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Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by adaxxy: 7:15pm On May 23, 2018 |
Mikeross62:thanks and God bless your home for your comment 1 Like |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by chuksjuve(m): 7:16pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: The last line though sums everything up! God help our 21century woke guys.. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by kmaster007: 7:17pm On May 23, 2018 |
no be new tin nah... he don tey |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by bid4rich(m): 7:17pm On May 23, 2018 |
So? Is the girl a disease? If you love her for her. Why not! I married mine like that too because I love her and the journey has been awesome. Follow your heart and ask God too for direction 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by bitingcool: 7:19pm On May 23, 2018 |
Leysco: You shouldn't The fact that you came here to seek an opinion means you're not mature enough to be married to her When you start seeing her as your better half not just a single mother, let us know I wonder how she will feel if she saw your post? You probably think you're doing her a favour. Do yourself a favour and marry when you're mentally comfortable enough to. 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Nobody: 7:19pm On May 23, 2018 |
F**k, why did i bump this thread |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Nobody: 7:22pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:So to be a single parent now is a disease? uhm na wa ooh |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Bostin(m): 7:23pm On May 23, 2018 |
@OP What you need to worry about now is the responsibilities. The mother ans her daughter and the new ones she will have for you. You are thinking of a mere weding and not the Marriage after weding. Let me tell you the truth, no woman in Nigeria is ready to struggle or suffer with you,so you should be thinking are you capable for the challenges ahead,do you have what it takes to be father and husband. Since you already make up your mind to marry her mean you love her without exemption,mind you that girl remains someone's daughter no matter how millions you will spend to train her. Best of luck . 1 Like |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Fearcom(m): 7:26pm On May 23, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Can you marry a man with child/children no questions asked ![]() |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by fancy4eve(f): 7:28pm On May 23, 2018 |
IamD18:can u ask ur self how many ladies hv committed abortion 4 u, wit or without ur concept. We shouldn't b fast in judging pple wen we know dat we might b sum hw guilty in 1way or d other. I believe u hv sisters, aunties nd nieces. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by abike12(f): 7:30pm On May 23, 2018 |
why are u asking a bunch of strangers this question? is it that you want people to insult her and tell you to leave her? please if you don't want leave her let her heaven sent husband see road to enter. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by PoliticalChinex(m): 7:30pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: keep quite there!!! A girl that made mistake and born one child is far better than the ones that have done many abortions before.... U May end up with one!! 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by andyanders: 7:31pm On May 23, 2018 |
With a female child, no problem. But please,see that child as your own child. Also, I hope you did explain this to your family before going ahead? Not tomorrow they start coming inbetween you people. Love her and cherish her and her daughter. Wish you guys best of luck. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by fancy4eve(f): 7:31pm On May 23, 2018 |
IamD18:d fact dat u don't hv a child out of wedlock does not make u innocent, hv u ask ur self if any lady or ladies hv committed abortion 4 u, wit or without ur concept. We shouldn't b fast in judging pple wen we know dat we might b sum hw guilty in 1way or d other. I believe u hv sisters, aunties nd nieces. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by ItzBIM(m): 7:32pm On May 23, 2018 |
Leysco:Don’t make that mistake and marry her because there will be a time you guys will have your own children, however it will feel like you’re the only one raising / spending on the children you had together because her first priority is her daughter. This will cause big headache for you down the line. Pls listen to my advise because am speaking from experience. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Pebcak: 7:32pm On May 23, 2018 |
Leysco: If you need peoples opinion then don't do it, it should be the other way around if u really love and care for her people should be telling you oh she has a daughter and you tell them I see past beyond that. Its either you are just looking for attention or you don't want this it's better you let her know on time and FYI marrying a single mother or single father is not a bad thing 1 Like |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by veekybaby(f): 7:35pm On May 23, 2018 |
Haba, you dont need to say this much, she has a baby doesnt mean shes a prostitute. im very sure if she had opened those legs for, you wouldnt have rejected sliding in. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by dasparrow: 7:37pm On May 23, 2018 |
IamD18: What if the woman in question was raped and impregnated by her rapist? Would you have preferred she aborted instead? And if she aborts and messes up her womb in the process then what? Anyway, smart Nigerian women get married to foreign men. Less headache to deal with. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Nobody: 7:41pm On May 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Just because she choose to keep one pregnancy is not an indicant she never had an abortion before. Also, You lot need to stop calling getting pregnant a mistake. It didn't just happen, did it? A mistake would be me served coffee with cream instead of just black. Getting screwed repeatedly without protection nor considering morning after pills isn't a mistake. As for the poster, you know if you were 100% sure about your decision to marry her you wouldn't have made this post about it, right? 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by fancy4eve(f): 7:43pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:d fact dat u hv slept wit more dan 2 to 3 different gals in a week makes u a prostitute, you guys re quick in tagging ladies prostitutes 4getn dat u guys re also guilty of same, she might b innocent of ur accusation but just a victim of circumstances. I urge u not 2 judge a book by it cover wen given opportunity lyk dis, cus ur comment might influence odas. Remember wat goes around, comes around. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Gossiplover: 7:45pm On May 23, 2018 |
thats ur matter |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by RiyadhGoddess(f): 7:46pm On May 23, 2018 |
@ OP, would you have asked us this question if she was a successful self made lady as in if she was rich or had money of her own? |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Forpink2: 7:49pm On May 23, 2018 |
hmmm |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by goodybabeo1: 7:55pm On May 23, 2018 |
ok |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:55pm On May 23, 2018 |
Penisinpenisout: You have a way with words, I must confess. It's shocking. I must commend you on this. You're a smooth talker. Back to the matter, how do I assist in nurturing/conceiving this fantasy to fruition? |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by Rozaytee: 7:56pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:stupid fool spotted |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by aariwa(m): 7:57pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:So you prefer one who murdered her own in the womb |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by ImaIma1(f): 7:57pm On May 23, 2018 |
UBGG: My point (which i guess the op got) is that having a child doesn't eliminate her as unfit to be wedded. When i say "mistake", it is not in the having sex without protection and blah blah. Even married couples refer to some of their kids as "mistake" |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:59pm On May 23, 2018 |
Fearcom: Sure. That's not a deal breaker for me. I'll whole-heartedly welcome forth his children. I do not place stereotypes on minuscule issues, which people tend to see as a big deal. |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by yusfaith78(m): 8:04pm On May 23, 2018 |
bitingcool: Just like what this guy/girl said. If you really love her, i dont think you will come here asking that question that question. I believe you are here because you are not so cool with the fact that she already have a kid and trust me if that gives you problem now, it will give you problem forever and you guys will end up having issues. I will suggest you just leave the poor girl to find somebody that will love her and her baby i mean somebody who is ready to marry without seeking anybody’s opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Do Court Marriage With Her? She Has A Girl by david22uu(m): 8:04pm On May 23, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: About the brother that puts his stuff in between the girls leg.... I think they should deserve being ostrated also... Hippocrates like u |
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