KNOW BEFORE YOU LOVE

A guy in Oshodi, Lagos killed his Girlfriend (suspectedly for ritual) put her in a big bucket after beheading her with her intestines removed. He was caught by neighbours while trying to dispose her off in the bucket around 4am.

Another guy just stabbed his hard working girlfriend Ismaila Onize to death in Abuja for refusing to give him a million naira (#1m). He stabbed her severally on her private part before slitting her throat. Onize happen to be the only daughter to her mother.

A wife, Udeme Odibi, (48 year old lawyer), according to police investigation, suspected her husband of infidelity, then purposely went to the market, bought a new knife, and used it to stab her husband (also a lawyer) to death. She didn't only cut open his intestine, she as well cut his private organ placed it on his hand, called her own mother to inform her of her deed, then packed her credentials to jet out of the country before police and neighbours caught up with her.

A danish man, Nielsen Peter, had an argument with his Nigerian wife Zainab, (a singer) in there lekki, Lagos residence, he did not just killed the wife because of that but also killed their only daughter, 3yrs old Petra. Both wife and daughter were killed in the same night.

We all remember d infamous Ex PDP chairman son Bilyamin, that was stabbed to death by his wife following suspicion of infidelity based on messages on his phone.

Why am I bringing all this sorry gory scenes to memory? Its all because of my concern for the rate at which spouses become selfishly heartless nowadays.

Someone u once profess to love. Someone you shares bed with, share trust with. What level of poverty, cruelty, heartlessness, or helplessness will make you think the next action to be taken is to butcher such person to death. What revenge are you seeking, what justice do you get in blood splitting? How do you standthe sight of the slit of flesh with blood popping out? The blood on your hand and possibly all over you? If you don't think of him/her, why not think of your past togetherness, or Atleast think of your own restlessness after the deed is done, think of even if you are not caught won't his/her image haunt your memory?

Why not fight that ego or temper in you or seek counsel over the occultic souls temping you to do the unthinkable.

Well, potential killers are like vampires, they are always crime thirsty and blood-hunting so its rather better you watchout, you, yes you Mr lover man or Mrs lover girl. Be very careful know too well that a love can make or mar you for life.

Not all lover are indeed lover, so its better you take all the precautionary steps which are all borne out of being cautious.

★ Don't rush into relationship. You getting old is not a reasonable excuse to rush in.

★ know who you are dating very well. Test him/her religiously, emotionally, psychologically, economically, biologically, socially, intellectually/educationally/intelligently be sure he/ she is averagely what you want and what you can cope with in all of these above.

★ Make sure there is a leverage love between you two. Over love or under love dey kill well well oooo !

★ Be very Observant. True love don't threat, once your lover turns out to be harmful, cruel, excessively/senselessly costly be very careful. He/she cost you money, time or resource without considering you whether you can afford it or not but just want it stall cost ...pls fèrégè (run for your life)

★ A love that fails to respect you or your family is no love but lust

★ A love that will not Apologize or care verbally or by action/emotionally is no love lá-òjú é ( shine your eye).

★ A love that can't plan his/her future and yours together is a selfish joke ... Pick race!

★ love that can't report you to yourself or that won't take to correction once corrected is also a virus.

★ A love that is over-reactionary, or highly jealous is a big threat to Peaceful life... Be warned.

A WORD THEY SAY IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.
LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP... NEVER TOO LATE TO SEEK COUNSEL, ITS RATHER LATE WHEN THE SOUL BREATHS NO MORE.

THIS MY TOKEN RAMADAN GIFT TO YOU ALL
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