder why you are this lucky, so fortunate to have a lady that wants to settle with you. Let me guess, you have a bunch of them(girls) and you are looking for a way to offload some of them without hard feelings.

The simple truth is you should never date someone you could not marry but since you have put yourself in this shit, lets see how we can help you.

Even though some of the following principles are effective, they might only work on a lady that really does not love you.

More so, this principle apply more to traditional African romance where the man is gainfully employed while he spends lavishly on the said lady.

Here are some possible ways to offload her;



#1  Starvation technique
Even though the world has significantly change in the perception of the female gender and the opportunities availed them, some are still overly dependent on their boyfriends.This could be excusable for struggling women with no source of income or low socioeconomic background, how do you justify the dependence of women who are gainfully employed but still believes the man should take full responsibility.

Starvation typically involves  withdrawing all forms of gestures especially monetary from her.This also includes cessation of gift items either regular or occasional.

For a woman who only cares about you pocket, this would be a very big challenge and staying further in the relationship would be impossible.
Several women are in the relationship for the financial benefits or at least in exchange for what ever value they hope to bring in- mostly sex



#2  Status loss technique
This is a bit tricky but also effective.Several women claim to be in love but what they actually find alluring his the man's social status, Level of influence and personality. Should anything happen to any of the above, she is on her way out.....

Some women would tolerate any shit like Baby mama, cheating, use of illicit drugs as long as the man possesses are strong social presence.
This is why celebrities indulge in all sorts of vices and their girlfriends still remain in the relationship.

Try this out by feigning Job loss/ loss social status for a time period.

I once read the story of a lady that left her boyfriend after he told her he was sacked by his company(a company he actually owns)



#3  Inert Emotion Technique
Women naturally are emotional and they like to see the man folk follow them on this.

In this technique, you stop showing any form of emotions, don't act impressed or unimpressed, don't love and don't hate.Keep her guessing and wondering whether you are still in love.

It includes cessation of all forms of emotional expression in words, in writing, in actions
This definitely sounds cruel but  a lady that really loves you would rather open a communication channel rather than reciprocate.



#4  Coital Deprivation technique
It was thought to be a fact that most women would rather practice sexual abstinence before marriage but recently the trend has changed and the opposite is mostly true.

Women have become increasingly curious and adventurous, they want to know the sexual capabilities of their potential mates.This has led to several women frowning at celibate relationships.
In this techniques, all forms of sexual activity is discontinued till further notice... If she is able to control herself and in the absence of no evidence of cheating, she might really be in love




 

#5   Anti Feminist Technique
One of the most remarkable achievements of the 21st century is the advancement of the cause of women vis a viz education, job opportunities and overall quality of life.

All these were achieved by the promotion of FEMINIST perspective!esti

Even though the feminism could be confusing since most women only subscribe when it suits them, it is still obvious that most of the agitations are "against" African Value.
The most important achievement of the Feminism movement especially in Africa is De-domcation of women.

Most women now do not want to be associated with domestic duties and are constantly rivaling men even though Feminism is much more than that

In this technique, you could push some anti "fake feminism" mentality like insisting on good cooking skills as well as  domestic duties(not while dating oh).

You could also insist you would be the head of the home and not equals as preached by feminists.



Source:https://afonjaman.com/how-to-break-up-with-your-girlfriend-part-1/