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Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by marvelli(f): 7:08am On May 19, 2018 |
Gettreadyy:I understand, but that's normal hurting that can be forgiven and forgotten. Not cheating na, that can either be forgiven or forgotten but not both. If she can even forgive or forget at all. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by blackweaver(m): 7:09am On May 19, 2018 |
Olifiz: Not in all cases. If for instance the guy goes out with his friends for drinks and say his drink is spiked and he messes up, it's still cheating, but it's not necessarily deliberate |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by blackweaver(m): 7:12am On May 19, 2018 |
Timfreds: I agree. However if you love your wife and respect her and respect women generally, you will not deliberately cheat 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Neoteny(m): 7:15am On May 19, 2018 |
Yes I do |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Olifiz(m): 7:15am On May 19, 2018 |
blackweaver: I get ur example. But pls who initiates the sex the girl or the guy? If he’s drink is spiked n the lady have sex with him that’s rape tho. That doesn’t come close to what is being discussed. With clear mind n head. U sef check am. Lol. Stay blessed bro |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by CioAngels(f): 7:41am On May 19, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy:Yes, you are right, the word has been bastardized, it has no meaning anymore, the word love, is now meaningless for those who knows what love is all about. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by eyinjuege: 7:57am On May 19, 2018 |
No wonder the cheating rate has gone significantly higher in females. They have learnt from the best. They have learnt to detach all emotions out of sexual encounters. That's why you still see a girl with 5 or 6 boyfriends yet will have the special one she wants to marry. Even after marriage, she still goes back to her sugar daddies and exes for one reason or the other One is learning a lot on NL sha Most marriages are devoid of love, but many still maintain the status quo and try not to rock the boat. The husband is doing his thing, the wife is doing her own. Open marriages seems to be the way of this world 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Alezy(m): 7:58am On May 19, 2018 |
khiaa:like very dumb. How did we get here?? Just imagine. Smh |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Ugmama(m): 7:58am On May 19, 2018 |
The truth is that what people call love is not what it is. That you buy things for your wife, live in peace with her and call her every minute with sugar-coated tongue doesnt make you love her.... For you to love her, you must obey the word of God and everything concerning your relationship. Love nobi for mouth but action and action!!!!! Peace!! 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Alezy(m): 7:59am On May 19, 2018 |
Klinee:this is absolute nonsense..... |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Therealev: 8:00am On May 19, 2018 |
Ivorianaija: That's why I cited Monogamy as a Curse to Love. I'm not sentimental, and I don't Stereotype. What's good for the Goose, should be good for the Gander. But do not forget in most part of the World today, it's the man marrying a Wife and not Vice Versa. Until now, situation of a Woman marrying multiple Husband isn't unheard of. See, Polyandry. Religions and Western Civilization brought about the changes in marriages today. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Therealev: 8:05am On May 19, 2018 |
ebony111: Now, that's a personal opinion, I can only speak for myself, I can't answer for others. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:07am On May 19, 2018 |
blackweaver:I like these words "deliberately cheat". It makes all the difference between an unrepentant cheat who who does it for fun & one who did it in a moment of weakness. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by DSDLIVEREPORT: 8:16am On May 19, 2018 |
Klinee:U are a master. I can see this is your field |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:20am On May 19, 2018 |
Cheating is way deeper than what we make it out to be. For someone like me who's deep and analytical, I look beyond the act itself. I look at your actions before the act, plus your actions, response & commitment after. That is the time I know what to do about the person: whether to understand and forgive or to keep hurting & kick you out. A lot to be said on this. That being said, I think one can have genuine feelings(i won't use the word "love" because it has been stripped of its meaning & true intention) for his/her partner and still cheat. There are reasons for that. Everything depends on how it's handled. You see, I have seen things to arrive at this conclusion. Before now, I would have screamed "NO". But in all, the risk of having a partner that cheats is greatly reduced to the barest minimum or even non-present at all if the person is God-fearing. I didn't say "Christian". That's another word we have stripped of its true meaning. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Praktikals(m): 8:23am On May 19, 2018 |
LivingFree:Men are adventurous by default. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Peterosky(m): 8:26am On May 19, 2018 |
Adasun:.Bross,the sense wey you get no dey this country. As a matter of fact, you just said it all, what more can I say? bravo. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Teespice(f): 8:39am On May 19, 2018 |
you have laid your opinions bare on this topic severally. are you looking for more validations or people who would buttress your points 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:51am On May 19, 2018 |
jites:Word! |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by drLammy(m): 8:52am On May 19, 2018 |
Yeah......The same way we love God so dearly n we still sin against him |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:55am On May 19, 2018 |
Xda59:Must you blaspheme before you make a point? How does God understand it's a man's nature to cheat? |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:58am On May 19, 2018 |
dairykidd:Please tell me about this wise woman who should know how to keep her man from desiring sex elsewhere. How will she do that? |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:00am On May 19, 2018 |
Olifiz:Word! 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Nobody: 9:04am On May 19, 2018 |
Toks2008: A Man can love 5 women dearly. It's no big deal. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:05am On May 19, 2018 |
meobizy:Must one "experiment" with sex before marriage? What about couples who had a no-sex courtship? |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Nobody: 9:27am On May 19, 2018 |
Klinee: What a load of b.u.l.l.Poo! I'll believe this statement when women can also cheat on their spouses and the men will love and respect them. Onyeara |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by JhyMedex: 9:28am On May 19, 2018 |
donstan18: On dis pt u n I disagree..Quitr surprising actually.... Fact is centuries of programming has made men tink they suppose to b wit only one woman at any pt in tym... Bt frm d evolutionary as well as physiological standpt men were made to b POLYGAMOUS... U as a man produces more dan 100mil sperm cellS per day...women produce jst one egg in roughly 30 days.. Its an evolutionary prerogative 4 u as a man to distrubute this sperm cells among different women to ensure the continuation of the species...The woman only needs one man 2 fertilize her 1 egg...N A single man is capable of that... So the female brain was wired to seek out one male n make him d fertiliser of her eggs ..Meanwhile the man has so many sperm cells and has to distribute among many women... U jst av to look at a pack of wolves or a Pride of lions to clearly see this dynamic at play in nature.... To each his own tho... Cheating is nt d standard 4 classifying people in2 bad or good human being... Shalom |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by goodnessme02: 9:30am On May 19, 2018 |
Klinee: o boy.....see oyinbo!!!! |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Nobody: 9:30am On May 19, 2018 |
JhyMedex: S.h.u.t the f-u-c-k up. You clowns seriously amuse me. Female brain ko, female leg ni. Have you figured out the workings of your own brain? When the standards that apply to cheating husbands can also apply to cheating wives, then I'll hear. Until then, shut the f-up! 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Olulinks(m): 9:31am On May 19, 2018 |
Olalan:Not. Not leaving his love to be with another. It's just to cheat and go back home to stay with the one he truly loves. |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by MrMystrO(m): 9:32am On May 19, 2018 |
JhyMedex: Lol nice one |
Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Olulinks(m): 9:35am On May 19, 2018 |
donstan18:You're deceiving yourself. Tell me who loves who and they never offended each other before. None. It's part of love, you have friction and forgive each other and move on. |
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