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How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 2:02pm On May 22, 2018 |
Hello house pardon my grammatical errors My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld. And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated. I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled. I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses. I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too. I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her. |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 22, 2018 |
You don't want to lose her and you asked for a break Don't worry, she will come back to you but to invite you to her wedding 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 3:03pm On May 22, 2018 |
Beergang5050:it I tld her d reason which is cos I wnt to I'm jobless n I haven't settled |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 3:03pm On May 22, 2018 |
Beergang5050:it I tld her d reason which is cos I wnt to I was jobless n I haven't settled |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by mikejj(m): 5:28pm On May 22, 2018 |
bro go pay her a visit.... u wanted break,,she never wanted a break so,,she is nat happy pay her visit...sometimes lovers needs to be together to grow the bond.not all relationship deserves a break. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 22, 2018 |
mikejj: The here is da she's blocked all avenue to chat with her I stay in Ibadan she resides in lag |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 22, 2018 |
mikejj: The thing here is da she's blocked all avenue to chat with her I stay in Ibadan she resides in lag |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 22, 2018 |
I sent an sns dat I ws gonna visit she didn't reply. she blocked me on WhatsApp |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by mikejj(m): 10:04am On May 23, 2018 |
how long have u been with this lady |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 10:31am On May 23, 2018 |
mikejj:6 months |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by jay4rhyme: 1:48pm On May 23, 2018 |
she is still taking a break 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by myke92(m): 2:51pm On May 23, 2018 |
Just 6 months, .. Nigga, she ain't fully into you yet.. Just give it time, she may come around. |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 1:50pm On May 24, 2018 |
myke92: Hmm. |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 3:48pm On May 24, 2018 |
Until break time is over she won't come around or pick your calls....... |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 24, 2018 |
Have you gotten a job yet?...if no,go get a job first and other things will follow |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 2:47pm On May 26, 2018 |
morningstar55:Yes I have gotten a job |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Danny110(m): 2:55pm On May 26, 2018 |
Pay her a visit,kneel down and apologize to her,tell her how much uve missed her nd how badly u want her back be real nd serious.........if after this she still persist den brace up for d inevitable... |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 26, 2018 |
Danny110:she blocked me on WhatsApp I stay in lag she stay in Ibadan |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Danny110(m): 11:10pm On May 26, 2018 |
greatforever: Call her if she doesn't pick ur call.....after a while try t reach her wit anoda line,try making sum1 dat knows u both talk t her,persuade her....ask her fr details where she lives... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nickijoy(f): 11:17pm On May 26, 2018 |
Let her be for now.... |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 7:13am On May 27, 2018 |
Nickijoy:Will she come around how to I make her come arnd |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Rubbiish(m): 9:19am On May 27, 2018 |
greatforever:This is quite strange...I thought harddon had already treated this issue in his thread? After nysc u still act this way for a lady? Is she your first love? U are really losing it dude & acting out of line.... Are u saying if she dies today u will kill yourself? |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 9:42am On May 27, 2018 |
Rubbiish: No I made mistakes and I really regret d mistakes. I love her a lot and I don't want this mistakes to ruin our relationship. I jst need a remedy to Dis 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by coolestofall(m): 9:50am On May 27, 2018 |
Op so u no even strong u cone dey form Bruce Lee. Just start doing d weeping n mopping, cos this most likely wld b d end of d road 4 both ya. Next time u want 2 form Boss, follow though.
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Re: How Do I Resolve This by coolestofall(m): 9:50am On May 27, 2018 |
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Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 9:55am On May 27, 2018 |
coolestofall:any remedy |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Rubbiish(m): 9:58am On May 27, 2018 |
greatforever:As humans we dont always get what we wish for...u should know that by now sir...If u had gotten your desired job as at when u wished, there wouldn't be any break in d first place. Now that she has cut u off, will u now kill yourself? Are u saying if she had an accident & died u would have killed yourself...i believe no....So consider this mistake as irreparable one & move one. Learn from it & learn to be more decisive. When u requested for a break u should have also prepared your mind towards d consequences that comes with it...that is what makes u man....learn from your mistake & give her time. If she truly feel a thing for u she will come around...If she doesn't move on...because even if she accept u back in this state & manner of begging she will never respect u..because it will likely be out of pity... I can help u get her off your head...If u can't do it yourself...Because it may seem like the world will end to u doing that |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by coolestofall(m): 10:45am On May 27, 2018 |
greatforever:Just send her one last text, not portraying neediness. Text abt u just feeling like catching up, n hw its been a while n u just want 2 knw if she is fine. Immediately after sending d text, just keep it in mind that u guyz r done. Cry if u feel like it, even the best of us did (though not me o). Go out n socialize. U will meet more gals, just put urself out there. Note: Sometimes u might feel like picking d phone 2 establish contact. Dont. Just move on. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Apina(m): 11:12am On May 27, 2018 |
Go and meet her in person if u are really serious |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
I still need replies. There's is sth I can do to get. pls I need more suggestions |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
seems she has made up her mind. But I can't seem to get her over me mind |
Re: How Do I Resolve This by ImaIma1(f): 6:35pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
Take the risk and go to lag to visit her. You cannot sit here looking for a solution. She is not responding to valls or texts.Go and confront your issue in Lagos. That is your best option. If not, you will keep wondering if... |
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