mxpinky:
hmmm you don't know what am facing right away
but it's mostly done in nigeria or africa

mxpinky:
hmmm you don't know what am facing right away
but it's mostly done in nigeria or africa

BlackAdam55:
are u from the north?

Lakeside79:


Wrong again it's not mostly done in Nigeria , on the contrary Nigerian parents value education especially for the daughters so like it said

It's your parents , you should ask them why, that a question only they can answer not nairaland

mxpinky:
no

mxpinky:
is it because am the only daughter and the only child they have ?

Lakeside79:


Ask your parents I don't know, will asking a total stranger here answer your question?

mxpinky:
thats harsh were re family on nl

SUPERPACK:
will you marry me?

mxpinky:
thats harsh were re family on nl

Validcode:
This your "Enduction" is a waste of time and money.

Lakeside79:


Wasn't meant to be harsh just being realistic

No we are not a family on nairaland, this is the sort of mentality that makes girls cross Nigeria to meet a guy they met on Facebook.

How does registering with total stranger on a faceless forum make you a family ? You need to go out and make real friends young lady

mxpinky:
no sir am facing a very bad condition because of marriage right now
which i need help

SUPERPACK:
you can get married and then continue your education, even my mum did same, marriage wont stop you from going to school.

mxpinky:
you re totally wrong you look at it from a wrong angle though

mxpinky:
hmmm to a soldier i don't really know ?

SUPERPACK:
speak to your uncles, aunts or maybe grandparents, they might be able to convince your dad, especially an educated relative.

Lakeside79:


Do tell

How did I misunderstand you ?

mxpinky:
if i call you a family on nl that does not mean a family in reality world we met here and all we do ends here so don't take otherwise learn to understand things positively before jumping into conclusion

Lakeside79:


You should.get.married.as your parents suggested ,.you seem.to already have enough experience in pointless arguments, never agreeing when.you are wrong and being stubborn

You are ready for marriage , please send me an IV
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mxpinky:
i know your type what you say is always the best i know

mxpinky:
my dear they re all in support of that

mxpinky:
no

mxpinky:
is it because am the only daughter and the only child they have ?

EazyMoh:

Hi now I read this post as well. I now understand better, especially the only child part.
I really feel sorry for you, but know that is life. Allah will surely test each and everyone of us with a calamity in order to reward us if we pass or hold us accountable if we fail. Remember Prophet Ibrahim (AS) he was tested by commanding him to slaughter his favorite son...
Look around you everyone has his/her test already in progress in life. One important thing g is that Allah will never test you with what you lack capacity to do.
Send me a pm and I hope to be able to assist more.