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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by enemyofprogress: 11:31pm On May 28, 2018
Ajepako is a older women
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Shortyy(f): 11:33pm On May 28, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:


I even mentioned to say I miss you...

Then you shiit on me.

Good you ruined the night. angry.

Bon Nuit.
All of a sudden you miss me. Wonder what happened.. Buenos noches you too.
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 28, 2018
cheesy

Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by jibs4lv(m): 11:37pm On May 28, 2018
I am looking for a sister shocked
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by gonkin(m): 11:37pm On May 28, 2018
LivingFree:


I wouldn't go as far as asking people their age before we become friends grin grin grin

I have 21 yr old friends; all the way to 58 yr olds and a 62 year old. Age is nothing but a number. Maturity and characteristics aren't subject to age, most times...

Some girls are scared to disclose their age especially when they know the guy is younger. Well age is nothing but a number and i would rather date a girl thats older and of good character
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by gonkin(m): 11:37pm On May 28, 2018
Fukafuka:
cheesy
This is what i meant when i mentioned do it for love
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 11:39pm On May 28, 2018
angry

Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by omooba969(m): 11:48pm On May 28, 2018
shaybebaby:

Seeing as women reach their sexual peak in their forties and men start to lose theirs after 30, I'd say the universe wants older women to mate with younger men. tongue

I believe most women in their 40s have a remarkable sex drive even going into their 50s coz that's when menopause starts to knock & more testosterone start to build thereby enhancing the sexual urge.

But wetin I know...? sad

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Emmalondon: 11:52pm On May 28, 2018
CarlosTheJackal:
Men don't lose their sexual drive after 30z rather that's when they use psychology to get the best out of their woman.


Young boys are crazy about thrusting like they are digging well while men take time to feel the whole space and make sure the place is drilled in the right angles because they know it's theirs to come back to tomorrow

Guy you just nailed it excellently but you sound like person wey go really like the thing sha.
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Deltayankeeboi: 11:55pm On May 28, 2018
LivingFree:

It was a pleasure. Sweet dreams King kiss
where you from?? just curious
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by MANNABBQGRILLS: 11:57pm On May 28, 2018
Alright....
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 12:04am On May 29, 2018
Jman06:
Most times, posts like this come from sex starved boys who are desperately in need of cheap sex. Those are the kind of guys that keep spamming romance section with adverts in search of so called sugar mummies!

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by MrBigiman: 12:09am On May 29, 2018
Are older puci really sweet? First hand experience pls.
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Noelz: 12:28am On May 29, 2018
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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by PDPGuy: 12:46am On May 29, 2018
I disagree with your first point. An older woman, especially a Nigerian woman in her late 20s or early 30s, would want to get married as soon as you start dating her. While a younger lady (in her early or mid 20s) may not be as desperate to settle down with a guy

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 12:48am On May 29, 2018
I date older women because of the following reasons:
A) They don't usually care about where the relationship is going. As a guy in my early 20's, I have dated my share of women almost twice my age and I would do it again. There is no pressure and I really appreciate it.
B) this sense of maturity that they exhibit. They really know what they want and how to help you achieve your aim too. I can't deal with young girls that don't know what they don't want, it would break me down.
C)The sex is bomb. Oh My God, they have a great experience and it's mother fucking good.
D) Most importantly, they are confident in their bodies and themselves. They might not have the best bodies, but they don't feel the pressure that young girls do( at least those I dated).
People should really remove this stigma of the older wife being head of the family, it's dumb, a man is a man no matter age AND women don't really age easily, it's tales by moonlight!!

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by laudate: 12:50am On May 29, 2018
delugajackson:
I see no big deal here. Age is really not a barrier when it comes to matters of the heart. Younger guys tend to be more active and they carry less emotional baggage. Older women like Tiwa carry substance and also have a relaxed attitude about life. Secondly, they are celebrities for crying out loud, they live for the controversies.

For me, I prefer older women. They know themselves, they have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. They are not just looking for guys who will be good fathers and providers, they are more clear and focused. It's kind of a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive. I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that.

Toy boy and gigolo spotted!

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 12:51am On May 29, 2018
Jman06:
NONSENSE.

There's no advantage in being a gigolo!


Hustle hard, make money and date/marry a younger lady. That's how it should be! Not looking for escape route from poverty by going after an oldie.


A man should be at least 5yrs older than his lady.

So Prince Harry is a gigolo, or Maybe Hugh Jackman, oh wait, Ashton Kutcher, oh I get it, Peter Okoye is. Mr Man your write up looks dumb!



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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 12:52am On May 29, 2018
Jman06:
NONSENSE.

There's no advantage in being a gigolo!


Hustle hard, make money and date/marry a younger lady. That's how it should be! Not looking for escape route from poverty by going after an oldie.


A man should be at least 5yrs older than his lady.


So Prince Harry is a gigolo, or Maybe Hugh Jackman, oh wait, Ashton Kutcher, oh I get it, Peter Okoye is. Mr Man your write up looks dumb!

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by YemiHadid(m): 1:00am On May 29, 2018
To the young guys reading this, dont listen to the OP oo... why.should a young man in his prime settle for less? Dont accept all ideas these 'social-justice warriors push on us hook, line and sinker.

A young man should seek out a partner atleast 5 years his junior, not someone thats been riding the d before you even started growing pubic hairs; and is also about to hit the proverbial "wall", just because some Harry made a blog post promoting it. I'd give you more disadvantages of dating an older woman...

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by laudate: 1:04am On May 29, 2018
YemiHadid:
To the young guys reading this, dont listen to the OP oo... why.should a young man in his prime settle for less? Dont accept all ideas these 'social-justice warriors push on us hook, line and sinker.

A young man should seek out a partner atleast 5 years his junior, not someone thats been riding the d before you even started growing pubic hairs; and is also about to hit the proverbial "wall", just because some Harry made a blog post promoting it. I'd give you more disadvantages of dating an older woman...

Please, what on earth do you mean by "at least 5 years his junior?" Is there some magic about that number 5? shocked I have seen couples where the man and woman were age mates, and they had a beautiful relationship. In some cases, the age difference was less than 2 years, and they still got along very well. What makes a relationship last is the love, trust, understanding, tolerance, companionship, respect, honesty, accountability etc that exists between the couple, and not the width of the age difference that exists between them, whether 5 years or more. undecided

Some of these small girls know things that people of your generation do not even think about, and they have sampled more men than you can even imagine! shocked Or haven't you heard of some 19 year olds getting pregnant, because they were wayward?

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Omihanifa: 1:09am On May 29, 2018
here in Nigeria its almost a taboo o people will say you have been caged or you are a boy toy even if one is going to do such it should be hidden and not to the full glare of the public
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by godofuck231: 1:10am On May 29, 2018
luminouz:

I sure do!! Especially if they are divorcees or their husbands dies early.....
The worst are d married ones whose husbands are either impotent or never at home...these ones will cling like a leech to you o

It's called "I need you close to me feelings"
But if you don't like that try dating tonto, hi tonto!
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by sekundosekundo: 1:15am On May 29, 2018
luminouz:

I sure do!! Especially if they are divorcees or their husbands dies early.....
The worst are d married ones whose husbands are either impotent or never at home...these ones will cling like a leech to you o

I only pity your ending for this lifestyle of fucking people's wives. Make a U turn today b4 it will be too late for you.
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by sekundosekundo: 1:19am On May 29, 2018
Arondizuogu:


So Prince Harry is a gigolo, or Maybe Hugh Jackman, oh wait, Ashton Kutcher, oh I get it, Peter Okoye is. Mr Man your write up looks dumb!



Don't make the mistake others has made. Don't even use them as a point of reference.
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by moneyadulttube: 1:24am On May 29, 2018
From experience older women are the best. I am planning to marry one this year and she is 10 yrs older than me. When you find happiness and all the qualities you dreamt of in a lady, never allow societal norms or factors like age deter you. You live your life alone and deserve to be happy with the person you love. The president of France is an example, life is too short. Africans always consider things that are actually not important. Age doesn't determine a successful marriage just marry who suits you.

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by LeoThaGreat(m): 1:33am On May 29, 2018
The maturity part is the most attractive of all. Most girls my age are damn confused!! I've always loved older ladies since time immemorial

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by Nobody: 1:43am On May 29, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
where you from?? just curious

Under da sea grin
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by warchild00: 1:48am On May 29, 2018
Dude Chill
Coming from a Married Man, with loads of experience on ladies.. You Gave 9 Points With No Valid Explanation to Any of them..

Now Let me school you on this..

1. A Lady would still be a Lady Regardless the Age (They all come with the same baggage), so you saying no More Drama and Co.. That's A Fucking Big Lie, Except she is just using you for sex and doesn't like you (Making you her Boy Toy), Why she wan give you drama.. You not worth it Na. A Woman in Love has Drama regardless her Age. A Woman in Love wants no Rival

2. No Pressure.. Na So, I hear you, A woman in Love with an Older, Younger, or Even Married Man, wants to settled down with him. A Woman wants you all to herself.

3. High levels of maturity (Which rubs on the dude). Maturity doesn't rub off on individuals, what you call maturity, is you unconsciously acting in such a way that wouldn't upset her especially in the midst of her friends. In other words.. You are doing things to please her

4. Career advancement and connections inother words, you have no drive and ambition of our own from the way you said this, because she being older than you doesnt mean she has more connections or her career supersede your.. Eg Wizzy n Tiwa, Which Career advancement and connections Wizzy Need from Tiwa if truly they are dating.

5. High Level of Experience, Oga Experience doesn't always come with Age.. Same Goes with Wisdom, doesn't come with Age. If you talking about Sexual Experience, dude what younger girls are you talking about, Juvis or who? Cos Sexual Experience or Being a Beast In Bed as nothing to do with Age.. You can see porn stars in their 20s go Bleep the brains out of any Man. Another Example Using Football Terms, Neymar in his 20's isnt he better and more experience than so many strikers in their 30-40s.

6. They are not into you for your wallet size, like say na all Older Women get Work or Money.. Oga You For Just Talk Say, Advantages of Dating A Rich Cougar, then i go understand..

7. Age comes with Confidence, Confidence in what sense, because that's really broad.. Confidence to do what? Confidence comes with Self Believe

8. They are classy, Class has nothing to do with Age. I see here again, you are referring to A Rich Cougar. So You want to tell me that the likes of Taylor swift, Selena Gomez, Kylie Jenner, Yemi Alade, Chidinma Ekile etc All in their 20s are not Classy Ladies

9. Sex... Dude Like i said before, havent you seen porn stars in their 20s that would rock your world.


OGA IF YOU LIKE AN OLDER LADY COOL.. NO BIGGIE.. AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MATTERS OF THE HEART, IF YOU TRULY LIKE EACHOTHER AND ARE CONSENTING ADULTS.
NO BE SAY YOU GO COME DEY LIST INVALID ADVANTAGES, AND IF YOU BE GIGOLO AND LOOKING FOR A RICH OLDER LADY TO SPOON FEED YOU, GIVE YOU CONNECTIONS AND SPEND ON YOU.. YOUR CUP OF TEA AS WELL

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Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by enemyofprogress: 1:51am On May 29, 2018
LivingFree:


It was a pleasure. Sweet dreams King kiss
odoko
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by ashjay001(m): 2:24am On May 29, 2018
luminouz:
Some/most are clingy n may end up possessive n manipulative

True that joor, bro. Esp, when they realise, u're just in for d sex, great sex! They've generally, lost inhibitions n understand their body better.grin

U just have to know how to play them, avoid chopping awoof, no awoof for woman matter!angry
Re: Advantages Of Dating An Older Woman by sprints1: 2:26am On May 29, 2018
please what has age got to do with marriage...na everybody go think like the "afonjas" that attach age to everything.... abeg a lady older than man at times makes more sense cuz she has the ability to reason based on experience and less pressure... Naija abeg wise up...this is digital age... age is just a number na wetin dey upstairs be the Koko...as long as they are happy its ok

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