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Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by neyoflexzyl(m): 6:43pm On May 26, 2018 |
Warning to all girls......!!!!WHY MEN ASK YOU FOR SEX. I want to change some ladies mindset today. You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants. I'm going to be real and down to earth with this write up. The way some ladies complain men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? This is a big problem, It is not something to be proud of, if all that men see about you is your body and nothing more. It then cause for alarm!!!!! (1). CHECK YOUR DRESSING: A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe! Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talkless of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts, you wear trousers, tights skirt, (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micro mini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild. Better face reality now and mind the way you dress. Don't forget that it is only God that sees your heart but men sees the body o (2). LEARN HOW TO SIT: Some ladies don't know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps and be snapping us anyhow so what do you want him to see? A trance or maybe revelation ![]() (3). YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT: Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can't you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the place. (4). CALLING MEN PET NAMES: Some people just throw around the word "dear" as if it is a second language, Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, "thanks dear," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie", "bye love", yes sugar, Hello honeypie, etc., you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on. Even if you must call, set a limit. (5). YOU PRAISE MEN TOO MUCH: This shouldn't be a problem at all but experience has taught me that men are attracted and eventually turned on by women who praise them. You can compliment men if you want to but be discreet and casual about it. Don't over do anything. Telling a guy, "whao! what a nice moustache you've got!" or that "muscle on your arm can make any lady go crazy for you" is indirectly telling him you like his body and wouldn't mind if he sleeps with you. (6). YOU SEDUCE MEN: Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don't need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on. I really get worried when I see these pictures. You can't have my comments when you post such. Just showing your dirty buttock and breast anyhow on the social media. What a foolishness. (7). YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA: When I see the way some ladies pose on Facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttock to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have form breasts? Or maybe you've got nipples like needle?? What is the purpose of the purpose of the pictures you are posting? You post exposing your body and still have the guts to write oluwa is involve. Sorry you are only making yourself a harlot and that's what you are. Responsible women don't do that trash. ( ![]() Lobatan! Sex has finished its mission. Sex loves dark and lonely places. Wait, why are you always avoiding the public? You want to talk? Can't you still be around people and stay out of ear shot? What are you talking about that we must not hear? Send a text message or write a letter. You don't need to hide in darkness to express your heart... (9). YOU SLEEP AT YOUR FIANCE'S HOUSE: Why are you in a hurry to sleep under the same roof with a man? Why are you in a hurry? What is your problem? Some ladies can't wait for a man to propose. They pack their bags and move to his house immediately. For what? And when that one gets tired of the sex, he sends them packing and we are here listening to all their tales of woe! Some don't even expect their man to ask for sex. Aaah? Show me a monkey who doesn't jump at every sight of banana. (10). YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX: Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not really their fault that they sleep around. That is a big lie from the pit of hell! You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap. Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman. Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtuous woman dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex....,Check what is wrong and fix it... |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by SexyDenzel: 7:06pm On May 26, 2018 |
A man that will stick with you will stick with you while a man that will chop and clean mouth will chop and clean mouth, it depends. |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by judeogbami: 7:20pm On May 26, 2018 |
True talk |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by tee59(f): 8:32pm On May 26, 2018 |
Good talk. ![]() |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by IamPlato(m): 8:39pm On May 26, 2018 |
... Number 4 is Stupid 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by Nobody: 8:41pm On May 26, 2018 |
Thanks
This Good |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by Nickijoy(f): 11:33pm On May 26, 2018 |
SexyDenzel:You don talk am finish joor... chop and clean mouth applies to both sex ... |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by SoapQueen(f): 2:06am On May 27, 2018 |
For real? A man that wants to "wham, bam, thank you ma'am"! , will do so irrespective of the traits you mentioned up there. It will do the world a lot of good if everyone stopped being a relationship/sex coach. O sun mi! 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by virud: 2:48am On May 27, 2018 |
If I ask for sex and disappear afterwards, don't hang yourself. Most times, It's not a ' YOU' problem, it's a 'ME' problem. Simple reasons why I didn't return. 1. Someone is waiting for me somewhere. 2.You're not sexually compatible. 3. I was emotionally exposed, stressed or was probably drunk and had a flick with you. 4.All I wanted was sex, just sex, nothing more. 5.Perhaps, there are other reasons that has NOTHING to do with you. Who knows? Who cares? It’s not your job to sit pondering the reason I faded away. The fact is, you can’t control and predict every single person’s change in behaviors. NB. Please ,disregard the personalization in my post. |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by ubunja(m): 4:26am On May 27, 2018 |
guys must learn to fvck and go. leave the losers to wife up the mess. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by SexyDenzel: 5:54am On May 27, 2018 |
Nickijoy:Correct Bae, you understand the matter Moor ;-). |
Re: Why Men Asks You For Sex Only And Disappear After by Kingsley121(m): 6:30am On May 27, 2018 |
SexyDenzel: Gbam!!!May the Lord bless u with more sense |
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