Is it a man who fought his wife?
Is it a man who defend himself from attacking wife?
Is it a man who retaliate by beating his wife when she attacked him?
Is it a man who beat the wife when she violate the rules of the family?
Is it a man who beat the wife to correct her?
Is it a man who beat the wife as result of anger and provocation?
Is it a man who beat the wife as result of frustration?
By your definition of a wife beater, what should a man do to avoid being a wife beater and what should the wife do to avoid being battered

Do we also have a husband beater?
If so what should the husband who is being battered do?
Because why am interested in this, certainly fighting very 100% inevitable in every marriage, So what do you we should do to prevent this "wife beating "

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Marriage is very important in our life and most of our Nairalanders are not married yet, so they can learn a lot from the interaction and opinions of people.
Because this "wife beater" has caused a lot problems in the society; death, broken homes etc.

That moment you raise your hand up to hit your wife, that's when you become a beast.

fuckerstard:
That moment you raise your hand up to hit your wife, that's when you become a beast.

What if she first attack you, are you a beast when you hit her to suppress her?

Klinee:
What if she first attack you, are you a beast when you hit her to suppress her?

Yes! if she's your wife, if na another lady I can't say..

There are husband beaters oo. Are they female beast too?

Truth is, beating your wife for any reason isn't good enough but one thing people don't really know and understand is that emotional trauma kills faster than physical pains most times.. There's what a woman will tell you, you are already dead inside. But people don't consider that too..

fuckerstard:


Yes! if she's your wife, if na another lady I can't say..

Then she is not a beast? You are just being biased

Klinee:
Then she is not a beast? You are just being biased

he or she? I was actually referring to the husband. Under no circumstance should husband hit his wife. My own thought.

fuckerstard:


he or she? I was actually referring to the husband. Under no circumstance should husband hit his wife. My own thought.

But she is not a beast when she hit you?

Klinee:
But she is not a beast when she hit you?

I'm not trying to defend the woman or wife, is just that as a man and husband I should be able to avoid a situation where my wife hits me. She can't just pick up a weapon and use it on me unaware, something would def lead to another.

What kind of man pounce on a woman and start hitting her, to make matter worse not just any woman his wife. Well some people no even understand the reality sha, if 2 say dem dey land for prison am sure no man would be glad to hit his wife.

fuckerstard:


I'm not trying to defend the woman or wife, is just that as a man and husband I should be able to avoid a situation where my wife hits me. She can't just pick up a weapon and use it on me unaware, something would def lead to another.

What kind of man pounce on a woman and start hitting her, to make matter worse not just any woman his wife. Well some people no even understand the reality sha, if 2 say dem dey land for prison am sure no man would be glad to hit his wife.

You are not being holistic here, you believe that she can't just pick up a weapon and use it on you but you believe that a man can just pounce on a woman and start hitting her

Klinee:


You are not being holistic here, you believe that she can't just pick up a weapon and use it on you but you believe that a man can just pounce on a woman and start hitting her

I'm sure you understand what am trying to say, a well behaved man would take care of such situations and won't resolve to trading blows with his wife under no circumstances..

fuckerstard:



I'm sure you understand what am trying to say, a well behaved man would take care of such situations and won't resolve to trading blows with his wife under no circumstances..

How will he take care of the situation? You are just heaping the whole blame on the man without considering the woman's faulty.

fuckerstard:



I'm sure you understand what am trying to say, a well behaved man would take care of such situations and won't resolve to trading blows with his wife under no circumstances..

Why must the man always be the one to manage situations? You make it seem like the man alone must ensure that crisis does not happen in a relationship.

I understand your argument but you are being extremely biased.

There is this young man about 28 years married to his 26 year woman. They have a daughter in my compound.

The man fit get argument for 1am for midnight and them go day fight. If you put mouth they fit Beat you join

There was one time I was hustling and they were fighting. And they came outside to the compound disturbing everyone in the dead of the night. Naso me self come outside I first start with the man I Beat am, tell am say ‘Me day sleep, you day use your matter disturb me, abi na only you get problem, God go punish you’ me way be say I say vex when my client no send complete money

The wife japa go inside sharperly. By 6 am in the morning they resumed again. I just carry Agbara bitters put outside day watch film. Anyone way near me I go break him head both man or woman

(The wife is fond of leaving her shop and visiting other men) honestly forget this ladies and pretty faces they are useless inside, no one loyal Woman atall except na white woman