I have been in a meeting since morning, i had to put my mobiles on silient. After the meeting i found twelve missed calls from my GF and an sms that says 'U nt only burnt my credit i also stood foolishly unda d rain dialin ur nø 2 verify smtin 4rm u. D day i dial ur nø again call me a fool' i'm really pissed at her statement and have decided not find out why she called in the first place.

Good decision. When her head calm down she go talk and if her threat s anything to go by, U can save Urself the trouble of begging in a hopeless situation.

Wait till she calls U then when she has expressed her negative emotions respectfully, apologize and do a very good work at it. U hear?

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ndigbo:

I have been in a meeting since morning, i had to put my mobiles on silient. After the meeting i found twelve missed calls from my GF and an sms that says 'U nt only burnt my credit i also stood foolishly unda d rain dialin your nø 2 verify smtin 4rm u. D day i dial your nø again call me a fool' i'm really pissed at her statement and have decided not find out why she called in the first place.

dude call her back and find out whats going on while explaining the fact that you were in a meeting. smooth things over before it gets out of hand and oh yea get ready to by her more phone credits

Chicks throw tantrums all d time, its nothing new,

Call her and explain

@ op
omega25red has nailed the answer
she was wrong to have sent the text but you should understand her frustration and stupidity
stupidity in the sense that why didn't she get cover to make those calls
Anyway that aside u're the man n head and always resolve matters no matter how difficult or easy it is
2 wrongs don't make it right
Abi the chick don tire you n u wan make she waka.
Don't turn this little misunderstanding into anything big.

just do exactly what omega25red said, just call her up and explain to her. .

Reply her by text message: Tell her you were in a meeting and didn't see her call. Also, tell her to return the text message if she cares about you otherwise you will assume she really has put has threat into action.
This works wonders, you know.

@poster
the fact that this woman knew that you were at work and yet, expects you to ALWAYS answer her calls is a little worrying.
if she doesnt understand that your work is more important than the silly question (that surely could wait) that she was trying to ask you then maybe its all better this way.

the fact that she has decided to never call you back, not knowing why you didnt answer the phone, is another reason to get away from such tantrum lady.

funny how this woman will try to blame YOU for burning her credit AND standing foolishly under the rain.LOL!!!!
 
here is the email/sms reply i would have sent her: I am very sorry that i  couldnt take your call while in a meeting with my boss. i was about to call you back BUT since you feel so strongly about the fact that your question is more important  than my job then i will respect that and never contact you again!

the simple thing to do would have been for her to make ONE phone call then leave a msg saying:"call me back asap urgent!" et voila!!!

Ujujoan:

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U go it right Uju, There are some cases that people need to solve by themselves which doesn't need to be tabled in public. But I think it depends on the kind of mentality they have and how they deal with issues.

the great 190 is at it again

Thank you all. I couldn't be more grateful. To those who asked whether it was worth posting on Nl ? I wasn't just reasoning well at that time. I'm very sorry! She was at the house as soon as i got back from the office, n we er as good as, the day before yesterday!

^^^ nice now go and populate the earth

@Omega, the airtime stuff was what i first attended to, before i posted here yesterday. Thanks mehn

Apart from Love being able to understand your partner and listening is very important. She sent an SMS based on how she felt at that moment, she didn't know you were in a meeting, she must have thought you were ignoring her and such things piss we women off.

So, just call her and explain it all to her. If she truly understands, she won't be pissed anymore,

ITgurlie:

Apart from Love being able to understand your partner and listening is very important. She sent an SMS based on how she felt at that moment, she didn't know you were in a meeting, she must have thought you were ignoring her and such things piss we women off.

So, just call her and explain it all to her. If she truly understands, she won't be pissed anymore,

Thanks

ndigbo:

Thanks

you're welcome, 

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the fact that this woman knew that you were at work and yet, expects you to ALWAYS answer her calls is a little worrying.
if she doesnt understand that your work is more important than the silly question (that surely could wait) that she was trying to ask you then maybe its all better this way.

the fact that she has decided to never call you back, not knowing why you didnt answer the phone, is another reason to get away from such tantrum lady.

funny how this woman will try to blame YOU for burning her credit AND standing foolishly under the rain.LOL!!!!

here is the email/sms reply i would have sent her: [b]I am very sorry that i couldnt take your call while in a meeting with my boss. i was about to call you back BUT since you feel so strongly about the fact that your question is more important than my job then i will respect that and never contact you again![/b]
the simple thing to do would have been for her to make ONE phone call then leave a msg saying:"call me back asap urgent!" et voila!!!

Hilarious

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the fact that this woman knew that you were at work and yet, expects you to ALWAYS answer her calls is a little worrying.
if she doesnt understand that your work is more important than the silly question (that surely could wait) that she was trying to ask you then maybe its all better this way.

the fact that she has decided to never call you back, not knowing why you didnt answer the phone, is another reason to get away from such tantrum lady.

funny how this woman will try to blame YOU for burning her credit AND standing foolishly under the rain.LOL!!!!
 
here is the email/sms reply i would have sent her: I am very sorry that i  couldnt take your call while in a meeting with my boss. i was about to call you back BUT since you feel so strongly about the fact that your question is more important  than my job then i will respect that and never contact you again!

the simple thing to do would have been for her to make ONE phone call then leave a msg saying:"call me back asap urgent!" et voila!!!

Dat's rite

well i think she's selfish, for me i can never call for anythn cos i owe her no xplanation. this is a prejudice. ladys there are lots of better way to let out ur effussions.