Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

Leave everything for God.

Many things this babe have done to me which I don't want to drop here. Just sent her I have enough birthday gifts for her cuz that's what she loves most. And she's fallen for my tricks. I want to tell her am not a fool and d names she called me in the past. I feel terribly bad recalling all the names she called me. I need ur candid responses pls.

What are you beating her for? Just forget it. U don fall maga already.

Collect your phone back

Give her the beating of her life, if you get mind Kill her join.

mcdreeezy:
What are you beating her for? Just forget it. U don fall maga already.

U won't understand bro

Bro let it go. Believe me you will regret your actions if you go ahead with the plan. You can collect your phone I have no problem with that but leave out beating her. Let Karma do the rest my gee.

OP its natural to feel very pained and bitter to discover someone whom you love wholeheartedly was just playing games with you but you shouldn't try to hurt her, pls let go of her without touching her. Trust me Karma will catch up with her.

It's surprising how some men take bullshit from ladies.
How can u allow a woman to play u like that?

Leave everything for God. someone will treat her the same way she treat you.
cheer up and move on.

junido501:
Bro let it go. Believe me you will regret your actions if you go ahead with the plan. You can collect your phone I have no problem with that but leave out beating her. Let Karma do the rest my gee.

Thanks bro

U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need. Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me.

What your girl did is bad. You are still very upset which is acceptable but please, don't beat her. What if something happens to her in the process?

Do you want to see your name tagged alongside stories like "jealous ex storms girl's house to beat her over a phone worth 10k? "

You can collect the phone if you want to. It's your money but I feel you should just let bygones be bygones .

SoapQueen:
What your girl did is bad. You are still very upset which is acceptable but please, don't beat her. What if something happens to her in the process?

Do you want to see your named tagged alongside stories like "jealous ex storms girls house to beat her over a phone worth 10k? "

You can collect the phone if you want to. It's your money but I feel you should just let bygones be bygones .

I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

forget the day you met this girl, forget her existence. block her totally.

it might seems she is very smart but she is a loser here, she lost a good guy; her so-called boyfriend may be her karma.

Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

God cannot force you. Just forget her. I seem not to understand why you'll still wanna see her

smh....don't waste your strength, not worth it

Eberechi24:
forget the day you met this girl, forget her existence. block her totally.

it might seems she is very smart but she is a loser here, she lost a good guy; her so-called boyfriend may be her karma.

She's just 20 but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send me diz messages.

Innobee99:
She's just 20 but but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send my diz messages.

you are dealing with a juvenile, you should let it go. she don't understand the weight she pulled.


you asked her out when she's 17?

Eberechi24:



you are dealing with a juvenile, you should let it go. she don't understand the weight she pulled.


you asked her out when she's 17?

I wasnt having s*x with her wen we met. Atleast she shouldn't remain a juvenile forever

Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

Bro, don't let her come. Call her and tell that you won't be available tomorrow and then cut her off from your life completely.

I know it hurts but you have a reason to thank God. She lost someone that loves her and you lost someone that hates you, so who is losing?

Forget her and keep going, the future is better and clearer. She has just taught you something that will help you in your next relationship.

Tallesty1:
Bro, don't let her come. Call her and tell that you won't be available tomorrow and then cut her off from your life completely.

I know it hurts but you have a reason to thank God. She lost someone that loves her and you lost someone that hates you, so who is losing?

Forget her and keep going, the future is better and clearer. She has just taught you something that will help you in your next relationship.

Ur words has encouraged me a lot. Thanks alot

Innobee99:
U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need.[/b] Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me. [b]

This cracks me up

.... PAYBACK TIME bro

NA Devil de Push u.... he want push u into a Ditch

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Op.

I have had my share of crazy and ungrateful exes.
Presently dealing with one at the moment sef.



Here's what I think you should do.
When she comes, sit her down and tell her what you intended doing to her in the first place then show her this thread..
Tell her to thank her stars that you have got some good advisors on nairaland.

She will probably try to use the feminine charm on you.
Don't touch her, not even kissing or pecking.
Then let her leave with the phone and unharmed.
I repeat don't collect the phone..

I swear she will never try shiit with you again.



Why beat someone who is no match for you.
You will just commit murder and that only ends one way.
Don't walk that path.
Abeg