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Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by bluespice(f): 2:38pm On May 31, 2010
nope, she's dumb cos okay, the cute ones dont get to wear the (quite often) ridiculous outfits that the bridal train has to wear, doesnt she realise that they have more opportunities to flaunt their looks in clothes that they actually like and want to wear?
i mean they will come to the party right?
if they cute, train or not, folks will see em and holla if they want, she's acting a biatch but more of a dumb biatch than anything
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 2:44pm On May 31, 2010
bluespice:

nope, she's dumb cos okay, the cute ones dont get to wear the (quite often) ridiculous outfits that the bridal train has to wear, doesnt she realise that they have more opportunities to flaunt their looks in clothes that they actually like and want to wear?
i mean they will come to the party right?
if they cute, train or not, folks will see em and holla if they want, she's acting a biatch but more of a dumb biatch than anything


Dumbbitchassness then. cheesy
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by bluespice(f): 2:52pm On May 31, 2010
lol dumbbitchassness it is tongue
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by yme1(f): 7:44pm On May 31, 2010
i just saw this pic and it reminded me of this topic cheesy cheesy

Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by onono30: 5:46am On Jun 01, 2010
Anyway. i blame the bridesmaids that will accept to wear any cloth or hair style [dat they dnt like] just to be a part of the traIn. For me, l dnt compromise my looks not even for any insecured or selfish bride.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Bibankee: 11:45am On Jun 01, 2010
Lol,looooooooooolllllllllllllllll smiley smiley smiley smiley
this is so funny but true, It mostly happens to brides who lack inner beauty and absolutely adore attention

I wonder why it never occurs to them that a beautiful bridal train is a reflection of the wife's taste and personality.I look out for the bridal train and groomsmen at weddings,it tells me a lot even before i sight the bride or groom.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Redlips2(f): 4:11pm On Jun 01, 2010
Well different strokes for different strokes.
When I got married, I personally chose beautiful tall girls and I went outof my way to chose a beautiful dress for them for that day. I also had them do make a lovely hair-do.

All these I did to make them look good and to grace the occassion - My wedding. Besides it is also an opportunity for them to showcase their beauty and catch their own men afterall am hooked.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 4:23pm On Jun 01, 2010
Red-lips:

Well different strokes for different strokes.
When I got married, I personally chose beautiful tall girls and I went outof my way to chose a beautiful dress for them for that day. I also had them do make a lovely hair-do.

All these I did to make them look good and to grace the occassion - My wedding. Besides it is also an opportunity for them to showcase their beauty and catch their own men afterall am hooked.

I am highly impressed. . . .
Unfortunately, brides like you are now SCARCE.
The ones we have out there today will rather pack Godzillas n Godzukis in their bridal train so they can look prettier.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by chika98: 4:27pm On Jun 01, 2010
Sauron honestly insecure women do things like that. No confident woman will do it that way.
You want your bridesmaids to look gorgeous as well.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 4:30pm On Jun 01, 2010
chika98:

Sauron honestly insecure women do things like that. No confident woman will do it that way.
You want your bridesmaids to look gorgeous as well.

Have you actually read the first 3 pages of this topic?
They said it's a silent code amongst y'all women.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by chika98: 4:31pm On Jun 01, 2010
~Sauron~:

Have you actually read the first 3 pages of this topic?
They said it's a silent code amongst y'all women.

Exclude me then. When you've nabbed your own man. . wetin consign me again?
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 4:35pm On Jun 01, 2010
chika98:

Exclude me then. When you've nabbed your own man. . wetin consign me again?

Meaning?
You nor be woman again?
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by chika98: 4:36pm On Jun 01, 2010
~Sauron~:

Meaning?
You nor be woman again?

Meaning not everyone is crusty and vile. I want my bridesmaids looking HOT!
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 4:38pm On Jun 01, 2010
chika98:

Meaning not everyone is crusty and vile. I want my bridesmaids looking HOT!

Nice!
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by lareine(f): 7:12pm On Jun 01, 2010
well well well, it's her choice. But I think it's an awful thing to do. I want my wedding all classy, why would I use my hands to spoil it. It's not a wise thing to do.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by queeneve: 10:42pm On Jun 01, 2010
Sauron,

Once again, I did not give direct order to proceed, I asked rhetorical questions and THERE IS NOTHING
IN TEXT STATES, I GAVE YOU PERMISSION, YOU ASSUMED I GAVE YOU PERMISSION,

Be a man!
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by oyinda3(f): 11:29pm On Jun 01, 2010
When I got married, I personally chose beautiful tall girls


i definitely won't be choosing bridesmaids based on looks or height or weight or whatever lol
if my closest friends/relatives happen to be ugly or beautiful or a mix of both, so be it cool choosing based on looks is very superficial to me.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by dayokanu(m): 11:31pm On Jun 01, 2010
hmmmmm
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 12:04am On Jun 02, 2010
queeneve:

Sauron,

Once again, I did not give direct order to proceed, I asked rhetorical questions and THERE IS NOTHING
IN TEXT STATES, I GAVE YOU PERMISSION, YOU ASSUMED I GAVE YOU PERMISSION,

Be a man!

Aiight, aiiiight. . . . .U can have your stuffs back.
Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!!!!
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by jalether(m): 12:14am On Jun 02, 2010
comments from the first 2 pages is full of hypocrisy, contradictions and bullshit.

"No confident and secure woman should ever feel threatened by other female companion's beauty", any other view that disputes that statement of FACT

can be taken with a grain of salt.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by queeneve: 12:24am On Jun 02, 2010
spits and walks off,
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by MissyB1(m): 12:27am On Jun 02, 2010
Chei!!!
Some NLanders are too acerbic. . . . . . Loosen up a bit.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 12:39am On Jun 02, 2010
jalether:

comments from the first 2 pages is full of hypocrisy, contradictions and bullshit.

"No confident and secure woman should ever feel threatened by other female companion's beauty", any other view that disputes that statement of FACT can be taken with a grain of salt.

That is what online forums are all about.
People must have different views - Half full or half empty.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by jalether(m): 12:46am On Jun 02, 2010
~Sauron~:

That is what online forums are all about.
People must have different views - Half full or half empty.

It's akin to comments like "I hacked into my bf's computer to check his emails and fb and also hates when he keeps female associate. but that

doesn't make me insecure, cheesy",.

so did you challenge the bride on her insecurities?.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 12:50am On Jun 02, 2010
jalether:

so did you challenge the bride on her insecurities?.

I challenged the groom. . . . .I have told him there's no way i am standing next to a Godzilla on a wedding website.
They are making arrangements. I hope they sort it ASAP.  cheesy
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by queeneve: 12:59am On Jun 02, 2010
You are so superficial Sauron, SIGHS!
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Sauron1: 1:05am On Jun 02, 2010
queeneve:

You are so superficial Sauron, SIGHS!

Leave me na. . . . .
How does ma superficial nature affect the price of fish?
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by queeneve: 1:12am On Jun 02, 2010
Oh, you a fish now?!!! (pushes self off pc)
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by oyinda3(f): 3:29am On Jun 02, 2010
dayokanu:

hmmmmm

mr. dayokanu, what is hmmmmm?
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by Osama10(m): 3:39am On Jun 02, 2010
Both.
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by dayokanu(m): 4:02am On Jun 02, 2010
mr. dayokanu, what is hmmmmm?

E ku ojo meta
Re: Insecurity Or Selfishness? by tjosh(m): 4:26am On Jun 02, 2010
[red]Guess ds thread's topic shld be InSecuRiTY or InFerioRiTY. . I dnt see selfishness comin in ere[/red]

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