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Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 1:40pm On May 16, 2018
Good day LS,

I was introduced to your blog three months ago and I must confess,it has been a huge blessing to my life. I love to read the stories and how you and one of your commenters:Uche always advice on the issues. I am a believer and I thank God for people like you who are fighting for godly marriages. I have been married for twelve years and it has not been easy but I thank God for His grace.

I am constantly being eaten up by the guilt of what I did about a year ago. It was a horrible mistake and I cannot forgive myself. You see,years ago,when my marriage was about eight years,my husband cheated on me. When I found out,I was broken.I mean.we are Christians. I never dreamed that one day,we would find ourselves in such a mess as s*xual sin. I know no one is perfect but I never ever expected it. My husband was a righteous man. He feared God. He loved God. He would frown at adultery in marriage inĀ  a heartbeat. When it happened,my husband apologized and begged me. I was so devastated. I was depressed for months.I couldn't bring myself to see him as the man that I loved and married. It was such a big betrayal to me.

Eventually,after like two years,I began to put the whole thing behind me. Or so I thought. As I say this, I am crying cos I dont know how this happened. But I became a gym fan after my husband's affair. I thought he didnt like my body. I felt insecure about my looks so I began to gym and I was really good at it. But the problem started when

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Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Samuelgr8: 11:10am On May 19, 2018
before u die of silent
Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 7:52pm On May 19, 2018
Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 11:03am On May 20, 2018
Hmm
Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 8:16am On May 21, 2018
hmm

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