The question is self explanatory but In the case of the abortionist u'r well aware of the no. of D&Cs.Wld u still go ahead & marry rather than marry a woman that comes with a package?

As the starter of the thread, it's customary for you to air your own views on this topic first.

What would be your choice?

As long as she not a serial-killer,then why not? Wait oo! Serial-killer~serial-abortionist. . . Am i missing something?

Siena:

As the starter of the thread, it's customary for you to air your own views on this topic first.

What would be your choice?

Wow u put me on the spot there.What if i said i was the 1 in that position,caught between a rock & a hard place.What wld ur counsel be?

cold:

Wow u put me on the spot there.What if i said i was the 1 in that position,caught between a rock & a hard place.What wld your counsel be?

You can't sit on the fence on this one - you must have a choice, or are you waiting to see what responses you'll get, before giving yours?

Bearing in mind that the serial "abortionist" might have damaged her uterus trying to maintain the "no child before marriage" rule, she may never be able to give you a child EVER! What then?

Siena:

You can't sit on the fence on this one - you must have a choice, or are you waiting to see what responses you'll get, before giving yours?

Responses are bound to be varied,but methinks gettin married to a single mum isn't such a bad thing,as a matter of fact is perfectly alrite.Like the cliche goes 'love conquers all'.

cold:

Responses are bound to be varied,but methinks gettin married to a single mum isn't such a bad thing,as a matter of fact is perfectly alrite.Like the cliche goes 'love conquers all'.

Oga u are contradicting ursef big time , dont u tink d same love can conquer dat of the serial abortionist.
like u stated in ur cliche, u can also consider the aborter for d sake of love 2 now.
mehn come correct cus u sound perplexed .

It really depends on why she is an abortionist, maybe circumstances myt have warranted dat (of course very genuine reasons) if not,I'll prefer the single mother to the abortionist.The abortionist might kill me one day.

blankees:

It really depends on why she is an abortionist, maybe circumstances myt have warranted dat (of course very genuine reasons) if not,I'll prefer the single mother to the abortionist.The abortionist might kill me one day.

What other explaination is there to comiting an abortion? SHe got pregnant for a man she's not married to .  . . period!

If asked to chose b/w a man who took his GF to comit an abortion and one with a love child, I'll chose the former!

I'm sorry but I want my first child to be my husband's too  . . 

what's a serial abortionist?

Do you really want me to answer you? I might have an answer for you but you may not like it-ooo!

SA Goddess:

Do you really want me to answer you? I might have an answer for you but you may not like it-ooo!

answer me pls, cause to me, the only way the poster would know if the girl what he says she is, is if he'd partook in those serial undertakings, i mean how else, unless if in naija, together with your lineage you have to declare to your intended how many eggs you'd flushed down the loo,   

Idowuogbo:


Oga u are contradicting ursef big time , dont u tink d same love can conquer dat of the serial abortionist.
like u stated in your cliche,  u can also consider the aborter for d sake of love 2 now.
mehn come correct cus u sound perplexed .

No sire i hav not contradicted myself 1 bit. Say u reside in 9ja,chances are for society especially relatives to frown upon a man gettin married to a lady with a package failing to c that that woman lookin all pious & saintly may not even hav a womb followin series of D&Cs. Now my point is if this is what u chose to do then it's just fyn with me.

In any case it's a tough call to make,the reason why i did not state the leaning of my thoughts until i was compelled by Mr Siena.

Ok, a serial abortinist is that 90% that was talked about in the other thread    but I get what you are saying about not knowing about the countless abortions unless one partook in them!  Tricky!

SA Goddess:

Ok, a serial abortinist is that 90% that was talked about in the other thread but I get what you are saying about not knowing about the countless abortions unless one partook in them! Tricky!

my thought was a 'serial' something is one that is done more than once or twice, i'm dying i tell you,

I was just messing around but anyway, someone may hide their past but it catches up with them just about every time, imagine a man getting married only to find his wife can't have kids and the reason for that is the damage to the womb as a result of TOPs, what does a man do then?

This is a hard one.

well, with the situation men go thru this days one might not really know if she had committed abortion before or not, you can still go ahead and marry. But, the other one is rather too complex.

Me think we should define these terms. Serial abortionist-person wey don see many kinds of dicks, test all the testable drugs for abortion and probably display her pussy to every quack for a trial. me no need define the other.

to me i think hooking up with a single mother is prefered coz atleast u would know that she was once pregnant and she didnt abort it rather than sicking to an abortionist

kinda hard one though

This ain't hard for me,though, i ain't gonna touch either of 'em with a hundred feet pole.

Konjour:

This ain't hard for me,though, i ain't gonna touch either of 'em with a hundred feet pole.

so you mean you wouldn't bang either one with the posters d ick?

poster if you are the one in this situation, i'm curious as to how you found out the number of abortions the woman has had i thought people keep such to themselves

omega25red:

so you mean you wouldn't bang either one with the posters d ick?

either way,i meant exactly what i wrote, both women share the same definition in my lexis.

I rather go for a single mother