I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago, I have a very close male friend who has been in love with me for 7 years, he recently toasted me again, he is very good looking but I dont find him attractive but i havent had intamacy in 7 months. Im guessing we can start a relationship and see how far it goes, but is a little nookie worth denying 7 years of friendship over?

Who says u guys can't still be friends even if the r/ship doesn't work?

yes it is

zebra543:

I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago, I have a very close male friend who has been in love with me for 7 years, he recently toasted me again, he is very good looking but I dont find him attractive but i havent had intamacy in 7 months. Im guessing we can start a relationship and see how far it goes, but is a little nookie worth denying 7 years of friendship over?

how can i be of assistance

@poster
if you are desperate for s e x, go to a club, pick a guy up, sh-ag him and lose his number the next morning. . . . . . . . . . but dont jeopardize a great 7yr friendship because your toto is on fire.

you said it yourself: there is no attraction , so why would you want to have s e x with him and lead him on?!
he wants a relationship while you want someone to take your fire out. it can never work as you are both playing a different game!

^^ I really wish you hadnt said that . . . . . . you spoke the truth, thanks truth is bitter!

^^^^ sorry but put yourself in this guys shoes and think on how you would feel if you knew that the person you were chasing thought such a negative way about you.

I never thot negatively about him, i just never saw him as datable, dont get me wrong the guy is good lookin, he;s built, i just thot he was a bit too immature for me, im guessin now after a gzillion failed relationships im looking his way, im pretty sure he thinks the same but he isnt saying anything. Your right mbj i think its best we remain friends. . . .which is a shame cos i was begginin to like him!

If u are desperate for sex say so, and beg your ex to come back is like you still Luv the guy

God forgive bad thing, the feelin will come and go, I will never stoop that low! i dont still ove anybody!

zebra543:

I never thot negatively about him, i just never saw him as datable, dont get me wrong the guy is good lookin, he;s built, i just thot he was a bit too immature for me, im guessin now after a gzillion failed relationships im looking his way, im pretty sure he thinks the same but he isnt saying anything. Your right mbj i think its best we remain friends. . . .which is a shame cos i was begginin to like him!

ask any man out there how they would feel about dating someone who found them unattractive(thats how you portrayed him in your first post). . . . . . . . . better yet, would you date someone who thought you were unattractive?