VanBommel:
Oloshi ni bobo yi o. You see puna wey you go dey chop steady you come dey ask for advice. Nna no let thunder fire you o

donstan18:
Drop her number bruv.

I can set Whatsapp and Facebook for older women very well, I can even help them rub cream and take a selfie with their wet nipples.

Just permit me to be her midnight charger, so that you'll focus on your girlfriend.

Viergeachar:


It will.

For to be carnally minded is death. But to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
-Romans 6:13

donstan18:
Drop her number bruv.

I can set Whatsapp and Facebook for older women very well, I can even help them rub cream and take a selfie with their wet nipples.

Just permit me to be her midnight charger, so that you'll focus on your girlfriend.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This kinda diabolical mindset won't get us far.

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

Gloryboy:

It doesn't mean it has to do about sex there are other things than sex in a relationship, it is just that the eyes of most guys are blocked to them.

Obinnau:
what do boyfriends and girlfriends do?

Viergeachar:


He is not ready to marry his girlfriend either. But they are in a relationship heading for or that can end in marriage. Can that be the case with the older lady
There several men the age of the older lady or older who are very ready to service her engine. Why is she interested in this greenhorn

sammirano:


But it's the truth most tyms.

BabaIbo:

But she had a kid which is almost same age as the op, and again you know the relationship is not a genuine one and can't lead to any meaningful destination.
There are two things involved
1. It maybe the lady is lonely and needs someone to have fun with, which has less than 20% probability. OR
2. Maybe she's out to get something(you know what I mean) from him since he's young and vulnerable, which has over 80% probability
I will advice him to run because either way it's wrong and won't favor him at the long run

Viergeachar:


He can marry his girlfriend. But can he marry the older lady Is the older lady looking for a husband

Gloryboy:

It doesn't mean it has to do about sex there are other things than sex in a relationship, it is just that the eyes of most guys are blocked to them.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm... Well, to be developed like the western world, our people need to drop our current mentality.

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i hav

e benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

Gloryboy:

Lol... He no talk say e dey do shaku shaku with his girlfriend nau.

Benz4pimp:
how sure are you that the girl friend will not dumb his ass soon?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This kinda diabolical mindset won't get us far.

Hector09:
U dont need help cus if u need help u could ve help urself, maybe u are enjoying the attention cus if not, any time she invite u, just dont honour her invitation, its as simple as that, when i was in jss2 to ss1 i was ones in ur shoes thankGod for my elder sister who was aware of it and she gave me guildlines, i we never advice u to sleep with an older woman thats the same age with ur mum

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sometimes we don't willingly choose who we grow romantic affections for. Loneliness is really bad cos you'll be ready to manage any body giving you attention

BabaIbo:

But she had a kid which is almost same age as the op, and again you know the relationship is not a genuine one and can't lead to any meaningful destination.
There are two things involved
1. It maybe the lady is lonely and needs someone to have fun with, which has less than 20% probability. OR
2. Maybe she's out to get something(you know what I mean) from him since he's young and vulnerable, which has over 80% probability
I will advice him to run because either way it's wrong and won't favor him at the long run

einsteine:
Op, liar liar.

Fantasies.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You think the white man would get this far if they had this our mindset?

Viergeachar:


Pedophiles also have romantic affection for children. So why do we castigate and arrest them when they show such affections