Oyindidi:
He is not too sure na

There is nothing to discuss with her. He must end the marriage and start hustling for himself

The only problem you have is that you love her deeply that's why you're emotionally traumatized even with your 65% proof.

You are the one that knows your wife but first check yourself if in any way you might be the reason for her excuse for cheating, if your conscience is clear then if she's the type that deserves another chance my brother pls do give her. After her sincere plea, give her conditions to unable her get tempted or have access to such again.

But they say once a cheat will always be a cheat. Unfortunately the statement is right in most cases.
Painfully talking from experience, and I guess we share same temperate level cos I waited for proof till I got it. Check your odds man, you know what to do.

Good luck on your decision!

Kearl:


Thank you, but am scared of crashing d marriage. If our families know then d marriage is a goner.

Den don bury this one head under black pot..


What marriage is this mumu OP talking about.

Oyindidi, I am ashamed at the fact that you are not ashamed of yourself , how can you say a grown woman who is married doesn't know what she is doing letting another man stick his dîck in her private , that means a man can stick in yours because you don't know what you are doing ?

olac21:

So you don finally leave her?
Thought you said you had no courage to dump her then?

I could not bear it. I wanted to pity her since her parents were involved, coupled with the fact that she kept crying and begging.

With the way I see threads of cheating wife here.. Hmm, Not gf o.
I mean wife, that's after you took your whole family and friends to pay for her bride price.. In fact, I'm scared of getting married nowadays.

Spits on women.

Kearl:


Thank you, I have proofs though but not hard enough. Will still wait and see how things go.

Tell her you want to take your kids for a DNA test.

That should get the ball rolling

Greenbullet:
Oyin..didi, I am ashamed at the fact that you are not ashamed of yourself , how can you say a grown woman who is married doesn't know what she is doing letting another man stick his dîck in her private , that means a man can stick in yours because you don't know what you are doing ?

Go sleep

Wow, thank you guys, so much mature responses here, I really appreciate them all. I will update you guys when the time is right. I did not divulge many info here cos I don’t want her to suspect I know yet without concrete evidence,that’s y my story is vague and not detailed.

Anyways thank you guys, you are all d best.

U need evidence... with that u can gain an upper hand...

Oyindidi:
Go sleep

go buy common sense.

Greenbullet:
go buy common sense.

Green, please say your mind and leave oyin out.

Have a nice day

Oyindidi:
Green, please say your mind and leave oyin out.

Have a nice day

have a nice day too.

Oyindidi:
Stop it before its too late. My brother, help her out of it. She may not really know what she's doing is wrong. If possible talk her this evening.

This post is dumb
A cheating wife doesn't know what she's doing wrong? Wetin person no go read for Nairaland

Do some James Bond stunt on your wife..Get spy gadgets,plant it on what she's carrying,place a tracker on the car and you can trace her movement, listen to conversations in the car, hack her phone etc. There are no rules when you need peace of mind searching for hard evidence against a cheating partner.

Good luck bro...I can only imagine the heart ache.

PS: No sex until you do blood test...Dno which lie you have to tell to pull an impromptu

I don't even know the kind of advice to give.I don't advocate for a cheating partner. Just sit down and strategize,if u think you can do without her then let her go. A cheating partner would always remain a cheating partner,they never change .