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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Yankiss(m): 12:32pm On May 27, 2018
EastGold:
You know what?


Cut off that preek pushing you to olosho

The Bible says anything that will not lead you to heaven, remove it

You are a case! grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by readyornot: 12:33pm On May 27, 2018
Hello Courage.
A repentant drug addict won't be able to stop himself from abusing drugs even if he actually desires to. There are steps he MUST take to stop his addiction. The same can be said about your own type of addiction.
1st, it's good that you realise that what you are doing is wrong and you would really like to stop. 2nd, genuinely give your life to Christ. 3rd, keep yourself busy with work, social activities etc. 4th, train your mind to hate with every fibre of your being, the thought of engaging in such act. What are those bad things you hate so much & why do you hate them?
Add that olosho activity to that list.
5th, have a mentor, one whom you can trust and confide in.
Rushing to marry may not be the answer to this problem. Many people use marriage to solve personal problems that they can't even tell their spouses. This would only compound the problem not solve it.
6th, if you feel you must marry, do it with someone who is ready to share your pains as well as your joys & vice versa.
7th, learn to be stingy with your money especially when it comes down to spending on frivolous things. Learn to identify frivolous things.
8th, have a very healthy fear of/for STDs.
Forgive the long epistle but to cap it all, with determination, a positive attitude & trust in God, you are good to go.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Ekestar(m): 12:33pm On May 27, 2018
jospepper:
please mention me when you do.
My brother congratulation for opening up. I don't normally comment most times but I will tell you one thing. If you truly want change you have to be born again. Accept Jesus into your life. Repent and ask God for forgiveness of sins. Call me if you want more help or advise. 08131295279
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by lookingfly: 12:35pm On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.

scoan is calling you for deliverance.... Go there.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by livinbygrace: 12:41pm On May 27, 2018
I have bleeped Olosho all my life.I have gone to ashawo house while going for night vigil and still went back after closing early in the morning .While in school,I bleeped a day to exam and always regret my action.
I saying this to tell you how addicted I was to Olosho.I prayed and fasted and still continued.
I am telling you categorically that,until you get girl you really like and admire,it will be hard for you to stop.
So go for a girl and stick with her,with time you will get over it.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Originalsly: 12:44pm On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
marriage is something I know that will help me at the long run,but not until I get my life back on track. I can't afford to put someone's daughter through this.Thanks for pointing it out .
Bro...as long as you are single... you have no one but yourself to separate you from the prostitutes and over years you see how well that works.From the tone of your writeup. .you're not ready to leave them alone. I hope you keep checking your health status. .....should you be tested HIV positive..... which most likely will happen... only then will your eyes clear. The next prostitute may be the one to clear yiur eyes.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by histemple: 12:49pm On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
Thanks everyone for the practical suggestions. One thing I have learnt the hard way, is that you can't ignore God's laws and expect him to shield you from the sad consequences. It's not going to be an easy battle, but with God and sincere effort on my part, I am determined to retrace my steps and fix my life for good. I am going to be updating you all about my success stories as a way of holding myself accountable. Any further suggestions will still be appreciated.

I don't know you neither have I seen you but I see greatness in you. And I have a good news for you.

Pick up your bible, pray with Isaiah 58:1-8 for three nights at 12am.

After the last night, go to a very quiet place away from any form of distraction. Sing ONLY praises to God (no prayers) for 6 hours.

Get to your house, pick whatever you can afford, visit the orphanages/destitutes and give what you can.

God is going to cut off certain people from your life because until these persons are distanced from you, setbacks are inevitable and progress is elusive.

Do not go to any pastor for deliverance. Your deliverance is to be done by you. You carry within you a powerful grace.

God made you great and It shall manifest.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by livinbygrace: 12:51pm On May 27, 2018
histemple:


I don't know you neither have I seen you but I see greatness in you. And I have a good news for you.

Pick up your bible, pray with Isaiah 58:1-8 for three nights at 12am.

After the last night, go to a very quiet place away from any form of distraction. Sing ONLY praises to God (no prayers) for 6 hours.

Get to your house, pick whatever you can afford, visit the orphanages/destitutes and give what you can.

God is going to cut off certain people from your life because until these persons are distanced from you, setbacks are inevitable and progress is elusive.

Do not go to any pastor for deliverance. Your deliverance is to be done by you. You carry within you a powerful grace.

God made you great and It shall manifest.

Pastor anything for me ?
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by SUNNINO(m): 12:54pm On May 27, 2018
Worry not God will deliver you. Please go for deliverance in mountain of fire and ministries (mfm).
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by histemple: 12:56pm On May 27, 2018
livinbygrace:


Pastor anything for me ?

Keep your heart open for God to work with you in His time and assuredly, He will.

However, for now, I have no message for you but God knows your sincere heart desire and it's my prayer that He visits you.

Be blessed.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Awoleesu(m): 12:57pm On May 27, 2018
I had a similar experience when single. How I overcame it? I found a potent tool in speaking the Word of God! Whenever the sinful opportunity appears in form of a lady, i start preaching to her! Some angrily left, some became repentant... For me, it worked! You can try it too...
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by 2016v2017: 12:57pm On May 27, 2018
Lakeside79:


Bro the fact you feel bad about this shows your spirit is still alive.. so keep the good fight !

You try you succeed, you try you fail the important thing is to keep knowing you have to bear this and never get comfortable in doing wrong

Never believe it's okay to tell yourself that if on Sunday you cry and accept Jesus you are free from guilt no you keep fighting

You pray for strength each morning and face each day believing that day is the day you win and if at the end of the day you fail don't despair pray that night again for renewed strength to try again the next day , reenforce this with avoid temptations from going to the wrong places, veiwing pornography and information you consume

Watch out for triggers, what makes you always susceptible to this? Is it alcohol, boredom, certain thought processes , particular movie scenes then try hard to manage these as much as you can

There's no such thing as anyone laying hands on you and it disappears or any special.prayers , it's all in you to manage with the good Lord by your side bro

It's a life time struggle and we should continue to fight this till our last days

Sometimes it can take a whole life time to conquer one propensity

Just keep on keeping on and realize there's nothing wrong with you, you aren't some broken being you are just human and will give this your best shot to be the best you can be

Fight the good fight with all the might bro

We all have our battles daily , you are not alone

We are all immensely flawed creatures

All.the best
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by popsy2(m): 12:58pm On May 27, 2018
since you are not ready for marriage until you resolve this and since you are not a virgin either, get a girlfriend that you truly love and that truly loves you. She will police your promiscuity and serve as a vent for your libido. If things progress to dating/marriage between the two of you, invite me to the wedding.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Nobody: 1:00pm On May 27, 2018
Shobby88:
you need a professional counsellor who will talk to you naturally and get to know your personality well and remain non judgemental. But hold the self conviction that you can overcome it.
Am a counsellor but my ethics wont permit me to counsel you openly,cos there somethings we need to discuss one on one
and we cant simply do that here.
But the good thing is first admitting the problem.
can I send you a mail?I am ready to talk.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Aboguede(m): 1:00pm On May 27, 2018
livinbygrace:


Pastor anything for me ?


Yes. Come carry one hot olosho wey get big yansh
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by livinbygrace: 1:01pm On May 27, 2018
histemple:


Keep your heart open for God to work with you in His time and assuredly, He will.

However, for now, I have no message for you but God knows your sincere heart desire and it's my prayer that He visits you.

Be blessed.

Thank you pastor and look forward
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by folake4u(f): 1:02pm On May 27, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
well run to church and participate in all activities, the issue is u av 2 much free time, dats is why u av time 2 visit LovePeddler house. fill ur day with activities, esp kingdom related ones. also read oyedepo book like SATAN GET LOST, WALKING IN DOMINION and law of faith..GOD bless u



Participate in all activities Are you serious right now!


This matter is a battlefield of the mind.

There's a difference between walking with God and working for God.
One can do all the Kingdom activities,preach and evangelise yet he'll still go back to his old ways.

He needs to pray for God to change his attitude and that lifestyle.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by omotuntun: 1:03pm On May 27, 2018
[quote author=jospepper post=67920162] please mention me when you do.[/quote

Bro!

We have all been there, first of all yes prayers is the master key. But the same Bible says work and pray.

First it is an addiction, first cure for addiction is for you to get irritated to your addiction.

This is how I did it back then,

I stop watching porn, I stop watching videos later I see myself looking at only pictures, then each time I want to go back to that poo, I feel irritated, on and on.

The best way to fight the prostitute one is to face it...

What I did.

Each time I get the urge to go there, I go stand at the front and wait... Look at them saying bros come , I will hold on strong and face it with many questions running through my mind like.. what If I am here police came to crack criminal hide out... What if this what if that... It wasn't easy facing your fears. Before u know if I see myself back home..

One of my customer back then once said she see that I am not this type of person that should be coming to places like this..

The urge will come again I will wait afar off, take a bottle of drink. Still fight it.. I won't ever go there. On and on and on... Till I face my fear that was the work... Then I pray... God sees my heart and help me..

Above all, get yourself a girl.. forget anything that she will cheat on your or whatever love her with all your heart, respect her, don't cheat. Before you know it u won't remember the poo anymore.

Now I am free for 8 years straight.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 27, 2018
Jeferious:
Bros, na you Biko. I don't understand this fuss about f##king prostitutes. They are human beings for f##k sake- and most of them are cleaner than the average girlfriend. They are fornicating, We are fornicating. What makes them think their way of fornication is cleaner and holier than ours? Abeg make I hear word.

The only stuff I'm against is going to brothels regularly to have a good time. Once I find a girl that suit my specs, Omo na home service stuffs. Fortunately the ones around my area are voluptuous, facially fine and don't steal. Still doesn't mean I trust them though.

I don't depend on this category of females solely for sexual satisfaction. I still have several side chicks that come for the D too. And all these helped me to become what I have always wanted to be. I'm the last dude on earth that a girl can manipulate with her p√s$y. All these stuffs about chasing girls for a year, no be for me. And coupled with the fact that I've a somewhat low libido, my need for girls are very minimal. I run my life smoothly without being unnecessarily stressed by a human being who thinks having a hole between her legs and a pair of inflated twins makes her a goddess. Na my type women dey see compose. No be mouth. Na lifestyle.

P.S: Make no body bother me with marriage talk. Afterall Davido and Wizkid no gree marry. If I fit get money wey go put me for Forbes list, as well as care and protect my family(my parent's family)...I don achieve highest. Nothing again concern me

Gbam! afterall we were all born as a result of fornication grin maybe one fornication is holier than the other.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by banio: 1:08pm On May 27, 2018
Do You sex the oloshi on skin to skin. If not why Oloshi de sweet U like this. Every rich man, that travels a lot, might have slept with oloshi. But they don't carry it on their head, neither do they love oloshi. It is like U love Oloshis. Just live your life, stop thinking about the oldest business on earth.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Aboguede(m): 1:09pm On May 27, 2018
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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Nobody: 1:21pm On May 27, 2018
Thanks everyone for all these amazing comments. I will sincerely say that I am overwhelmed by non-judgmental suggestions. I am going to take my time to go through them one after the other. I picked up this habit, and with God and effort on my part I Will unlearn it. I won't let you down.
Thanks to the mod too.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Anslemchiboy(m): 1:23pm On May 27, 2018
Pray for the grace of God to overcome it.it's not easy but you need God grace in your life
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by upokafor(m): 1:23pm On May 27, 2018
Why did you start using prostitutes in the first place?
And why do you think it's wrong to use prostitutes?
How frequently do you use prostitutes?
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Jsucre(m): 1:35pm On May 27, 2018
go to mountain of fire for deliverance and thank me later
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by lekonso: 1:42pm On May 27, 2018
Are you born again? that is the starting point. If you are not born again, go to a living church as directed by God and if you cannot get any direction from God then i will invite you to my church WINNERS CHAPEL at Ota. Make a covenant with God. Kneel down on your kneels and tell God that the day you go back to prostitute, God should kill you on top of that woman, that will be the end of that sin. Try it i know it works.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Montez90: 1:52pm On May 27, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
well run to church and participate in all activities, the issue is u av 2 much free time, dats is why u av time 2 visit LovePeddler house. fill ur day with activities, esp kingdom related ones. also read oyedepo book like SATAN GET LOST, WALKING IN DOMINION and law of faith..GOD bless u
you know how many church workers that are visiting LovePeddler house?
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Montez90: 1:53pm On May 27, 2018
lekonso:
Are you born again? that is the starting point. If you are not born again, go to a living church as directed by God and if you cannot get any direction from God then i will invite you to my church WINNERS CHAPEL at Ota. Make a covenant with God. Kneel down on your kneels and tell God that the day you go back to prostitute, God should kill you on top of that woman, that will be the end of that sin. Try it i know it works.
You can't save a man from himselfff
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by benzion72(m): 1:57pm On May 27, 2018
Settle down first. Get a wife, and do it with her instead of going to prostitute
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by MrCuteking(m): 2:09pm On May 27, 2018
So many girls everywhere. Even one is forcing me to come and fvck her today, my ex. Not even afraid that today is Sunday. Temptation is much and I am sick and tired of the way things are going in this country.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by fynex(m): 2:12pm On May 27, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
ur bible advises u 2 get a wife. do so na.30+ means u are ripe for marriage. dont be too picky. she is a christian, laughs at ur jokes and is quiet is enof qualification cheesy

Getting a wife now wouldn't stop the habit, OP is aware of that and that's why he stated in his post that he wishes to stop it before he settles down...

Don't think that getting married would stop it*
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:17pm On May 27, 2018
You're doing well in making effort to live by Bible principles.

That means your conscience is still alive. You should be grateful. Many are suffering from a dead conscience, but they don't know.
1 Corinthians 2:14-16

However, marriage does not stop a bad habit.

The above 1Cor 2:14-16 also helps to understand we need the mind of Christ if we are to become a spiritual man.

How do you acquire the mental attitude of Christ? Romans 15:5 says it is God who grants it.

To gain the mind style of Christ then we need a lot of learning about Christ.2 Peter 3:18 It'll be a lot learning and unlearning.Romans 12:1, 2

Jehovah's witnesses can help you to gain the knowledge that has helps millions to live by God's standard. John 17:3 or visit our website www.JW.org for more help.


It is important attain to this maturity of a full grown man because:

TO BE carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace,” wrote the apostle Paul. Romans 8:6

The prospect of a happy family life & the peace of mind that only God gives can not be underestimated and there can never any regret pursing such course.







courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.

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