Most men worry about being good enough and fit to settle down. When they deem themselves not ready, they find ways of maneuvering and avoiding opportunities that require them to commit, at least until they feel comfortable.

Women know that it takes time for feelings to develop before eventually committing to the men they are in love with, but what if he is not ready? In such cases, conflicts are unavoidable you are not on the same page. Here are some of the excuses he will make that can tell you he is not ready to commit:


1. ‘I like things just the way they are’

This is an indication that both of you are comfortable with how you are and have settled on the same routine. However, this does not promise a future together. When your man says this, he is hinting that he is not ready to grow and maybe settle down with you, at least just not yet.

2. ‘I am afraid of commitment’

Some men normally fear commitment because their bad pasts or merely desire to want to live in the moment. They focus on being single, date as much as they can as long as there are no strings attached.

3. ‘I don’t want us to ruin our friendship’

There is no better relationship than that which began as a friendship because you know and understand each other well. When a man says this to you, he simply is communicating that he cannot be more than a friend!

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My elder brother had to marry first.

its funny how modern society is telling women marriage isnt everything yet the same society is still expecting men to marry.

Women always very serious in relationships

Any slight opportunity they remind you of marriage

My mother is not comfortable with our relationship.

More exquses: - I am not yet ready - I have not found D-1 - I am saving for her bride price, its quite high. (four years down the lane) - God has not revealed it to me to get married (playing korede Bello's '' Mungo park'' song )

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More exquses:
- I am not yet ready
- I have not found D-1
- I am saving for her bride price, its quite high. (four years down the lane)
- God has not revealed it to me to get married
(playing korede Bello's '' Mungo park'' song )